the insecure find their security in creating insecurity in others. insults are drawn by either blind anger or a will to destroy, and honestly, insulting someone doesn't make you better than them.. it makes you worse because you pretended to care. they find security, a sense of safety, in bringing down those around them, or at least in trying. by confessing an insult to another they are really shedding light on the weakness in themselves.
there is a difference between insults and blind truth.... insults are meant to hurt, while the truth may hurt, but needs to be said. and if the truth hurts, it isn't an insult.. it's reality, and if you deny your reality, you're denying the dark part of yourself, and denying any part of yourself is wrong, in my book.
and is this saying that the secure have no security? now that would be a contradiction... the secure are always, well.. secure.