Topic: >heart / break<
Now Playing: The Ghost Woman and the Hunter -- Lacuna Coil
You know, people talk a lot about having a broken heart or ending a relationship, but I don't hear them talking about the way your eyes look when you're done crying. I don't hear about the two trashcans full of tissues that are all soggy and icky. I don't hear about the crying and not being able to stop. I don't hear about how none of your clothes fit right and every pair of earrings reminds you of him. I don't hear about feeling like you want to die because you're alone yet again.
If I had heard about it all, would it still hurt as much to end a relationship that means half my lyfe? And just what makes all that worth it? What are the real reasons to end it like that?
*sighs* I wonder if it's possible to "grow out of" a relationship. Is that the same thing as growing apart?
Damn it, does every female go through this at some point? I feel like I'm questioning everything in the relationship I have now. Or what's left of the relationship.... It's not fun.
The two of us are just so different! We really do have totally different backgrounds. My family doesn't ever touch. We don't touch each other. No hugging, nothing like that. Most of the touching we do is hitting each other. I'm not into family anyway. His family, on the other hand, is all affectionate and touchy-feely and stuff. His parents are practically stuck together. (Mine don't touch each other unless absolutely necessary.) He's into family, like taking pride in who you are type stuff. I'm so not. I'm independant and sometimes I feel like he's just some immature kid who acts like a spoiled brat! I feel like I'm dealing with a child, not a 17-year-old. (Well, some people would say the two are the same thing, but I won't go there.)
We're like total opposites. I don't know if this can work.
Besides, like I said before, I'm only 16. I'm not ready to figure out the rest of my lyfe yet! I'm not ready to stay with someone for the rest of my lyfe! A serious relationship I can handle, just not in the long long long run, you know?
I think he's clingy. Needy. I think maybe I've outgrown him. The natural thing to do would be to leave him, right? Well, what if I can't find anyone else? Yes, I'm independant, but I don't want to live along forever! And in the short short run (the month and a half or so run) I want to have a fun relationship where I don't have to constantly worry about what I say or wear or do because it might *gasp!!* make him MAD!
The worst part? In two hours I'm going out with him. I really don't know if I can do this.....