obsessions
obsessions are bad things to have. but most of us have at least one in some shape or form. they can be small or large. they can end in pain or sucuess, or can last for ever. they can be over people, things, ideas, places, or just about anything. they are ok to have as long as you don't go overboard by hurting your self or someone else.
sometimes you can tell if you are obsessed. sometimes you can't. which brings us to the point of this list.
in case you either can't tell are arn't sure if you are obsessed with anything.
for convence sake i'm going to use a person as the obession. you might want to change these to suit you.
these won't all apply to you unless you are a really sad person.
well lookes like i'll be helpin you get over your obsessions. only one problem i'm not too good at this so if you have any ideas that i think are senceable( you have seen the page so you know my standerds,so if i don't like it it has to be bad. ok?)feel free to share.
WARNING: Some obsessions you may never get over, they might cross over to infatuations. This is ok ( i hope otherwise i'm in alot of trouble). as long as you don't do anything illegal you should fine. so don't blame me if any of these techquineks don't work.
how you can tell if your obsessed
- you can't stop thinking about this person, no matter how hard you try not to
- you feel envy,anger,and other bad emotions towards anyone who is with this person.
- you steal pictures of your obession
- you imagine how your life would be with or without this person.
- you are shure that one day this person and you will be toghether
- you find it hard to go through a day without seeing them in some form.
- a very hi from this person makes your day go better.
- you stare at a picure of this person at least once a day
- soon people start to look like the one you
- you acculy want to go back to school to see this person
- you can never seem to talk to this person
- when you do talk it is sarcastic, or often school related
- you insist on changing your last name to theres
- you know more about them than they probly do
- you will listen to anything about this person no matter how minor
there is hope for you yet.(or getting over your obsessions. i like the other name better ) thanks to LINA for giving me this idea( i hope i spelled your name correctly. and i am glad you like the steps) :0)
- look at the faults that the person has. what no faults? if your guy/girl has no faults LOOK HARDER. then relise what the faults are and see if you can live with or with out them. trust me if there are too many or the person is a complete dumbass you can live without them.
- if your person is famous look at your life and look at theres chances are if they don't know that you exist than they won't marry you. whats that you say? you've met them, maybe i still have hope.....maybe not chances are they have met too many people to even care about you. sorry but thats the way it is.
- look at how the person treets others. if you don't like the fact that they hate almost everyone don't like them they probally won't change.
- its ok to care about your grades at school but when your live is centered around getting a 4.0 you have a problem. rember not everyone can be valiudictioran. (can't spell)you might not be it just focus on passing and if you become it (no i am not atempting on spelling it again) good for you.
- yes the internet is good i spend a few hours at it everyday.don't let it take over your life my brother spends 5 or more hours at a time on it ( whats funny is you think i'm kidding)and he is one of the few brown haired brown eyed albinos out there. my point is there is a world out there go see parts of it then make your own page complaining about it.
- don't worry about others mistakes, thats there problem chances are they know what there doing and they don't care if they can't spell damn it ( sorry about that...)
- ah the t.v. my one true love its on when i wake up and its still on when i sleep...thats bad even i get tired of it (mainly because there is nothing on between 3:30 and5:30 in the morning except for music videos and infomertials)sometimes you have to turn the t.v. off and listen to music, take a nap, go out somewhere, and if all posible do all three :0)
- don't try to forse someone to do something they don't want they will only hate you and that thing more untill the problem gets worse you get angry and give up and relise that you should have listened to me and not done it in the first place.
- no matter how much you like a group NEVER do the following...post posters signs and various other things about them on your car and name it the( group's name here) moblie, write there name on there face because they know who they are and so does everyone else going to the concert, don't dress up like them,don't focus the things that you do and like around what they do and like, don't take there last name and call it your own, doing this will cause constant laughter by me and maybe the artists them selfs(i know that i want my obsession mocking me)
- relise that there not yours. they wern't before you herd of them there not now and they will never be. they have there own lifes that you MIGHT NEVER be a part of
- when it comes to them liking or not liking you DON'T LISTEN TO OTHERS ESPACALLY YOUR FRIENDS. if a guy or girl stares at you maybe they just like to stare.
- finally( for now) one way to get over your obsession that always seems to work is to fins a new obsesson. hey you'll get over the old one and thats what you came for.