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  1. He should meet her parents before going out, at least on the first date.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. If you ask him out, you pay. If he asks you out, he pays.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Women should offer to pay the bill.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He should pay the bill.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. First dates can only end up with a goodnight kiss.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He decides where to go on a date

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He should open/hold the door for her.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is inappropriate to go out on a date later than midnight.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. When he picks her up, it is okay to just honk the horn.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

 

  1. Sex on the first date is out of the question.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay to show affection in public.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is inappropriate for her to ask him out on a date.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He should always take her home.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It will be embarrassing for him if she offers to pay.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is normal to engage in sexual activity before marriage.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay to meet up somewhere. He does not have to pick her up all the time.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He must have made arrangements with her parents about dating their daughter.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Secrets must be revealed during the first date.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. If s/he can not make it to the date, s/he must inform him/her at least a day before.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He must be the one to ask her on the second date

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Personally asking someone out on a date is better than asking through email, phone, text, etc...

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay to date someone you met online.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay that she makes more money than him.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay if she asks him out on a date.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. You would consider dating someone of the same sex.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. His chivalry is important.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay to have sex even if you are not a couple yet.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay if she asks him if she should bring extra cash.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Dating is just doing something fun together.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Waiting for his call at home is so “last millennium”.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Dating is fun; it does not mean s/he is actually looking for a serious relationship

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. As long as you know you're in love, it's not important to wait very long to get to know each other before marriage.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. She sees a guy she likes at a bar; buying him a drink is a great idea.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. She should wait for him to approach her.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. If you commute during the date, he should pay for the fare.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Having a chaperone on a date is a turn-off.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He MUST bring her flowers.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. The very first date should be a group date.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay that she suggests where to go even if she isn’t paying.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Dating someone you met online is definitely a “NO-NO”.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay to go out on a date set-up by your peers.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is normal for girls to approach guys they barely know.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay for her to call him.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Women have to bring enough money to pay for the bill.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. It is okay that he asks her to pay.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. S/he must finish their studies before getting serious with dating.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Online dating is a good way to find someone compatible with you.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He should never ask her out though text.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He must be the only one calling.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He should always pick her up on a date.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Sex is gauge of compatibility.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. She should be demure and poised all the time so that he will like her.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1.  Sexuality is an avenue of self expression and pleasure.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Dating starts in the teenage years, you go about it independently, choosing whom you want to date, where you want to date, and what occurs on the date.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. You think that the campaign for acceptance and tolerance of the gay community is a good thing.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. You think being single beyond 30 does not necessarily mean you’ll be single for life.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. You can date more than one person at a time.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. He should always walk to the door to pick her up, and walk her back up to the door to drop her off.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. She should always wait for the young man to come to the door to pick her up and let him walk you up to your door to drop you off.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. She should keep her virginity until she gets married.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. A college guy meets a girl he’s attracted to and she seems to be attracted to him too. He does not know what to do (work up the courage to ask her for her number? Ask her out to dinner? Send flowers?) so he just had another guy in his dorm say at a party, “Hey, he really wants to hook up with you. He thinks you’re cute. You should go to his room.”

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Marriage is a goal in life.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Today’s “hook-up culture” is not respectable, it kills the dignity of dating.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. When men think of women, they think of sex.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

  1. Sex can never be casual, sex outside of the context of love of marriage can scar your heart.

_______AGREE                                  ________DISAGREE

 

Directions:

This test should be able to gauge whether you are a traditional or a modern dater.

Put an X mark on the blank before your answer. An ( X ) on the blank before the word Agree, if you agree or an  ( X ) before the word Disagree if you disagree with the given statement. Respond as you truthfully would in such situations. If you have never been in one or more of the situations, respond as you most likely would.