THE END OF A FRIENDSHIPAgain...I was thinking about friendship, the word and the meaning of it. People say to other people so often that they see them as a good friend, but do they know what good friends are? What it means? A good friendship isn't there without the needed foundation, the trust and believe in each other. If you don't have that, then believe there is no friendship. The moment you can't trust each other anymore, the friendship is over. I know, I've experienced that. What's left if there is no trust, no believe? Even if I would want it, it just can't be. A good friend also doesn't let you down, leave you alone. It's just like marriage, through good and bad. Not only through bad, or only through good. I have had friends who were only there when thin gs were going bad and they left the moment it became good. But with the same people I wanted to share my happiness too. I also had a friend who was there when it was okay, but when it wnt wrong, they left. Those aren't even friends in the first place.
A friends is someone you want to talk with, someone you need, someone you call jus tout of the blue, to just talk to them. You don't leave a friend in the dark. If someone's really important to you, work for the friendship. What I have is experienced is that people don't do ANY trouble to keep the friendship and still expect to stay good friends. A friendship has to come from both side. So, if you love someone as a friend, you want to be good friends. Do trouble, show a little trouble to keep that friendship and always make sure you don't lose the trust and the believes. Because if you later want to stay good friends, no matter how hard the other person wants it, it just can't be. Don't fuck it up. I know, it happened to me...
December 29th 2002
