Is it fair to have an affair? I'm in a new relationship with someone. She's lied to me and cheated on me so I dumped her. Now we're back together again because I gave her another chance. I can barely trust her because of all this. She promised she would make things right. This is the last chance I'm giving her. In the meantime I've fallen for another girl and I'm confused. What should I do? I really like the other girl and she likes me too.

Confused Playa :)

The grass is always greener on the other side. And maybe in your case, the other girl really may be a better option. However, you have agreed to give your girl another chance. So now it's a point of honour (and you know how much honour means to Puss-In-Boots! *twirls whiskers*)

Apparently you love the girl you're with enough to give her another chance even though she doesn't seem to deserve it. I think you should stick to your word and let her have her chance. If she repeats her mistakes, you would be wise to move on.

It's never fair to have an affair...not to yourself, your partner or the one you're having an affair with. If you cheat because she did, it wont end the vicious cycle. Besides, the 'other girl' is not likely to want to be a third party. Good Luck!

Dear Puss-In-Boots,

I really like this girl at school, but she already has a bf. And her bf is one of my close friends. Recently, she's been flirting with me too and people are noticing. I havent even told my best friend about this because I dont want anyone else to know.

My problem is, should I tell my friend that his gf's flirting with me and make him upset, should I say nothing, or should I tell her how I feel about her? Help!

Pur3 Tw!st3d

Ahem...not everyone can have the same luck with Ladies that I do..but let me try to help. You cant tell your friend that you've been flirting with his gf because he'd never speak to you again. And you can't tell your friend's gf that you like her, because again, he'd never speak to you again. This isn't very helpful, but you'd best wait for them to split up, then tell her that you like her. If she flirts with you, she's probably not serious about him so you might not have to wait long. But util then, put her out of your mind, because your friend's happiness should always come first.

Dear Puss-In-Boots,

Why do we have to pay exam fees separately? Why cant it all be included in the course fee so that we dont have to go thru so much hassle?

Pepsi Blue

Exam fees are separate because they are not fixed. My research found that Informatics tends to increase, and decrease exam fees frequently.

So if you had paid the exam fees with your course fee, and the exam fee goes up, lucky you! But if it goes down, not so lucky you... So that's why you pay it separately.