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Christian
BDSM
Christian BDSM is for Christian couples who practice a lifestyle in which
the husband is the head of the household, and the wife is obedient and
submissive*. This does NOT mean the husband is abusive and the wife
is a doormat. This is a consensual lifestyle that both adults
must agree upon before entering into this kind of lifestyle, even though
it is Biblical. Just as God gives us free will to choose Him, so
must we give free will to each other instead of by force or coercion.
To let them decide if they can live this way. After both adults agree,
the next step is to decide how to enforce this should the wife fail in her
duties**. Punishments can be as light as a simple scolding or
restriction to spankings and corner time. It all depends on what
each agree to and what works with the wife. I knew a wife who would
emotional beat herself up so bad, after disappointing her husband, that he
didn't have the heart to punish her more. What works for one wife,
may not work for another. This is a very serious lifestyle and not
to be entered into lightly, but it also can be playful and fun.
*If he does
something that is against the Bible, she must have faith in the Lord. Do a
lot of praying. But never, I repeat, NEVER be a doormat or stay in an
abusive relationship. God wouldn't want you to do this and neither would
your family and friends. If, as a wife, you are not allowed to express
your concerns in the relationship then you are being abused and run, not walk,
as fast as you can, out that door. Marriage is a joint
venture. And like any other joint venture there must be only one person
who has the final say, but that doesn't mean this person has the right to abuse
his (or her) authority. They make laws to protect ourselves against just
this very thing.
**
I only
mention the wife's failure only for a few reasons. God will be the
one to "correct" the husband should he fail in his duties. It
isn't up to the wife to correct the husband. It may not seem fair, but in
the long run, I wouldn't want to be in the husband's shoes when he has to go
before God to answer to Him regarding his failing of his duties.
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