Liberators’
Monument
Ground
Broken at Emotional NEHM Ceremony
By Susie
Davidson
Advocate
Correspondent
This past
Friday, ground was broken in a noontime Holocaust Memorial ceremony during
which tribute was paid, tears were shed and recollections were shared regarding
what for many attendees were the defining events of a lifetime.
World War
II concentration camp liberators Leo Barry of Hyde Park, Sol Feingold of
Chelsea, Max Robotnick of Newton and Jack Goldstein of Wayland graced the
presence of all at the one hour ceremony addressed by Mayor Thomas Menino, City
Councilor Mickey Roache, JCRC Executive Director Nancy Kaufman, Event Chairs
William and Beverly Carmen, Friends of the New England Holocaust Memorial
President Rick Mann, NEHM Board Member Rabbi William Hamilton of Kehillath
Israel Synagogue, Representative Kevin W. Fitzgerald, Commissioner of Veterans'
Services Tom Materazzo, Brookline Library Trustee and Veteran Al Rosen and
others, as well as the man for whom this event meant everything – Holocaust
survivor and NEHM founder Stephan Ross, who carried an enlarged photo of
himself at the time of liberation with the large eyes of emaciation protruding
from depths of experience no 14-year-old should ever possess.
Bill
Carmen, for whom NEHM grounds Carmen Park are named, simply expressed
gratitude, with humility characteristic of Holocaust survivors, at being part
of the event, and appreciation for the new Monument.
Mayor
Menino saluted the Carmens’ efforts, however, and stressed the
event’s importance. Putting his notes down, he spoke frankly about the
young having little conception of what those present went through in that
terrible time, and the importance of passing on their legacy.
Rosen spoke
of prisoners locked inside gassed and torched buildings “meant for the
Roma, the gypsies.” He recalled a train stranded near Dachau, and the
sounds of shootings, and then of low moans. When he and fellow soldiers shot
the locks open, they saw “human skeletons packed together, lying on
straw. They had been there for six days, with nothing to eat or drink.
“I
still recall with pride,” he said, “the instant compassion and
concern the American soldiers displayed, in the face of the immensely grotesque
horror of the Holocaust.”
Rosen
lamented the five million Poles, Roma, Jehovah’s Witnesses and
Nazi-targeted others. In an eloquent statement of humanity, he cited ethnic
cleansings including those in Rwanda, Kosovo, Cambodia and Sudan, yet recalled
the words Anne Frank wrote in June 1944: “In spite of everything, I still
believe that people are really good at heart.” “The American
soldiers in those grim days of 1945,” he said, “fought to make it a
world of the good at heart, and achieved the eventual triumph of the human
spirit.”
"For
the thousands who braved the beaches of Normandy," said Rick Mann,
"for those who fell there, for those who trudged on to encounter the
horrid and unforgettable scenes of Dachau, Buchenwald, and other death camps,
we say ‘thank you’ in the only way we can - with our voices, with
our hearts, and with this monument."
“I
stood by this man,” said Stephan Ross, pointing at a soldier in the front
row, as his wife Mary, son, City Councilor Michael Ross and daughter, Atty.
Julie Ross, looked on. “I cannot tell you what it was like.”
(Indeed, he can’t. In order to hide and survive, Ross had to cover
himself in a cesspool as well as resort to cannibalism with the others.)
“Survivors, liberators, distinguished guests, ladies and
gentlemen,” he cried, “I kissed their boots.” He pulled out
the small flag one had given him 57 years ago. Thanking the Carmens, he said
“Now, those who pass through the Holocaust Memorial will be able to
reflect on the brave servicemen who gave so much.
“I
know what would have happened to us if you had not come,” he said.
“We were considered cockroaches, vermin, rats. You held our living
skeletons in your arms, before you went on further to stop the war. You talked
to us for the first time as if we were human beings,” he choked.
Rabbi
Hamilton led the audience in an emotional Mourner’s Kaddish, and each
speaker helped shovel dirt onto the site of the new monument.
“I am
accustomed to smelling death,” said liberator Leo Barry afterwards,
“but I will never forget the stench. I have not smelled anything
comparable since. I couldn’t believe how neatly things were stacked at
the crematorium. They had piles of clothes, piles of shoes, and
bodies.” “There were
bodies under the clothes, too,” interjected Feingold. “The medics
separated the prisoners into the dead, those who were going to die, and those
who were likely to pull through,” continued Barry.
Barry, of
the 45th Division, was Past Commander of the American Legion, Past District
Commander and Past Commander of the Fog/Robert Post, Hyde Park. Feingold was in
the 42nd Rainbow Division.
Liberator
Jack Goldstein carried photographic reprints from newspapers depicting the
horrors he helped to end.
The
JCRC’s Mara Tencer and Congressman Capuano’s Office Issues Director
Kate Auspitz assisted greatly in the planning for this momentous event.
LIBERATORS:
Leo Barry,
70 Arlington St. Hyde Park 02136
45th
Division
Past
Commander, American Legion – Past District Commander,
Past
Commander, Fog/Robert Post, Hyde Park
I was an
assistant Scoutmaster at the Most Precious Blood Church in Hyde Park. Tom
Menino was a Cub Scout in my brother John’s den.
