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**Note: These are guidelines to protect the friendship between friends when relationships come between them. Please note that these are suggested guidelines and are in no way rules. It is suggested that these guidelines be followed as written to lessen the chances of a conflict occurring.

To clarify the above: THESE ARE STUPID GUIDELINES AND CAN BE CONSIDERED USELESS


CONDUCT GUIDELINES FOR THE PROTECTION OF FRIENDSHIP & RELATIONS


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1. When dealing with relationships of person-A and a significant other, person-B is not allowed to pursue any form of sexual relations with significant other of person-A. Consequences will include severe repercussions (i.e. banishing, beatings, verbal abuse, etc.).

2. When dealing with multiple sexual advances on a John Doe or Jane Doe, it is fair game. "May the best man win". Once relations begin to occur between person-A & John/Jane Doe, other persons must follow Guideline 1. However, if John or Jane Doe has sexual preference to one person, refer to Guideline 4.

3. When dealing with Ex-relationships of person-A, person-B is not allowed to date person-A's Ex without the prior knowledge to person-A. Consent is preferred but not required, however, out of respect of person-A and the group, awareness is of great importance.

4. When dealing with multiple sexual advances on a John Doe or Jane Doe that has preference for person-A, other persons must not interfere with the formation of that relationship. However, if John or Jane Doe has sexual preference for person-A but who has no sexual preference for John or Jane Doe, Guideline 2 will apply.

5. When dealing with sexual advances of person-A to person-B's brother/sister, awareness to person-B must be known. Person-B's parents must also be informed. Consent is not required by person-B, but is preferred.

6. When dealing with sexual advances of person-A to person-B's cousin, awareness to person-B is optional and consent is not required.

7. When dealing with sexual advances of person-A on person-B's friend, normal sexual advances are permitted.

8. When dealing with a situation where John or Jane Doe has sexual preferences for person-A & person-B, it is fair game. Refer to Guideline 2.

9. When dealing with a situation where a significant other changes sexual preference from person-A to person-B, person-B should, but not necessarily inform person-A. Person-B should however inform the group for counseling. It is usually in the best interest of a person-A and person-B to remove significant other from both relationships.

10. When dealing with an age difference, it is preferred that significant other not be more than four (4) years difference-three (3) years preferable-until younger has reached maturity of eighteen (18) years. After both have passed the age of twenty (20) years, age difference can be ignored. Refer to Guideline 11.

11. When dealing with problems with the significant other of person-A and the persons of the group (i.e. physical appearance, mental capability, racial or ethnic background), it is suggested that other persons do not have any right to judge person-A's feelings for their significant other. Other persons may or may not give advice or comment to person-A depending on the nature of the advice or comment. However, for serious situations, refer to Guideline 12.

12. When dealing with a serious problem with the significant other of person-A and the persons of the group (i.e. known that significant other is cheating on person-A), it is recommended that other persons inform person-A of the problem.


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