OVERCOME FEAR FOR LOVEWhen you experience fear for love, you’re so afraid that you think you can’t overcome it. When you think this you appareantly don’t know how to think positive.
One big reason of fear for love is often a low self-esteem. I don’t want to get hurt, I’m weak. I don’t want to hurt someone else, I’m not good. Will I find a worthy guy, I am not a worhty girl. Won’t a relationship tighten me too much, I’m not willing to let love compensate it. You have to overcome this. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t expect to love someone else or someone else loving you.
I always say. When you look in the mirror, say: I’m beautiful, I’m capable, I’m smart, I’m sweet, I’m a good person and I love myself. It really works if you believe in yourself and there’s no reason not to believe in yourself.
The only one who can command you, tell you how you feel, how you are, is you. Nobody else.
When you’re feeling fear for love or in other words fear for loving yourself, as this is the cause for not being able to love someone else, block everything other people say to you. Whether it’s good or bad, block it. All you have to do is listen to yourself, let yourself say positive things about you. Allow your inner self to release the beauty you have. Let your heart love yourself, because with fear for love, you block everything inside of you. Remove those obstacles and let your beautiful you do its work. You’ll love yourself and by that time you’ve already opened the gate to your heart once again. You’ve given people the chance to love you and you to love them in return.
It’s all nature, don’t block anything inside of you, let nature do it’s work. It knows you’re beautiful, let it tell it to you. Release yourself from all chains and be open and free.
May 9th 2003
