GET OVER ITBreak-ups are very tough, especially when you really love a person and you shared wonderful feelings together.
When you find yourself still loving and missing that person after a long period of time. Just stand still and think.
First of all. It’s probably the feeling you’re missing and not the person. You just got it mixed up. Get rid of that feeling. The feeling the person gave you was great, but don’t think it’s the greatest. So, you don’t get that feeling from someone right now. Remember, it will come, meanwhile, you have yourself.
You’re also probably still recapturing memories when liying in your bed at night. It’s bull when you say, they just come. It’s your mind and you decide what it’s projecting. So stop projecting those memories. There are lots of other things to think about. Don’t forget you still have memories with your family and friends.
I know that when you’re with friends you talk about that perticular person a lot. Whether it’s good or bad, don’t do it. Not telling a sotry that lasts 5 minutes means 5 minutes less thinking about them.
If you have letters, gifts, cards, e-mails or text messages, hide them or throw them away. Delete those e-mails and messages. You think you’ll read them, but you’re reading them now, because you’re not over it yet and to hurt yourself, because that’s what reading them does. Well, when you’re over it, you won’t read them anymore. So what’s the point. The other stuff you can hide or throw away. It’s the same with the e-mails. You can save them, just not in your reach unless you’re over it.
Another great deal why you aren’t over it yet is because you probably still have hope deep inside, it’s false hope. One thing that can make you get over it is realizing it’s over. You wont get back together, the other person is moving on, do the same thing.
Does it sound hard to do? It isn’t when you keep in mind that when you’ve done it all, you’ll feel much greater.
It’s all in your hands and power how long a heartbreak lasts.
May 10th 2003
