Welcome to my son's Memorial site. Ira Thomas Morihara was born Aug. 3, 1979, in Eutin, Germany. A few months after his birth, Ira's family moved to Maui.
Ira was a brilliant student and athlete. He had a good head for math and was learning fractions in the 1st grade. He enjoyed bodyboarding, soccer, surfing, baseball and football more or less in that order.
Following his parents' divorce, Ira was raised with his older brother, Jackson, by my parents on Oahu since he was 9 years old. He excelled in sports and academics under the loving discipline of his grandmother.
At the University of San Diego, Ira began grading papers for the math dept. as a freshman and also earned extra money tutoring. He was well-liked and enjoyed his life at school.
Ira passed away in his sophomore year, March 15, 1999. Although he never regained consciousness following his fatal skateboard accident on campus, I was able to be with him at his bedside during his last night on earth, as he lay in a coma.
Ira was in perfect physical health, despite the head trauma, so at the time of his passing we were able to contribute to an organ donor program to help others in need. The following letter is from the transplant coordinator we worked with at the Organ and Tissue Acquistion Center:
I want to express my sincere condolences to you and your family for the sudden loss of your son. I realize that you had to make one of the most difficult decisions at a time of such deep sadness. It was remarkable that you were able to look past your own personal tragedy in an effort to help others. It is my hope that knowing the results of your generous gift will bring some sense of comfort to you and your family.
The liver recipient is from the San Diego area and is a retired real estate agent. He is doing well and is expected to return home to his family this week. He is grateful to you for this precious "gift of life."
The first kidney recipient is a 38-year-old single mother of a six-year-old who lives in Massachusetts. She lost the function of her kidneys from diabetes and has been on dialysis since 1995. The second kidney recipient is a 56-year-old mother of three children ages 17, 16 and 14, from the San Diego area. These kidneys started working immediately and both recipients have returned home to their families.
Ira's corneas were placed for transplant with the San Diego Eye Bank's "Gift of Sight" program. One of the corneas was transplanted into a 15-year-old boy that had damaged his eye in an accident. His sight and the sight of another individual have been restored. The donated tissues will also help heal the wounds of cancer, burn and traumatic injuries for more than thirty-five people.
On behalf of these recipients and their families, I would like to convey our deepest condolences and heart felt thanks. I know that words cannot alleviate the pain you and your family must feel, but I hope that in the months ahead, you will gain comfort in knowing you have given the "gift of life."
I am available should you have further questions or if I can assist your family in any way.
I intend to use this site to commemorate my son through images, words & music and I hope his friends and family will be able to contribute. Ira touched many lives and I have several letters and words of kindness written by those who knew him. I would like to share these notes and letters with visitors. Thank you for this opportunity. Ira's father, Dennis