I remember
going to the camp. I am accustomed
to smelling death, but I will never forget the stench. I have not smelled anything comparable
since.
There was
only one survivor on a train we intercepted. He was a Pole.
I have a picture of it.
There were open cars; some of the bodies were being taken off by
civilians who lived across the street.
I couldn’t believe how neatly things were stacked at the
crematorium. They had piles of
clothes, piles of shoes, and bodies.
“There were bodies under the clothes, too,” interjected
Feingold.
“The
medics separated the prisoners into the dead, those who were going to die, and
those who were going to pull through,” continued Barry.
Sol
Feingold, 45 Jones Ave., Chelsea 02150
42nd
Rainbow Division
Max
Robotnick, Newton
160 Stanton
Road, Newton (Golda Meir apts.)
Jack
Goldstein, Wayland carried around photgraphic reprints from newspapers. Ross had an enlarged photo of himself
at the time of liberation, with the large eyes of emaciation protruding from
depths of experience no14 year old should ever possess.
To this
day, Ross treasures a small flag a liberator bestowed upon him. “I still
have the flag, 57 years later. I kissed his boots.”
Some of
them, he says, are living in this area. “Some are Jews and some are
Christians. There is one soldier living in Brookline, Leon Satenstein, who is
nearing 80 years old; he saw me in Dachau – they took a picture, and I am
in the center, among about 1500 inmates.”
Ross, who
was incarcerated from age nine to 14, and who had to hide in a cesspool and
resort to cannibalism with the others, still “kisses the ground I walk
on.
I
can see their dirty faces, their dirty helmets, uniforms and boots, and the
weapons hanging on their bodies.
“They
left an indelible mark on a 14-year-old boy which can never be erased. They
preserved their republic, their civilizations and their religious freedoms, and
set free a suffering humanity. They fought bravely and defeated the most
vicious empire the world has ever known. History will remember them as the
heroes of the 20th century.
which in
actuality he had
Choking, he
explains, “You must forgive me, because I am there now. They left an
indelible mark on a 14-year old boy which can never be erased. They were the
pride of their nation. They preserved their republic, their civilizations and
their religious freedoms, and they set free a suffering humanity. They fought
bravely and defeated the most vicious empire the world has ever known. History will
remember them as the heroes of the 20th century.”
The
monument, he says, is for the liberators of World War II, be they Americans or
from any of the Allied nations. “Most of these men were
Christians,” he says. “They opened up the gates of h-ll and nursed
us back to life. They showed us that there were civilized people in this world,
even though we came a world in which we were tortured, beaten and mangled. We
were living among a diabolical element of abominable characters.”
He
approached others to get the Monument going, until he found a willing
benefactor. “I went to Bill Carmen (chair, along with his wife Beverly,
of Friday’s event) when I had this gigantic dream, when I wanted to bring
the message to someone who might hear me – you know how busy people are
in this country – they move from place to place – yet this man was
so devoted to the idea; the first words he said to me were ‘on my
father’s side, everyone died in Europe’”.
To this
day, Ross treasures a small flag a liberator bestowed upon him. “I got a
little flag from a soldier,” he recalls. “I still have the flag, 57
years later. I kissed his boots.”
Some of the
liberators, he says, are living in this area. “Some are Jews and some are
Christians. There is one Jewish soldier living in Brookline, Leon Satenstein,
who is nearing 80 years old; he saw me in Dachau – they took a picture,
and I am in the center, among about 1500 inmates.”
Ross’
stories are grisly and graphic; he spares no detail. “I had to hide in a
cesspool up to my neck in the first camp I was in, Budzin, in Poland. We had to
resort to cannibalism. Jewish doctors there told us to to just swallow it, not
to chew. I can’t tell you how I managed to survive. I was incarcerated at
the age of 9. I was in 10 camps, for 5 long years.”
In March,
2001, Ross found out where his father, mother and six siblings were gassed and
burned; it was in the camp of Belzek. “I was the youngest of eight
children,” he says. “I survived with my brother, who died in 1990
– he was broken, villified, completely debilitated – he was so
badly beaten that he was never able to be rehabilitated.
He says his
biggest trouble is “differentiating.” “I am living in one
world that is dragging me down to the extent that I can’t get away from
it, and yet, I live in another world with civilized people who are not
connected to the war, who are living completely normal, sensible and
compassionate lives.” Clearly, the pain and the horror haunt this
man’s daily consciousness still, like it was the proverbial yesterday.
And his gratitude knows no limits.
“I
kiss the ground I walk on,” he says. “I am so blessed that I came
to America. I am still crying about how fortunate I was to be liberated by
these great heroes, these American soldiers.” Sobbing, he affirms
“I am crying now”.
“They
never left us, and they didn’t go back outside until we were secure.
“You
deserve so much praise and credit,” says Ross, addressing all liberators,
“for ending the war and for the U.S. sacrifices made during World War II.
