so i'm kelly and it's 3:28 am. im pretty tired so i just may be delerious, disregard what i say if if sounds delerious. I sometimes think that guys are much easier to be friends with,than girls, in life. This may be because they can't really tell when you are hiding something from them, or when something really is wrong. Your girlfriends are closer to you because they are more like you. They know when you are keeping something from them, and as i've found; when a girl knows something is just not right, she will find out what that "just" is. Guys may just be too lazy to do that sort of thing, or they are too lazy to realize, somethings up. I once thought that it was best for me to be friends with all guys, have no relationships with them, no dating that is, and have no close girlfriends. Is this a bad choice for someone who doesn't like to reveal themselves?? I'm not too sure what you think, but i find there are definite benefits to a girlfriend. Don't take girlfriend as lesbian language, i'm completely straight!! For one, my best friend is one of the most amazing friends in the world. Although we don't get to spend time together she is great. The others are just people i socialize with, they don't really know me. Is it also true that guys disregard hearing what they don't want to hear. Or do they just forget it . hm. maybe i should try that one the next time i'm upset about losing something important. Did you know carb freedom yogurt, is not carb free. thats sort of like guys. The one's that say, "i'm different from all the other guys" are no different, just because they said that. Don't believe this lie, i think it's a line used when a guy already knows a woman, but wants something else out of it. you know the lines to pick up a girl.....are there different degrees of pick-up lines that guys use? I guess the first one would be something like " i lost my number, could i have yours" then, if the guy is lucky(or very cute), the girl will talk to the guy....too bad for the guy, he'll need more lines to get through the relationship.Lines like "i'm not like the rest of the guys" and then next, after he gets something "how could I not call you"...then after a month or two, the girl runs into the guy, arm in arm with her cousin, as he lets go he says another and final line " hey beautiful, i lost your number" Is it true that your relationships will be based on how they first began?? Is it true if a guy lies about his age, he's most likely lying about other things? I'll leave you to figure that one out, i'm just saying, guys lie.......but so do women.