WHAT IF?What if? This is a question often asked, often thought about. What if I made another choice? What if I didn’t give up? What if I haven’t done it? Stop asking yourself these questions.
What if is a question that can lead us off our tracks. It’s one of those things in life that tries to mislead you. Letting you think that where you are now is not good. Letting you think you’ve made the wrong decisions in life, did thw rong things.
There is a difference between choices and giving the fight answer to a question. Choicses in life aren’t about ight and wrong. Chouce in life are about choosing between several paths. Every path brings you something else. Of course you van take one path while theother was better. But I believe we all get new chances. If the path you took didn’t fit into your lofe, didn’t belong to you, you’ll find new paths. These are what I call: Changing Paths. On these paths we realize it doesn’t fir. You start analyzing yourself, changing things. Some have a breakdown. Everytime a breakdown occurs in your life, you change. After you’ve changed, you can make another choice, walk a new path.
The point of the matter is, everytime you ask:”What if?”, you look back to the past in a bad way. Thinking:”What if?” brings you back to the past, withholding you from the present and the future. You can’t do anything about it anyway. You do have a choice though. You can keep asking yourself this question with the consequence that you can’t move one. You can also just accept it keeping in mind that every decision you make is good.
Everything has a reason and choosing what you choose has a reason. You just can’t see it now, because you’re still asking yourself that same question. Let do of it, you can’t turn back time. Let o of the pas and open yourself up to the future. Then you are able to see what the purpose is of your choice.
May 14th 2003