As our liberators, you will always be remembered by the camp survivors for your
gallantry and for the compassion and care that you provided to us at such a
tragic time in our lives.”
The
following messages are to be engraved on the Liberators’ Monument:
“I
was an emaciated, 14 year old boy. An American soldier lifted me into his
strong arms. He looked into my tired eyes with compassion. He shared his food
with me, and gave me a small American flag of freedom.” – Stephan
Ross
“We,
the survivors of the Holocaust, have raised this flag in tribute to the
American and other Allied soldiers who liberated us from the brutal Nazy
tyranny. They opened the gates to our trails to freedom in America.”
– Concentration Camp Survivors, Greater Boston area
“I
saw my first horror camp in Gotha, Germany. I have never felt able to describe
my emotional reaction when I first came face to face with indisputable evidence
of Nazi brutality and ruthlessness, disregard of every shred of decency.”
- General Dwight D. Eisenhower, who was the commander of the Allied forces in
Europe
ROSS’
DEGREES:
Perhaps it
was partially out of envy, he posits. “Unlike many immigrants, I educated
myself; I got a degree in psychology (actually, one of four: one from B.U., two
from Northeastern, and one from the University of Vermont). I made something of
myself (Ross is a licensed psychologist). I became a health services provider,
I helped inner city children who were neglected by everyone. I walked the
streets of Mission Hill and urban areas day and night to get them out of jail,
out of trouble, lead them on a straight path. I helped hundreds of kids –
some still call me, I go to weddings, christenings, birthday parties.
“I
managed to do the best I could,” he says. “Nobody gave me anything.
I worked in gas stations on the Cape day and night to make a living, in Howard
Johnson’s, in catering outfits in Boston. I came here both an orphan, and
alone.”
OPPOSITION
FROM POLAK ETC.:
However, he
encountered stiff opposition, tragically from his own people, he says.
“Rabbi
Chiel of Temple Emmanuel wanted to be part of it, help raise money, and he
withdrew because Polak was against it. Elie Weisel wouldn’t accept our
offer for him to be honorary chair. I could tell you so much about the pain I
had to endure from our own Jewish people.”
“Joseph Polak of B.U. Hillel led a
group opposing the Holocaust Memorial,” he recalls. “They
didn’t want the soldiers to be honored. Polak sent a petition to Ray
Flynn against it. Flynn called me into his office and asked me why, as he
couldn’t understand this. Polak’s opposition to the Memorial set us
back four or five years.
“Polak
and his signees didn’t want to speak to me, to ask me why I wanted to
include the American soldiers. They felt that the American solders were an
issue of the American government – GI Joe stood for Government Issue
– they said they didn’t deserve to be included in our memorial.
Chair Bill
Carmen: “It has always been the vision of Steve Ross to have this flag
and flagpole as part of the New England Holocaust Memorial, and we are so glad
that it has come to fruition."
“I
went to Bill Carmen when I had this dream,” says Ross. “The first
words he said to me were ‘on my father’s side, everyone died in
Europe’.”
“The New England Holocaust Memorial,” says Congressman Capuano, “is an important symbol that forces us to remember terrible deeds, actions that make us ashamed of our species. It is fitting today that another memorial is added to this site. As we honor those who liberated the camps and comforted the survivors, we, too, find solace. Their courage and compassion give us hope for humanity.
Rick
Mann:
offered
them the first outstretched and compassionate hands; and brought their first
hope for a decent life free from the tyranny and cruelty of the Nazis. To the
thousands of tortured and all but lost souls trapped within the barbed wired
hell of the death camps, those soldiers were nothing less than messengers of
G-d, come to redeem them. Those who were there behind the barbed wire, those
who are their progeny and those who are counted among the virtuous of the human
race are all profoundly affected by the compassion and decency our American
soldiers showed the victims of man's darkest hour. They honored the dead, saved
the lives of thousands, allowed for the continuation of life in their
descendants, and enriched and enhanced the lives of all of humanity by their
actions. For the thousands who braved the beaches of Normandy, for those who
fell there, for those who trudged on to encounter the horrid and unforgettable
scenes of Dachau, Buchenwald, and other death camps, we say ‘thank
you’ in the only way we can - with our voices, with our hearts, and with
this monument.
Nancy
Kaufman: Monument signifies the inclusiveness of the Memorial, and recognizes
the unique role of liberators in the last days of this tragic period in the
history of the Jewish people. It also
Picture
of Stephan Ross:
http://www.voice.neu.edu/960919/afternu.html
http://www.southcoasttoday.com/daily/03-97/03-24-97/a06sr036.htm
with
family:
http://www.nehm.com/friends/leadership.html
Picture
of Menino:
http://www.bostonstrategy.com/players/07_mayor/01_mayor.html
http://www.cityofboston.gov/mayor/default.asp
Groundbreaking
Ceremony for Liberators’ Monument
To be Held
Friday at Holocaust Memorial
By
Susie Davidson
Advocate
Correspondent
BOSTON
- Near the end of what was undeniably the darkest point in our modern history,
visions of saviors dressed in uniforms incredulously appeared before the
worn-out eyes of many concentration camp inmates.
