ENDING UP WITH LOVE

Many of us people nag about love, but still end up wanting it. Why is that? We nag about love after we get hurt when loving someone deeply. People often have the tendency to blame what happens to them on something or somebody else. Some people just can’t acept that what happens with them is in their hands. Every good things is because of them. But, when something bad happens to them it’s not their fsult anymore. First of all, an adult and mature person takes responsibility for both the good and the bad things that happen to them. Second of all, love is not to blame. Spare yourself the scandal by dissing it and later missing it. Love is not you, it is something beyond. It just comes and goes. Love makes you have a relationship, giving your all to someone. What happens then is not in its hands anymore, it’s in yours.
Love has its up and downs, but it remains beautiful. Some way or another, it’s love that will make you smile after having a bad day. It’s love helping you go through some obstacles of life.
There’s another group of people nagging about love. It’s the people who haven’t experienced it or think they have. I always say and I will say it again. Don’t judge something you don’t know. Love has its downsides, but at the end, we all ask for it.

May 30th 2003