Between Us.
I don’t call him Joshua. It’s strange because so many people expect it, like I’ve entered some sort of inner sanctum where code names and secret passwords and hidden handshakes all have some sort of mystique to add to their already fucked-up lives. They want me to call him by his “real” name. But I don’t. I don’t call him Joshua. He wasn’t introduced to me as such. He introduced himself as JC and it is JC that I call him, even though sometimes it pisses him off. He says it sounds formal, which cracks me up because there is absolutely no formality in two letters slapped hastily together. I call him JC because it’s easy. He tolerates it but prefers other terms of endearment.
Some
people wanna know if he has some sort of “other”
nickname; a secret moniker that only a select few know. That’s crap too. Justin might call him “C,” and Chris will
call him “dickhead” when he’s in one of his moods, and Lance is just too busy to
call anyone by their actual names. He
tends to acknowledge friends with a half-assed grunt or a professional,
detached nod.
I
guess, in some ways, JC’s the pariah of the
group. He’s the one who longs most
fiercely for critical acclaim, but yet longs for security even more. It’s a difficult tradeoff because of the
demeaning nature of some of the stupid stunts they’ve done. He will pout like a child and get angry and
throw his hands around when things aren’t done exactly his way, but yet he’ll
be sweet as pie to the slick-ass promoters and ad execs and other low-class slimeballs that come to court their famous faces. He won’t ever, ever, ever let them know how
scathingly hot his anger burns. He saves
that for the delicate walls of his own self-image.
Again,
it’s sort of funny. He’s got an ego the
size of
“Love
you, Squirrel,” He whispered, his mouth just below my ear, and then he sighed
that contented sigh and I almost forgot about our little spat.
Squirrel. What kind of a name is that? I still don’t understand it.
I
first heard it one afternoon while we were out on his deck, just kind of
hanging around, with the sun at our backs and the sky a crystal, deep
blue.
“It’s
beautiful, isn’t it Squirrel?” He asked me, and I blinked in confusion but
muttered a reply. Squirrel? The name stuck. To this day he hasn’t explained it to me, but
if I’m walking in a park and some wobbly three-year old screams “Squirrel!” I
will turn around and look for him.
Sometimes he’s with me when it happens and a small smile of satisfaction
creeps onto his lips. He’ll take my hand
in his and squeeze lightly before pressing my fingers to his mouth.
“Love
you, Squirrel,” He’ll whisper again, and it’s then that I believe all is right
with the world.
Sometimes,
though…it isn’t. Like when he’s having a
bad week, or when he feels like he has to prove something to me, like he’s
still free to do whatever and whomever he wants, even though I’ve never said
otherwise. He tests me constantly, and
sings the praises of young actresses and singers and other up-and-comers, just
to see what I’ll do. Sometimes I let it
slide. Sometimes I don’t. And sometimes he makes me cry.
I
almost think he likes it when he does.
It’s some sort of sick fodder for his songs. It’s that insecurity thing again…he feels
worthless to begin with but helpless without a reason for doing so, so when he
snaps at me or throws another girl in my face…he validates his own feelings.
I
know. It doesn’t make sense. But it’s the only semblance of logic I’ve
been able to glean out of his actions.
He won’t let me in, and I’m terrified to offer him the same courtesy…and
I guess that’s the harsh truth that’s becoming increasingly harder to face.
On
the bad days…when I’m alone…I often think of leaving him. I think about just taking these broken wings
that have been tied with satin rope and letting them heal on their own. I think about breaking everything apart, and
starting over. And then I think about
what it would do to him…how he would relish equally the anger and hurt, and
harden even more the tough shell he’s erected to deal with the rough stigma of
his own warped reality. And then he
knocks on the door.
He
never says anything when he comes in. He
looks at me with blue liquid eyes and full lips trembling and waits for me to
make the first move. His eyes will close
as I gently touch his face, those thick lashes fluttering nervously and a shaky
sigh escaping his lips. He might step
forward, pulling my body to his, seeking warmth. He might just stand there until I
apologize…though time and again I’m never sure what I’ve done wrong. And on the absolute worst nights…he’ll walk
right past me, shedding tears as he goes, and sit on the edge of the bed. Slowly, methodically, he’ll remove his shirt,
as the moonlight casts a pitying glow over his naked torso…and I’ll see those
shoulders shake. He’ll sit there, alone,
for hours…waiting for me to come to him, saying nothing when I finally do, and
trembling when my fingers skate across the smooth planes of his back.
He’ll
pull me down on the bed, curling his body so close to mine, whispering to me to
hold him tighter, to shut out the world, to hide him in my very heart…and then
I hear it, again.
“Love
you, Squirrel,” Meant as a promise to the past, not a nod to the future. And my own tears begin. Then, and only then, do I call him Joshua.
© 2002 ~A.