Tomorrow
at 12:30 p.m., a tribute to these liberating soldiers will be observed in a
groundbreaking ceremony at the downtown New England Holocaust Memorial.
The
Liberators’ Monument, a flagpole bearing an American flag, was part of
NEHM founder Stephan Ross’ original vision. Lit at night, it will be
surrounded by plaques bearing quotes from liberators, General Eisenhower and survivors.
The ceremony, which will last approximately one hour, will feature Mayor Thomas
Menino as keynote speaker, Ross and other survivors, liberators and Jewish
community leaders including Event Chairs Beverly and Bill Carmen and daughter
Dawn Sibor (a board member of the Friends of the NEHM), Friends President Rick
Mann and JCRC Executive Director Nancy Kaufman. Also in attendance will be
Congressmen Michael Capuano and Stephen Lynch, Representative Kevin W.
Fitzgerald and Boston Commissioner of Veterans' Services Tom Materazzo.
“I originally formed the committee and got the piece of land for the Holocaust Memorial,” says Ross. “I also wanted to honor the soldiers who gave blood transfusions, food, picked us up from the soil we were lying in, washed us, cleaned our wounds, gave us clothes. I know all this, because I was a witness.”
To this
day, Ross treasures a small flag a liberator bestowed upon him. “I still
have the flag, 57 years later. I kissed his boots.”
Some of
them, he says, are living in this area. “Some are Jews and some are
Christians. There is one soldier living in Brookline, Leon Satenstein, who is
nearing 80 years old; he saw me in Dachau – they took a picture, and I am
in the center, among about 1500 inmates.”
Ross, who
was incarcerated from age nine to 14, and who had to hide in a cesspool and
resort to cannibalism with the others, still “kisses the ground I walk
on.
“What
they did to save us, to free us, I can’t convey. There were 32,000
inmates in the camp from 19 different nations – every one of them was
diseased – I had tuberculosis and boils all over my body, and a broken
back.” (His captors broke it with rifle butts, for stealing a potato).
“I
always envision in my mind the way they were, 57 years ago. I can see their
dirty faces, their dirty helmets, uniforms and boots, and the weapons hanging
on their bodies. They looked rough and tough. Yet, they showed so much
empathy.”
“They
left an indelible mark on a 14-year-old boy which can never be erased. They
preserved their republic, their civilizations and their religious freedoms, and
set free a suffering humanity. They fought bravely and defeated the most
vicious empire the world has ever known. History will remember them as the
heroes of the 20th century.
“They
showed us that there were civilized people in this world, even though we came
from a world in which we were tortured, beaten and mangled.”
Ross,
71, who holds four degrees and is a licensed psychologist, married his wife
Mary in 1969, at age 38. His son, Michael Ross, is a Boston City Councilor. His
daughter Julie is an attorney at the Attorney General’s office. He was
the youngest of eight children; only he and his brother, who was permantly
debilitated and died in 1990, survived.
"We
are very happy and proud to be taking part in the groundbreaking of this
monument dedicated to the liberators,” says Chair Bill Carmen. “It
has always been the vision of Steve Ross to have this flag and flagpole as part
of the New England Holocaust Memorial, and we are so glad that it has come to
fruition."
“I
went to Bill Carmen when I had this dream,” says Ross. “The first
words he said to me were ‘on my father’s side, everyone died in
Europe’.”
“The
New England Holocaust Memorial,” says Congressman Capuano, “is an
important symbol that forces us to remember terrible deeds, actions that make
us ashamed of our species. It is fitting today that another memorial is added
to this site. As we honor those who liberated the camps and comforted the
survivors, we, too, find solace. Their courage and compassion give us hope for
humanity.
“The
Liberators’ Monument calls us to defend life, liberty, and justice for
all persons. We must be worthy to carry on the fight in which they won such an
essential victory.”
“The
Monument will tell the story,” says Rick Mann, “of the quiet,
unsung heroism and basic humanity of the hundreds of American soldiers who
became the first ray of sunlight to shine upon the countenances of the
survivors; offered them the first outstretched and compassionate hands; and
brought their first hope for a decent life free from the tyranny and cruelty of
the Nazis. To the thousands of tortured and all but lost souls trapped within
the barbed wired hell of the death camps, those soldiers were nothing less than
messengers of G-d, come to redeem them. Those who were there behind the barbed
wire, those who are their progeny and those who are counted among the virtuous
of the human race are all profoundly affected by the compassion and decency our
American soldiers showed the victims of man's darkest hour. They honored the
dead, saved the lives of thousands, allowed for the continuation of life in
their descendants, and enriched and enhanced the lives of all of humanity by
their actions. For the thousands who braved the beaches of Normandy, for those who
fell there, for those who trudged on to encounter the horrid and unforgettable
scenes of Dachau, Buchenwald, and other death camps, we say ‘thank
you’ in the only way we can - with our voices, with our hearts, and with
this monument.
“We
are very excited to be breaking ground,” says Nancy Kaufman.
