I've always had a hard time remembering which aunt/uncle/cousin/niece/nephew is who, so I put
all the terms in a family chart, and now I'm passing it on for everyone else.
In the event that we don't have a word for it yet,
such as "the spouse of my brother", I left it blank, as oposed to describing the relationship. I didn't want to confuse any new people (or old).
I also put all of the males on the left, and females on the right, it helped keep things simple and organized while I worked on it.
-My granny who does geneology helepd me with the charts.
This first chart is from the loD perspective.
simple loD version here
The second chart is from the be' perspective
simple be' version here