NOT GIVNG UP, NOT GETING CARRIED AWAYWhy is that people can be so stubborn? We know that staying together has totally no use, but still we want to keep trying, we want to torture ourselves. Being together hurts more than breaking up, but still we stay. We should know when to stop or not. If you’ve tried too many times, it’s over, it just can’t be.
Giving up shouldn’t be done everywhere. Sometimes you’ve just been through a lot to just give it up, what are risks for? (December 2nd 2002) If a couple never had the problems, never had such a big problem before they shouldn’t give up too soon, especially if the relationship wasn’t that short. Always try a second time. If it doesn’t work, too bad, but if it works, you’re happy.
In my case, I never had to go through trouble with BB, our relationship was way too easy and then we came to a point, try again or give up. We gave up too soon and when I realized we didn’t go through trouble, it was too late. Now I will never know if it would have had any use if we tried again or not, I’m stuck with the feeling what if? And that’s not good. We never did any trouble and when the time came we should through REAL trouble, we gave up. So, I give you one piece of advice: don’t EVER give up too soon, but don’t get carried away with trying again. If it doesn’t work after 2 or 3 times, it really doesn’t work.
December 9th 2002