“Building this Monument signifies the inclusiveness of the Memorial, and
recognizes the unique role of liberators in the last days of this tragic period
in the history of the Jewish people. It also represents another step in the
process of Holocaust survivors passing on their legacy to the generations to
come.”
A
48 star flag measuring 18 by 12 feet will be included in Friday’s
ceremony. It was donated to Ross from a WWII Veteran, Al Ridge, to hang at the
Memorial on historical occasions.
Liberators
present will include George Kaiser from Winthrop, Leo Barry from Hyde Park,
Francis Gallagher from Dorchester and Saul Feingold from Chelsea, who is 87
years old.
The
following messages are to be engraved on the Monument:
“I
was an emaciated, 14 year old boy. An American soldier lifted me into his
strong arms. He looked into my tired eyes with compassion. He shared his food
with me, and gave me a small American flag of freedom.” – Stephan
Ross
“We,
the survivors of the Holocaust, have raised this flag in tribute to the
American and other Allied soldiers who liberated us from the brutal Nazy
tyranny. They opened the gates to our trails to freedom in America.”
– Concentration Camp Survivors, Greater Boston area
“I
saw my first horror camp in Gotha, Germany. I have never felt able to describe
my emotional reaction when I first came face to face with indisputable evidence
of Nazi brutality and ruthlessness, disregard of every shred of decency.”
- General Dwight D. Eisenhower, Commander of the Allied forces in Europe
Mayor
Menino speaking. Would talk with at the event. Office contact: Howard Leibowitz
hrlcjd@aol.com
Peter Nagle
– Sr. Press Liaison City
Hall Room 603 Boston 02201 617-635-4461 peter.nagle@cityofboston.gov
Nancy K.
Kaufman, Executive Director of the Jewish Community Relations
Council of
Greater Boston - introducing the Mayor.
nkaufman@jcrcboston.org.
Congressman
Capuano - Issues Director, Kate Auspitz- helped plan event kate.auspitz@mail.house.gov.
Congressman
Lynch,
Representative
Kevin Fitzgerald,
Commissioner
Tom Materazzo
RSM55@attbi.com,dsibor@attbi.com,hrlcjd@aol.com,
nkaufman@jcrcboston.org,kate.auspitz@mail.house.gov
Mara Tencer
of the JCRC forwarded your email address to me.
Please
excuse the brevity of this request, but in the interest of timeliness for the
deadline for next week, could I get a couple of comments from you about the
impending installation of the Liberators’ Monument at the N.E. Holocaust
Memorial?
I need to
get the info by Sunday evening at the latest. Today, Friday, would be super, if
possible.
Thanks very
much for your contribution. The article will appear in the Thursday, June 20
issue of the Jewish Advocate.
Susie
Davidson
Jewish
Advocate
All
Suburban Weekly Tabs
"Rick
Mann" RSM55@attbi.com
The chairs
for the event - Beverly and William Carmen (561) 483-4460/4461 (Florida until
6/15); (781) 740-4166. Daughter – Dawn Sibor, board member of the Friends
dsibor@attbi.com.
“I
was the one who originally formed the committee and got the piece of land for
the Holocaust Memorial,” says Holocaust survivor and New England Holocaust
Memorial founder Stephan Ross. However, he encountered stiff opposition,
tragically from his own people, he says.
“Joseph
Polak of B.U. Hillel led a group opposing the Holocaust Memorial,” he
recalls. “They didn’t want the soldiers to be honored. Polak sent a
petition to Ray Flynn against it. Flynn called me into his office and asked me
why, as he couldn’t understand this. Polak’s opposition to the
Memorial set us back four or five years.
“Polak
and his signees didn’t want to speak to me, to ask me why I wanted to
include the American soldiers. They felt that the American solders were an
issue of the American government – GI Joe stood for Government Issue
– they said they didn’t deserve to be included in our memorial.
“But
I wanted to honor the individual soldiers who gave blood transfusions, gave us
food, picked us up from the soil we were lying in, washed us, covered our
wounds, gave us clothes. I know all this, because I was a witness.”
“Rabbi
Chiel of Temple Emmanuel wanted to be part of it, help raise money, and he
withdrew because Polak was against it. Elie Weisel wouldn’t accept our
offer for him to be honorary chair. I could tell you so much about the pain I
had to endure from our own Jewish people.”
Perhaps it
was partially out of envy, he posits. “Unlike many immigrants, I educated
myself; I got a degree in psychology (actually, one of four: one from B.U., two
from Northeastern, and one from the University of Vermont). I made something of
myself (Ross is a licensed psychologist). I became a health services provider,
I helped inner city children who were neglected by everyone. I walked the
streets of Mission Hill and urban areas day and night to get them out of jail,
out of trouble, lead them on a straight path. I helped hundreds of kids –
some still call me, I go to weddings, christenings, birthday parties.
“I
managed to do the best I could,” he says. “Nobody gave me anything.
I worked in gas stations on the Cape day and night to make a living, in Howard
Johnson’s, in catering outfits in Boston. I came here both an orphan, and
alone.”
