Love + Little details + Advices
I think love is definitely the most beautiful thing on earth and the most precious thing a human can have. Animals can't show love to other animals because they always change each year, well, most of them do. We, humans, when we found "The one", it will last forever. Yes, we do have heartbreaks, we do make mistakes, but that's not when we'll give up. Teenagers commit suicide because their lovers dumped them, WTH ? If your boyfriend/girlfriend actually dumps you, of course you'll be sad and cry alot. After, you'll realize that he/she is NOT the one you've been looking for, you gotta keep looking. You gotta think that "The one" for you is gonna be way better than your last boyfriend/girlfriend. All you need is patience. I know not everyone is patient, I'm not really patient myself. I know this friend, he's almost 20 and never kissed a girl. Why ? He's waiting for "the one". Alot of people keep their feelings for themselves until they really think and know that their one true love will come. And I just think that's beautiful.
For Girls
Most girls are always bragging about their boyfriends. When you go to school, talk with your girl friends. Most of them will be babbling "Oh, yes he bought me this, he bought me that, isn't he cute ?" Ok, I know this is hard, but the truth is that us, girls, are ALOT meaner about love than boys. Yep, that's the truth. We always temps to look at little details (Ex.:"Oh, he has big ears" "his hair is a lil bit too long"). That's our nature. But REAL girls (no offense to the others) are pretty serious about boys. When they like somebody, it's hard for them to tell, REALLY hard. Beside expressing their love, they can do anything. They could say their most deepest secrets to they crushes but they can't say "I love you" ? I'm like that. REAL girls dreams alot about the future. They're kind of paranoia. (Ex.:If I go out with him, could he cheat on me ?"). And that, is a good thing. For REAL girls, it's hard to fall in love. Them too, are waiting for "the one". They're mostly sensitive and serious. They like guys who make them laugh. I'm like that. For the OTHER girls,for me, it's the kind of girl who always think they're popular with guys. Sure guys are nice with them but is that all ? All day, gotta wake up early, makeup makeup ! For God's sake, you're going to school ! You're gonna hit the books ! I'm not saying that you should look like a drug dealer or anything, just be yourself ! All day "Am I too fat ?", it's kinda annoying. Guys like girls for who they are, not from how they look. Unfortunaly, SOME guys are like that. Me, I'm just waiting for the guy who likes me for who I am, really. Alot of girls are always talking about when their prince in shining armor will come ...... HELLO ??? We're in the year 200 now ?? You can dream all you what but don't get carried away.
For Guys
Guys, well, I'm just a girl saying my opinion, so if I'm wrong, tell me. Ok, so guys too are trying to look good for girls. They can be just a TINY BIT pervert but it's ok. I think that's a way to compliment a girl for guys when they're too shy with words. But REAL perverts are pretty, how can I put this ? They are pretty nasty with compliments. If you think a girl looks good, then just tell her. (Ex.:Hey Samantha, you look pretty good today). Smile and say that you're not joking. But don't say that EVERYDAY. That's the kind of stuff a pervert would do after pinching a girl's butt. They're only trying attention, I guess. A guy doesn't usually ask a girl out these years (Chickens). Now it's up for the girls to make the first moves. WTH ?? Most guys like girls for who they are (I hope I'm telling the truth) not form how they look. Sure, they look at girls bodies alot of times and drool but while drooling, do they really like her for who she is ? I don't think so. Maybe but not the guys I know. So, guys, hope you find a girl who accepts you for who you are and that you accept physically and mentally.
Thank you for reading !