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The first "NAME IN LIGHTS" story is actually about two people, because I did not feel I could do the story about one of them without the other, and because their story represents exactly what this website is all about .... Friendship and love.

I would like to thank BarbK, Happymom26(Kim), Paulette, NSmomof2(Trish) for all their help and input into putting this together. And I would like to thank Lena and Alta themselves for giving me lots of information about each other!

There is that friendship
that cannot always be explained, but only understood and
cherished by the two people that share it.

anon


Who knew that a chance meeting in February 1999 on a website called "Canadian Moms Alive" would be the start of a lifelong friendship that not only brought love and healing for two people but which also brought something special that was missing into their lives. Both of these ladies now know what is is like to share a mother and daughter relationship and a bond that will never be broken.


...warm, caring, loving, best friend, daughter, confident, excellent cook, thoughtful.... these are only a few of the words that have been used to describe Alta. She is someone who is so special that there could only possibly be one of her in the whole world. The friendships she has formed on the internet carry over into her real life and become part of her heart where she stores them till the end of time. She has been there through good times and trying times for all her friends.

"AltaK is one of the absolute best all around people I have ever met. We first met on the Internet and then in real life 5 years ago. She has become the daughter I never had. We did an unofficial adoption on her 38th birthday. I love her unconditionally and I know she reciprocates the feelings. We have forged a bond that can never be broken. She has enriched my life so much, just by being there when I need someone. She doesn't hesitate to pick up the phone, day or night, the minute she knows something is wrong or if something good is happening. I know she is there and will always be, when and if I ever need her. She is safely tucked away in my heart for the rest of my life and beyond.

If AltaK knows someone is in need, she is the first one to help, with no strings attached. I have been in Alta’s house when she has taken food from her own cupboard and given to someone in need, she has given clothing, she has also taken the time to go out shopping and find items that others want, package it up and ship it, sometimes at her own expense. AltaK is just one awesome lady.

Love you sweety and I will see you soon for a real life hugg.((((((((((Huggs)))))))))))Mom."
Lena (mom)



"Well as you may or may not know ... I met Alta through the internet on Aug 2/1999 and that day changed my life. From the time we met we "clicked". We were at ease with one another, we could laugh at each other and ourselves without taking offence. We shared the same layed back attitudes in regards to our children and our families. It was just over a year that I had known Alta that I suffered a nervous breakdown and was hospitalized. It was during this time that I realized how much Alta meant to me and me to her. My own husband abandoned me during that time (not physically but emotionaly and mentally) and my mother, try as she might, simply couldn't cope with seeing her own daughter so frail and in such a hopeless place. Alta however was there for me EVERY SINGLE DAY. She was a home daycare provider at the time and after her dh got home from work and the family was fed, she'd head over to the hospital to stay with me for 3 or 4 hours. She did this EVERY SINGLE DAY. She was my rock. Slowly, I started to laugh again and I'd have to literally kick her out of my bed at night and make her leave!

After that and months of therapy, my marriage slowly started to unravel. The ONLY person I could turn to on my down days was Alta. She NEVER judged me, she listened, encouraged me at times and she told me when I was being an ass other times.

She has ALWAYS "had my back" so to speak and she has a uncanny way of just "knowing" when your down. Even if I haven't told her and I'm having a rough week all of a sudden the phone will ring or there will be a knock on my door and Alta will be there! She's my bestest friend in the whole wide world!"
Barbk

"I can't tell you how grateful my family is to Alta and her fantastic recipes!!! While she was a daycare provider for many years, she offered up the best advice to us daycare ladies. Alta has made so many life changes and passed through each change with grace and dignity! A wonderful mother, a loving wife, true friend and uplifting part of the TP community. I'm so glad to have been lucky enough to cross paths with her and I would love to see her recognized for her dedication to her firends and the TP community. Alta, luv ya hun, you are the best and beautiful through and through!!!!
Thanks again"
Happymom26(Kim)

"This gal never ceases to amaze me She knows me so little, meeting me one time IRL and has made sure to keep in touch with me ever since!
Even sending me ecards for no reason other than to say hello. She deserves this award! Way to go Alta"
Paulette

"I think she is a very loyal friend, sticks up for what she believes in, is very helpful and always has the recipe you may need!" Trish (NSmomof2)


... Loving, loyal, caring, thoughtful, mother, friend, dedicated, strong, special.... just a few words to describe Lena, "The Rock of the Atlantic"! .... sorry Lena, had to throw that in there seeing as you are from Newfoundland. ;-) Lena has travelled across Canada to meet the people that she has built a relationship with over the years through the internet. Each and every person who has met her has been touched by her kindness and open heart. She is truly blessed with a loving, kind nature and the heart of a mother.

