UNPREDICTABILITYWhy do things happen what we don’t expect or when we least expect it? I guess life likes to take us by surprise. Life wouldn’t be any fun if you’d know what’s going to happen.
Not all the surprises are god of course. Sometimes we expect things to go rou way, in the meaning of, things going ad for others to please us or because it’s good for us. Don’t specualte that sort of stuff to happen too much. You’ll only find out it goes the other way.
But, even with good things, don’t specualte too much. Don’t even think bad things so that you won’t disappointed. Thinking such things is only thinking you’re weak. We are all strong people deep inside, we just got to trigger it.
The point is, don’t try to predict things, it won’t happen. If it does, it’s just because it was bound to, not because you predicted it.
We get surprised, things happen we don’t expect, because life wants to teach us something. Life wants to teach us that it’s okay to make plans, but trying to predict is something else. Life wants us to see that there are many twists and turns we don’t see.
So, everytime you think about specualting, predicting, looking in the future, stop. Everytime you start talking about it, hush, don’t utter any other word. Take life as it is and accept that it will stay surprising you, no matter what.
March 7th 2003
