LOSING FRIENDSHIPA lot of things happen in our lives. One of the toughest thingsi s losing a friendship. Now I'm not talking about fights.
I believe that there is only one friendship that will last a lifetime, that frien is called, the best friend. The other people are just simply friends. The matter with those other friends is, sometimes the friendship will die, it will lose its trength. It's like love relationships. You will still love each other, you will have special places in each other's hearts, but it just can't work.
There may be one of the two not feeling comfortable anymore, being irritated. I'm not saying that if you feel like this you should stop a friendship immediately, maybe you just need a little break. But someitmes you've had too many breaks and it still doesn't work out. It sounds hard, but it just can't stay. Isn't it more painful for the other if you keep that friendship only misleading the other person, letting him or her think that there is something, than just straight telling you can't go on with it. Not just for yourself, but for the sake of the other person. If it's from one side or both. If it isn't there anymore, it isn't there.
We can't look into the future, maybe someday everything will turn out right. But if it can't happen now, it can't happen now.
May 29th 2003
