A PERSONAL NOTE: Well, as it turns out, I don't suffer from BPD after all. However, while I don't fit all the criteria, I definitely have some of these traits, and I still think more information on this common and intriguing disorder is necessary in order for anyone to heal.
Personality disorders can be ugly things. Most ugly of all is living with one. A personality disorder can't be fixed by anything except behavioral changes. Recognizing your unhealthy behavior and then acting to change that behavior results in success, and eventually, the unhealthy behavior no longer occurs to you. I have practiced this for months and am doing quite well with it, although it is certainly not easy. So here's the scoop:
Borderline personality disorder, or BPD, is by far the most common of personality disorders. Yet despite its prevalence, it remains virtually unknown to the general public, partly because the diagnosis is so new. For years, "borderline" was used as a catchall category for patients who did not fit more established diagnoses. The disorder also appeared to coexist with, and border on, other mental illnesses: hysteria, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, multiple personality disorder, [et al]. In 1980, the disorder first appeared in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual's third edition (DSM-III.) There are 8 generally accepted criteria for BPD, 5 of which must be present for diagnosis. The eight symptoms are seen to be intricately connected, interacting with each other so that one symptom sparks the rise of another. The 8 criteria may be summarized as follows: