Fair enough. I'm sure that some of you, especially the females, have a lot of things that you want to vent. That's fine, and that's what the message board is for. However, I thought I would go ahead and respond to some of the things that I'm sure you'll be saying. Here goes.

"You are just angry because you haven't found the right girl yet"

Well, not angry. I have no problem getting dates anymore. I just want other guys to understand what's going on with women when they act as they do, so they'll know how to deal with it. And that's what you want, right? A guy who knows how to deal with women?

"You must be after the wrong type of woman."

Apparently. I've discovered that anyone can fake it for a week, or even a month, or possibly even a few months. But after that, it becomes painfully obvious that I've just wasted a large amount of time on a woman who is clearly wrong for me. If you can give me clues about how to spot the "right" type of girl, I'd be glad to hear that, and if I find your advice useful, I'd post it here.

"You must be trying to date girls who are knockouts. If you gave average looking girls a chance, you might find the right one."

Naw. I don't know where you live, but there ain't no supermodels around here. Most are average to above average, and I have to say since I consider myself average, that's the kind of girl I shoot for. Not knockouts, but not hard on the eyes either. I don't like to date rail thin girls...in fact, I prefer my women a little curvy. And they all respond identically to the same treatment.

"All women aren't like that."

Undoubtedly, and I've said this specifically as I wrote this. Not all women are like this. In fact, I will say that this only applies to about 99% of the girls out there.

"You're looking for pity."

No, I don't want pity. I don't want everyone to feel sorry for me, in fact, I want to hear from guys who have success and share what they've done so we can all benefit. There's nothing wrong with learning from the mistakes or successes of others. I also want to share what I know so they might improve their own dating success, hopefully.

"You're blaming others for your problems."

If you'll read on the home page, you'll clearly see this sentence:"Here you may commune with your fellow men and learn that, in all probability, it is you who is the cause of all your relationship problems."

I wouldn't call that blaming others for my or anyone else's problems.

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