by
Valerie Poulard
There comes a time in everyone’s life to say goodbye to a beloved someone who had passed away. Today and even a thousand years or more ago, it is customary for a funeral ceremony to be held on behalf of that person to express one’s sorrow and to paid respect to his/her memory. All over the world a lot of different beliefs about the dead are common; some believe that when someone dies, they will get reincarnate and be reborn. Another mutual belief is whether or not the dead gets saved and enters the gateway of heaven or be condemned to eternal hell, based one how good or how bad that person had lived his/her life. With all of those different beliefs going around, a lot of different methods and rituals are used to burry the dead and to perform the funeral ceremonies. But despites all of those cultural differences between funeral rites, there still exist, one basic common idea. A funeral is a chance to honor the person that had died and to bid them adieu.
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the exploration of the continent
At the time of someone’s death, the whole village can hear the loud and sorrowful wail from the house of the deceased. A fortune teller would then be sent for to determine a proper “…date for the funeral and burial.” A great number of rehearsals would be performed in preparation for the actual funeral itself. And when the day of the ceremony finally arrived, hot water would be prepared to carefully wash the body, which is then “…wrapped in white cloth.” The day is filled with a lot of singing and dancing, and as night approaches the mourners would celebrate with a lot of drinking, in an effort to enjoy themselves since the funeral day is regarded as a festive occasion. The dead would “…usually be buried in the yard or in the hunt.” And the whole assembly would then part the next morning while visiting the cemetery, as the whole funeral occasions would be concluded with three-mouth mourning period (Matsunami, pg.55).
Similarly
the Mossi people of
In the
western part of
The festivities would go on for an entire day after the death, then the body would be taken out to “… a mound-shaped grave,” to be buried (Matsunami, pg. 57). But the dead skull would have been taken out before-handed to be buried separately beneath the family’s house, and occasionally it would be taken out from it’s resting place to be offered food. Immediate family members must show their respect by shaving off their hair and the wearing of “…blue or black mourning clothes.” After a year or so after the funeral an extravagant celebration would be performed once again in the memory of their beloved (Matsunami, pg. 57).
In
Upon someone’s death in the tribe of Azande, “…the women of the neighborhood form a circle around the deceased; the men remain for the most part in another ring, whispering about the distressing event” (Matsunami, pg. 59). The burial expenses would fall upon the family of the dead one. The body would be wrapped by a close family member “…in a cloth made of bark,” and must be buried in the same afternoon if the death occurred in the morning, and if it happened in the afternoon, someone would have to keep a all night long watch over the body, so it could be buried the next morning (Matsunami, pg. 59).
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on with
If the
ceremony was to be held by the “…Ethiopian Orthodox Church, an acolyte”…
would lead the procession while carrying a cross or floor to bake bread for the
Holy Communion during the funeral ceremony. The minister would then follow,
“…the incense bearer, the coffin, the male mourners, and finally the women
mourners. Along the way, the procession would stop, and “…the coffin is
placed on the ground.” The teary
women would then start singing a song and the rest of the assembly would follow
along. Afterwards the procession
would continued on to the church, “…where an ox is sacrificed, and then
passes through the blood-stained churchyard to the cathedral.”
Then a mass would be held by the minister and the body would be buried
(Matsunami, pg. 62).
The funeral ceremony differs for different tribes, for instance in the Amhara tribe whenever an older person is in his/her deathbed, someone call a sharman would be called. “He gives last rites, and after death, assigns a burial ground in the churchyard” (Matsunami, pg. 52). The deceased body would then be washed, and then wrapped in something called a “shama”, and then be conducted to the church in order for the mass to begin. Later on it would be carried to the nearest graveyard to be buried. Days after the burial, “…when it is thought that the soul has the earliest opportunity to be freed from purgatory,” a funeral feast called “tazkar” is held. But in the central highlands among the Dolze, a bamboo is build “…near their living quarters where they bury the corpse.” It is believed that as long as the spirits of the dead ones are cared for with respect, they would protect the current surviving family (Matsunami, pg. 62).
The
“Gold Coast,” most commonly known as the “
Within
In the
newly formed country of
The
graveside is chosen in a far off distance area since it is generally believed
that the soul of the deceased lived within the grave.
It’s even said that if “…one point to the ground on his way home,
the curse of death will capture him.” After
the burial, the wife and children and any other family member who had lived with
the deceased would pack up their belongings and leave the house with everything
else that had belonged to the dead one. During
the funeral a sheep would be killed as a sacrifices to the person that had died
and feed to the mourners, but the stomach of the sheep stomach would be reserved
for the next male heir in the family that would observed all of the
responsibilities of the deceased one. The
successor was to keep the sheep stomach, that would be twisted with
pleasant-smelling substances, around his neck until it decomposes (Matsunami,
pg. 74).
The hot and
humid air of
Funerals are a
bit different for the Yoruba tribe of
Stopping
at
The
grieving males in the family would sacrifice some animals and the female
relatives would cook a meal. The
guesses would “…recite the Qur’an in chorus, led by the village elder.”
The analphabetic people would “…repeat the name of the god Du’a
using the Islamic rosaries, and when they had gone trough each of the
beads…” Later on they would repeat the word “Assalaam” seven thousand
times “…in a ceremony called “Jaria,” which is believed to wash away the
sins of the deceased.” The people
that recited all seven thousand times are considered to be blessed.
The “Jaria” would continue for seven days, and in the seventh day a
simple ceremony is held “…for the peace and happiness of the deceased.”
The family must mourned for a period of six months, they cannot attend
any parties or dress up for any occasion and the widow of the deceased is
forbidden to live her house for four months and ten days.
The village may also grieve for a period of two months.
Indeed,
Africa contains a variety of different funeral rituals, but in the end it
doesn’t matter how long , or how expensive they are.
What’s really important is that the family and friends that gathered
for the funeral occasion had an opportunity to express there grief over their
loss and to say a final goodbye to someone that was held in the greatest esteem
by one person or the entire village itself. In
each little corner of the world that grief may be expressed differently, but
it’s still the same; the sadness, the regrets, the may be’s, and the loss.
In
observance to the above information, it is noticeable that no matter what
country, area, state, or location of the death, most of the mourners just wants
the deceased soul to rest in peace by performing those elaborate ceremonies in
their behalf’s. Even if they
believe that their souls would be reborn into someone else’s or they would
join the regions of ancestors that watch over and protects them from harm, they
strive to ease the passing from life to death as best as they can.
Some
people may accept that death is part of life, shed tears over the body in the
funeral ceremony and accept what is and not spend all their times wondering of
what could have been. In general,
what most people want is to make their peace with the dead, so they could go on
with the serious matter of living. Underneath
all of the dancing and feasting, people are just trying to deal with the harsh
reality that had befallen upon them. Ultimately,
all funerals are the same underneath, not matter how different it may seem
physically and traditionally. The
profound sorrow can be found underneath all of the festivities and rituals.
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Work Cited
Levy, Patricia Marjorie. Cultures of the World: "Nigeria." Marshall Cavendish Corporation, 1999).
Matsunami, Kodo. International Handbook of Funeral Customs. Westport, Conn.: Greenhood Press, 1998.