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I can honestly say I don't trust men. I am 26 years old married no kids by choice. I was abused by my uncle while my parents were away. It started when I was 13, when I was 16 my intrests were geared toward older women. Does my husband know, I could care less as long as I play the wifey role. I think I'm more angry that no one cared when I was younger so why should they care now. Well thats my story, when I'm comfortable I may be able to give more details. Thank You for inviting me. Monica

I'm not a woman but I'm 39 year old black male. And like the young lady Monica I was left alone with my uncle to babysit me. I use to hate it because he would get in the bed with me and pull down my shorts. I never told my parents, but I had to find forgiveness in myself to forgive my uncle. I'm not gay, I was abused when I was younger. To those men and women who has to endure more than what I went through, life gets better, love is real. Without Christ in my life my decisions would have been different. I guess everyone has their own way of handling it. Hope this helped someone, Proud Pop.

Living Through it: My mom and I was abused, alcohol was the problem but it was hard to forgive my stepfather. I’m a 37 year old female and I forgave him but it took a while to realize that it wasn’t my fault. I didn’t choose the way of other women, it didn’t cause me to be curious about other women but I grew up fast and still searching for love. Don’t give up on men! by Cassey

How can this help anyone, it just bring up stuff people are trying to forget. by Unknown

It's Needed: Be encouraged, what you are doing here is a good thing, I hope more people will come forward and help others in their troubles. Good luck your friend Connie.

Hi, you can call me Creamy Femme, I was never abused as a child, I'm curious because I wanted to know how it would feel with another woman. Now that I know my thoughts about men have not changed. There are good men out there and sometimes we as women have to realize that our soulmate is not for us to do the searching, but for them to find us. I don't know whether or not this fit the subject, I was curious for my own satisfaction. just being me Creamy Femme.