To this
day, Ross treasures a small flag a liberator bestowed upon him. “I got a
little flag from a soldier,” he recalls. “I still have the flag, 57
years later. I kissed his boots.”
Some of the
liberators, he says, are living in this area. “Some are Jews and some are
Christians. There is one Jewish soldier living in Brookline, Leon Satenstein,
who is nearing 80 years old; he saw me in Dachau – they took a picture,
and I am in the center, among about 1500 inmates.”
Ross’
stories are grisly and graphic; he spares no detail. “I had to hide in a
cesspool up to my neck in the first camp I was in, Budzin, in Poland. We had to
resort to cannibalism. Jewish doctors there told us to to just swallow it, not
to chew. I can’t tell you how I managed to survive. I was incarcerated at
the age of 9. I was in 10 camps, for 5 long years.”
In March,
2001, Ross found out where his father, mother and six siblings were gassed and
burned; it was in the camp of Belzek. “I was the youngest of eight
children,” he says. “I survived with my brother, who died in 1990
– he was broken, villified, completely debilitated – he was so
badly beaten that he was never able to be rehabilitated.
He says his
biggest trouble is “differentiating.” “I am living in one
world that is dragging me down to the extent that I can’t get away from
it, and yet, I live in another world with civilized people who are not
connected to the war, who are living completely normal, sensible and
compassionate lives.” Clearly, the pain and the horror haunt this
man’s daily consciousness still, like it was the proverbial yesterday.
And his gratitude knows no limits.
“I
kiss the ground I walk on,” he says. “I am so blessed that I came
to America. I am still crying about how fortunate I was to be liberated by
these great heroes, these American soldiers.” Sobbing, he affirms
“I am crying now”.
“What
they did to save us – to free us – I can’t convey. They never
left us, and they didn’t go back outside until we were secure. There were
32,000 inmates in the camp from 19 different nations – every one of them
was diseased – I had tuberculosis and boils all over my body, and a
broken back.” (His captors broke his back with rifle butts, for stealing
a potato).
“I
always envision in my mind the way they were, 57 years ago. I can see their
dirty faces, their dirty helmets, uniforms and boots, and the weapons hanging
on their bodies. They looked rough and tough. Yet, they showed so much
empathy.”
Choking, he
explains, “You must forgive me, because I am there now. They left an
indelible mark on a 14-year old boy which can never be erased. They were the
pride of their nation. They preserved their republic, their civilizations and
their religious freedoms, and they set free a suffering humanity. They fought
bravely and defeated the most vicious empire the world has ever known. History
will remember them as the heroes of the 20th century.”
The
monument, he says, is for the liberators of World War II, be they Americans or
from any of the Allied nations. “Most of these men were
Christians,” he says. “They opened up the gates of h-ll and nursed
us back to life. They showed us that there were civilized people in this world,
even though we came a world in which we were tortured, beaten and mangled. We
were living among a diabolical element of abominable characters.”
He
approached others to get the Monument going, until he found a willing
benefactor. “I went to Bill Carmen (chair, along with his wife Beverly,
of Friday’s event) when I had this gigantic dream, when I wanted to bring
the message to someone who might hear me – you know how busy people are
in this country – they move from place to place – yet this man was
so devoted to the idea; the first words he said to me were ‘on my father’s
side, everyone died in Europe’”.
Ross,
71, married his wife Mary in 1969, at age 38. His son, Michael Ross, is a
Boston City Councilor. His daughter Judy is an attorney (“she married a
nice Jewish boy,” he kvells), and works for the Atty. General’s
office.
A
special 48 star flag measuring 18 by 12 feet will be included in Friday’s
ceremony. It was donated to Ross from a WWII Veteran, Al Ridge, to hang at the
Memorial on historical occasions, to commemorate the soldiers.
Liberators
will be present, including George Kaiser from Winthrop, Leo Barry from Hyde
Park, Francis Gallagher from Dorchester and Saul Feingold from Chelsea, who is
87 years old.
“You
deserve so much praise and credit,” says Ross, addressing all liberators,
“for ending the war and for the U.S. sacrifices made during World War II.
As our liberators, you will always be remembered by the camp survivors for your
gallantry and for the compassion and care that you provided to us at such a
tragic time in our lives.”
The
following messages are to be engraved on the Liberators’ Monument:
“I
was an emaciated, 14 year old boy. An American soldier lifted me into his
strong arms. He looked into my tired eyes with compassion. He shared his food
with me, and gave me a small American flag of freedom.” – Stephan
Ross
“We,
the survivors of the Holocaust, have raised this flag in tribute to the
American and other Allied soldiers who liberated us from the brutal Nazy
tyranny. They opened the gates to our trails to freedom in America.”
– Concentration Camp Survivors, Greater Boston area
“I
saw my first horror camp in Gotha, Germany. I have never felt able to describe
my emotional reaction when I first came face to face with indisputable evidence
of Nazi brutality and ruthlessness, disregard of every shred of decency.”
- General Dwight D. Eisenhower, who was the commander of the Allied forces in
Europe
Mara
Tencer: 617-457-8672.
