just one day at a time
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Topic: relationships
so all the time that i have been friends with chelley, i always felt like i was the 2nd best, that in order to get to chelley, guys would go through me, so then i would pass on the word to her that they were all nice and good and that they would do anything. and so i played along, and never told chelley. cos i didnt want to hurt her. so i went along with it, and i even dated one of her ex's and so did maddie, and they were both bad boyfriends, but they are all nice when they want chelley, when they want to show her that they are good b/fs. then once they dont get her or get her and she breaks up with them, then they go back to their oldselves. and that bugs me. i have been there and had them act the way they always are and then they see her and they go crazy. even when i was going out with jake, it was hard cos deep down inside, i knew that he liked chelley. and it is hard. so it is like, well why do i even try to get a b/f or find someone that i can be close to and not have them like chelley. and then yesterday, neil and sean and one of their friends called me over and was talking to me at lunch. and i felt good! that they were going to talk to me and that they werent going to talk to chelley. personnally, i think that sean likes chelley. but the thing that got me was that, in the begining of the year, chelley tried to talk to neil, but she couldnt. and then she had me go up to him and tell him that she was sorry that everyone was bugging him and that she wanted to get to know him and that she wanted to talk to him but she wasnt going to go up to him, that he would have to go to her. and he said that he doesnt go to girls, that they have to come to him. and the fact that, well he didnt do it personnally, i was called over and talked to,...well it was great. even though guys like to use me to get to chelley, i am the one that see who they really are and i am the one who talks to them. so that was a plus,....but yeah i like neil, and chelley likes sean and if sean wants to go out with chelley, then he just needs to know that the relationship will not be that long....i know that i shouldnt be saying all this stuff about my best friend, but i cant tell anyone, and i dont care if she reads this, cos this is just me venting.