MISSING LOVEWe have periodes where we start to miss love. All you do is think of having someone in your life to fulfill that love. You start dreamin, fantasizing about being held or holding that someone. It’s not really a nice feeling, especially when there is nobody to give that love your holding in your heart to.
Well, there is something worse than this feeling. Because at this point your, harshly said, desperate. You start to look for someone. You see everbody new in your life as a potential.
First of all. Love shouldn’t be looked for, it looks. You can’t find love, it will find you. When the time is right. Just because you miss it doesn’t mean it’s time, not at all. Waiting is hard, that’s true. But, I already told that there is a difference between waiting and having patience. In short, waiting is tapping your feet, having your arms corssed, rolling your eyes, looking around every corner to see if it’s coming. Having pateince is just sitting back, focusing on what you have now instead of focusing on what you don’t have yet. It’s taking life for what it is and thinking it will come when it comes. After accepting, patince is the next step.
Now you know you can’t look for love, so you can’t look for the person too. As I’ve said, you’re desperate. In times of such despair you settle for everything. Just in the end you will find out that you don’t love the person you settled with. In other words, someone will get hurt. Why don’t you love that person? I’ll tell you why.
You were looking for someone and seeing everyboy as a potential. Here’s the key: love isn’t about looking and seeing, it’s about feeling.
You’ll fall in love with someone, when you do, you’ll feel it. The day you feel it is the day love found you. You will then really love the person. You had the patience and now you feel.
May 21st 2003