CC: "Rick Mann"
<RSM55@attbi.com>
Hi Susie:
Thanks for
the email and explanation. Many contacts for the event happen
to be older
folks who don't have email. In those cases, I've provided
phone
numbers:
Rick Mann
is the President of Friends of the New England Holocaust
Memorial.
His email is RSM55@attbi.com and I have CC'ed him on this
email as
well.
He'll be
out of town until this coming Thursday, June 14.
Steve Ross,
a Holocaust survivor and the founder of the Memorial, was
really a
motivating factor for this Liberators' Monument and one of the
driving
forces. He doesn't have email, but his phone number is: (617)
332-0060.
He will assuredly be at the event, so if you can't give him a
call, I'm
sure he would speak to you on the 21st.
The chairs
for the event are Beverly and William Carmen, who also don't
have email,
but you can contact them by phone at: (561) 483-4460/4461
(in Florida
until 6/15) or in Hingham at (781) 740-4166. Their daughter
is Dawn
Sibor, a board member of the Friends and she definitely has
email: dsibor@attbi.com.
I'm sure that she would be happy to speak with
you.
Mayor
Menino will be speaking. I'm sure he would be happy to talk with
you at the
event. My contact at his office is Howard Leibowitz. His
email is: hrlcjd@aol.com.
He will be with the Mayor out of town until
early next
week, but he's very helpful and clued-in to the Jewish
community.
Nancy K.
Kaufman, Executive Director of the Jewish Community Relations
Council of
Greater Boston will be introducing the Mayor. Her email is:
nkaufman@jcrcboston.org.
Congressman
Capuano will be there. His Issues Director, Kate Auspitz,
has been a
huge help in the planning and I'm certain could be of help to
you. Her
email is: kate.auspitz@mail.house.gov.
Other
participants include Congressman Lynch, Representative Fitzgerald,
Commissioner
Tom Materazzo, etc. I don't have emails for them, but I'm
sure they
can be found online, or interviewed at the event.
Other
basics about the Memorial can be found online at www.nehm.org.
Are you
planning to do this for the Advocate, or one of the other
publications
you work for? If you can't make it, but are planning to
cover it
and would like a photo, I'll be taking the digital camera so I
could just
email you a photo from the event. If you can't make it,
perhaps
Jason or someone else could?
Thanks for
you help!
Best,
Mara
SECOND
STORY, TO DO FOR THE NEWTON TAB, ON STEPHAN ROSS:
Ground will
be broken tomorrow, June 21, at the New England Holocaust Memorial for a
Liberators’ Monument which will commemorate soldiers who freed victims of
Nazi Germany from concentration camps.
The
Monument, a flagpole bearing an American flag, was part of Memorial founder
Stephan Ross’ original vision. It will be surrounded by plaques bearing
quotes from liberators, General Eisenhower and survivors, and will be lit at
night. The ceremony will commence at 12:30 and last about an hour; it will
feature Mayor Thomas Menino as keynote speaker as well as words from Holocaust
survivors, liberators and Jewish community leaders.
“I
was the one who originally formed the committee and got the piece of land for
the Holocaust Memorial,” says Holocaust survivor and New England Holocaust
Memorial founder Stephan Ross. However, he encountered stiff opposition,
tragically from his own people, he says.
“Joseph
Polak of B.U. Hillel led a group opposing the Holocaust Memorial,” he
recalls. “They didn’t want the soldiers to be honored. Polak sent a
petition to Ray Flynn against it. Flynn called me into his office and asked me
why, as he couldn’t understand this. Polak’s opposition to the
Memorial set us back four or five years.
“Polak
and his signees didn’t want to speak to me, to ask me why I wanted to
include the American soldiers. They felt that the American solders were an
issue of the American government – GI Joe stood for Government Issue
– they said they didn’t deserve to be included in our memorial.
“But
I wanted to honor the individual soldiers who gave blood transfusions, gave us
food, picked us up from the soil we were lying in, washed us, covered our
wounds, gave us clothes. I know all this, because I was a witness.”
“Rabbi
Chiel of Temple Emmanuel wanted to be part of it, help raise money, and he
withdrew because Polak was against it. Elie Weisel wouldn’t accept our
offer for him to be honorary chair. I could tell you so much about the pain I
had to endure from our own Jewish people.”
Perhaps it
was partially out of envy, he posits. “Unlike many immigrants, I educated
myself; I got a degree in psychology (actually, one of four: one from B.U., two
from Northeastern, and one from the University of Vermont). I made something of
myself (Ross is a licensed psychologist). I became a health services provider,
I helped inner city children who were neglected by everyone. I walked the
streets of Mission Hill and urban areas day and night to get them out of jail,
out of trouble, lead them on a straight path. I helped hundreds of kids –
some still call me, I go to weddings, christenings, birthday parties.
“I
managed to do the best I could,” he says. “Nobody gave me anything.
I worked in gas stations on the Cape day and night to make a living, in Howard
Johnson’s, in catering outfits in Boston. I came here both an orphan, and
alone.”