"There is so much I can say about Lena. I have known Lena for 6 years now and she is the Glue that holds everyone together. Lena isnt afraid to speak her mind and put you in your place but in a good way.
She is always there for her family and friends and everyone loves her. Recently her hubby Cecil suffered heart problems and do you think that ever stopped her, NO not at all. Not only was she there for her hubby But her Grandson was also in an accident and she was there for him as well. 5 years ago I suffered a breakdown and Lena was there for me, even though it wasn't in person she made damn sure that Barb checked on me and she always emailed and called me and made sure my dh Rob was taking good care of me. 2 Years ago Lena flew up here from Newfoundland with Sherry (from BC) to surprise me for my 38th Birthday., WOW what a surprise that was to me. Not only did they surprise me but Lena adopted me as her daughter (well as officially as we could) as she is the Mother I never had and will always hold that special spot in my heart.

No matter what the problem is, if you call, email or write Lena you will get a reply no matter what, and if she isn't able to help you she will damn well make sure she finds someone or something that can.

Lena is a dedicated Nurse, Grandmother, Mother, Wife and Friend and if you are ever lucky enough to meet this woman you will never forget her as she is as rare and special as they come.

I Thank God for sending her my way, Lena i love you Mom! "
AltaK

Ahhh..Lena. Where to start. I have known Lena online for a number of years now. And have met her IRL a few times. She's kind and caring, honest and a wonderful friend. I think the world of Lena. NSmomof2

These ladies are truly very special and very lucky to have found each other. I, for one, am truly inspired by their love and friendship and thankful that they have shared so much with us all.

Thank you ladies, for both being who you are and touching our lives.

The following are links to website that Lena and Alta have made dedicated to each other. They are truly special.

ALTA'S WEBSITE

LENA'S WEBSITE



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September 8, 2004

From now on when I think of the word "Strength" I will think of JennN! What a truly amazing person. I am sure that, from what I have learned about her, she will probably say that she is not amazing, she is just a mom who loves her daughter. But from now on, to me, she will be a person whom I admire and respect tremendously.

I would like to say a special thank you to Heather (msHLS3), Alta, Chantal (Ms Fizzle) and Kim (Happymom26) for all their help in putting together this very special "Name in Lights"

MOTHER'S LOVE
~Author unknown~

Her love is like
an island in life's ocean,
vast and wide

A peaceful, quiet shelter
From the wind, the rain, the tide.
'Tis bound on the north by Hope,
By Patience on the West,
By tender Counsel on the South
And on the East by Rest.

Above it like a beacon light
Shine Faith, and Truth, and Prayer;
And thro' the changing scenes of life
I find a haven there.

"Ahhh JennN, what a beauty inside and out. She is one of the strongest women I know. she has been through so much yet she some how still stays sane and is always ready with a kind word and a beautifull smile.

Her daughter was born extremely special and Jenn got through that with flying colors, I am sure she had her days but she has always been there for her daughter and continues to do so.

Her persoanl life hit a snag yet she stayed strong, supported her DH and in the end won and is continuing to fight for what she believes in, her family and her marriage.

When I first met Jenn she made us all laugh with her crazy antics and asking "whos underwear are these" as she picked them up off my floor in my home, and guess who's they were, HERS!!!! She can not only laugh at others but she can always laugh at herself.

She is one of the most genuine women I know and I feel honored that she considers me one of her friends.

Jenn you are a shining star!!!! Love you, Alta!
"


JennN...the HAG! I am not sure how to say this {when typing things sound a little different then when speaking...kwim?} You don't regularly bring up past life experiences to bring attention to yourself. If anyone could ever say well this what I went through it would be you. With all that happened in dd's life and the bump in the road your personal life had...you could be getting cyber hugs forever. But that's not you. You show people that ok life happens...you deal with it at the time and then move on. You learn and grow but you don't carry it around with you like a worn out suitcase. we have been TP friends for a long time, and I was honored when you felt comfortable enough with me to share pictures of dd. we may not chat daily any more but it is a comforting feeling to know I have a friend like you around. msHLS3 - Heather

"JennN is the strongest person I know. Her daughter was born with a very rare condition, and even though we all say that we would do it if our child was born differently than we imagine Jenn has lived it and done it! She stuck by her daughters side for every operation she has had, and she has made sure that her little girl has had the most normal kids life possible. She has raised a great kid and you know how the old saying goes 'the apple doesn't fall from the tree..' Her DD is just as strong as she is, and as brave (or more brave) than any adult.

It was an honor being able to meet Jenn, and talking to her face to face. She is a spunky woman and I am proud as heck to call her my friend!" Ms Fizzle
"


"I feel Jenn to be one of the most inspiring ladies at TP. The love and support she shows to everyone who enters her life is incredible. In any situation she can; she is there to lend an ear, her heart and her humour to help you through to rough times. Even when going through her own challenges, she cares enough to offer a kind word to anyone who needs it. Jenn, you are such a strong inspiration to the rest of us, keep it up and thanks so much for just being you:) happymom26"

I can only aspire to have the strengh, courage and willpower that Jenn seems to have in such a great abundance. I hope that one day I can meet this wonderful woman and and call her friend.

The following is a website that Jenn has created for her daughter..

JENN'S WEBSITE

Email: just_awards1@yahoo.ca