To this
day, Ross treasures a small flag a liberator bestowed upon him. “I got a
little flag from a soldier,” he recalls. “I still have the flag, 57
years later. I kissed his boots.”
Some of the
liberators, he says, are living in this area. “Some are Jews and some are
Christians. There is one Jewish soldier living in Brookline, Leon Satenstein,
who is nearing 80 years old; he saw me in Dachau – they took a picture,
and I am in the center, among about 1500 inmates.”
Ross’
stories are grisly and graphic; he spares no detail. “I had to hide in a
cesspool up to my neck in the first camp I was in, Budzin, in Poland. We had to
resort to cannibalism. Jewish doctors there told us to to just swallow it, not
to chew. I can’t tell you how I managed to survive. I was incarcerated at
the age of 9. I was in 10 camps, for 5 long years.”
In March,
2001, Ross found out where his father, mother and six siblings were gassed and
burned; it was in the camp of Belzek. “I was the youngest of eight
children,” he says. “I survived with my brother, who died in 1990
– he was broken, villified, completely debilitated – he was so
badly beaten that he was never able to be rehabilitated.
He says his
biggest trouble is “differentiating.” “I am living in one
world that is dragging me down to the extent that I can’t get away from
it, and yet, I live in another world with civilized people who are not
connected to the war, who are living completely normal, sensible and
compassionate lives.” Clearly, the pain and the horror haunt this
man’s daily consciousness still, like it was the proverbial yesterday.
And his gratitude knows no limits.
“I
kiss the ground I walk on,” he says. “I am so blessed that I came
to America. I am still crying about how fortunate I was to be liberated by
these great heroes, these American soldiers.” Sobbing, he affirms
“I am crying now”.
“What
they did to save us – to free us – I can’t convey. They never
left us, and they didn’t go back outside until we were secure. There were
32,000 inmates in the camp from 19 different nations – every one of them
was diseased – I had tuberculosis and boils all over my body, and a
broken back.” (His captors broke his back with rifle butts, for stealing
a potato).
“I
always envision in my mind the way they were, 57 years ago. I can see their
dirty faces, their dirty helmets, uniforms and boots, and the weapons hanging
on their bodies. They looked rough and tough. Yet, they showed so much
empathy.”
Choking, he
explains, “You must forgive me, because I am there now. They left an
indelible mark on a 14-year old boy which can never be erased. They were the
pride of their nation. They preserved their republic, their civilizations and
their religious freedoms, and they set free a suffering humanity. They fought
bravely and defeated the most vicious empire the world has ever known. History
will remember them as the heroes of the 20th century.”
The
monument, he says, is for the liberators of World War II, be they Americans or
from any of the Allied nations. “Most of these men were
Christians,” he says. “They opened up the gates of h-ll and nursed
us back to life. They showed us that there were civilized people in this world,
even though we came a world in which we were tortured, beaten and mangled. We
were living among a diabolical element of abominable characters.”
He
approached others to get the Monument going, until he found a willing
benefactor. “I went to Bill Carmen (chair, along with his wife Beverly,
of Friday’s event) when I had this gigantic dream, when I wanted to bring
the message to someone who might hear me – you know how busy people are
in this country – they move from place to place – yet this man was
so devoted to the idea; the first words he said to me were ‘on my
father’s side, everyone died in Europe’”.
Ross,
71, married his wife Mary in 1969, at age 38. His son, Michael Ross, is a
Boston City Councilor. His daughter Judy is an attorney (“she married a
nice Jewish boy,” he kvells), and works for the Atty. General’s
office.
A
special 48 star flag measuring 18 by 12 feet will be included in Friday’s
ceremony. It was donated to Ross from a WWII Veteran, Al Ridge, to hang at the
Memorial on historical occasions, to commemorate the soldiers.
Liberators
will be present, including George Kaiser from Winthrop, Leo Barry from Hyde
Park, Francis Gallagher from Dorchester and Saul Feingold from Chelsea, who is
87 years old.
“You
deserve so much praise and credit,” says Ross, addressing all liberators,
“for ending the war and for the U.S. sacrifices made during World War II.
As our liberators, you will always be remembered by the camp survivors for your
gallantry and for the compassion and care that you provided to us at such a
tragic time in our lives.”
The
following messages are to be engraved on the Liberators’ Monument:
“I
was an emaciated, 14 year old boy. An American soldier lifted me into his
strong arms. He looked into my tired eyes with compassion. He shared his food
with me, and gave me a small American flag of freedom.” – Stephan
Ross
“We,
the survivors of the Holocaust, have raised this flag in tribute to the
American and other Allied soldiers who liberated us from the brutal Nazy
tyranny. They opened the gates to our trails to freedom in America.”
– Concentration Camp Survivors, Greater Boston area
“I
saw my first horror camp in Gotha, Germany. I have never felt able to describe
my emotional reaction when I first came face to face with indisputable evidence
of Nazi brutality and ruthlessness, disregard of every shred of decency.”
- General Dwight D. Eisenhower, who was the commander of the Allied forces in
Europe