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Xchange Low Life Mods and Landwhales
Thursday, 29 June 2006
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Thursday, June 29, 2006


Karma
Current mood: hopeful

I stumbled across this article (By the Reverend Aynnie McAvoy) today and thought it would be important to share it. Especially now.
The Karmic Need for Forgiveness

First, one needs to understand what the word Karma means. Webster's dictionary gives the definition of Karma as "The overall effect of one's behavior, held in Hinduism and Buddhism to determine one's destiny in a future existence. The "Aynnie" definition of Karma is this, simply put; if you were a stinker in the last life time(s), you will make up for it in this one.

Has your life experiences ever seemed unfair? Quite often, these life experiences that are so very painful, are expressions of our past behavior in another lifetime. If we are unkind to someone from two lifetimes ago, we could very well meet up with this same person in this lifetime. The odds are pretty high this individual will be unkind to you now, unless they have gained some kind of awareness, and decide to stop the Karmic wheel here and now.

There is a large percentage of the earth's population that understands this concept, and conducts their daily lives around it.

To be angry, and then be revengeful after that, is to grab onto the wheel of Karma and give it a spin. It is a written invitation for that person to take revenge on you at some later time.

I am not saying that you are not allowed to feel anger, or injustice. What I am saying is that after you feel those feelings, what you do next may affect you in lifetimes far in the future.

There is a current expression that says, "What goes around, comes around." That expresses the wheel of Karma quite well.

What should you do when you feel angry and hurt? Dissolve the anger the best you can. There are several ways of doing that. The best way I know of totally dissolving the anger and hurt is to forgive the offending person.

I fully understand how difficult forgiveness is. I've been faced with this dilemma over and over throughout my life. I also know how hard this forgiveness thing is for others to handle. As a psychic counselor, I often have to instruct my clients that the best way out of a difficult life situation is to find forgiveness for the individual that caused it.

Our lower selves, our egos, think we need revenge. Our instinct is to hurt back if we have been hurt. We want to cause the same pain or worse that was caused to us. This kind of knee jerk reaction only causes the wheel of Karma to crank out one more turn.

Learning to forgive is one of the hardest things to do. However, there really seems to be no way around it.

The ways you can choose to forgive include writing a letter, making a phone call, or setting up a face-to-face encounter.

In the case of forgiving someone who is deceased, writing a letter is just fine. Then destroy letter after you have written it.

Does it 'work' if you just say "I forgive you, ______" to the air while we hold the person's face in our minds? Yes, I think it does. That is also my personal opinion.

The question of being sincere in your forgiveness is also raised. In my humble opinion, if one is not sincere, and they just 'mouth' the words, you may have put a halt on the wheel, but only a temporary one. Sooner or later, the real forgiveness must take place.

I also believe that if one understands that the wheel of Karma will continue to turn on any issue that includes anger and revenge, the most people would at least give thought to their actions before proceeding any further.

If your actions now will affect your life at some future time in a negative way, is the revenge worth it? Give careful thought to your answer.

You can find this article at: http://www.firethroughspirit.com/healing/words12.htm





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Wednesday, 28 June 2006
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Re: Thanks for my first negative rep TC!
Ok...if that is how you see it.

You should not have posted it in public. If you had a problem you could have sent me an e-mail and kept it private. adreanne2001@yahoo.com So please drop it here.
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Re: Thanks for my first negative rep TC!
Please stop for the sanity of the boards


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Re: Thanks for my first negative rep TC!
Yes, please do. And I think there may be some confusion over member names here..... Hash it out in emails or PMs.
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Re: Thanks for my first negative rep TC!
Did this REALLY have to be posted publicly?

Gulia, I can understand you being upset at the negative rep, but this is not the time, nor the place for stuff like this. You two really should discuss this in e-mail. Personally, I had "fun" with that thread, so...
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Re: Thanks for my first negative rep TC!
TC and Glenn G, I understand you both feel strongly about this and I don't think either of you are going to change the other's mind. I think highly of you both, and am glad to consider you both friends of mine. So I want to ask you both to please not continue this here. In fact, I wish you'd both agree to disagree and let it go. But if you feel you must hash this out, please try to discuss it in private. Ok?

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Re: Thanks for my first negative rep TC!
Nothing is going to be solved if you two keep responding to each other on this thread

Can't we all just get along?


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Re: Thanks for my first negative rep TC!
People....let's all step back and take a deep breath.

Glenn, I love ya bro....but in this instance you are WAY out of line here. If you have an issue with the rep that TC gave you - which by the way is something that only YOU can see - then you should have taken it up with her in PMs. To publically call her out is bullshit, and to do that so soon after Sal is asking everyone to quit the drama is about as counter productive as possible.

So ya got some bad rep....does it really matter in the grand scheme of things? You should see the bad rep I've gotten over the years here.

I'm not losing any sleep. Everyone's entitled to their opinion.

Let's let it go now. and hopefully Sal will see this thread and lock it up

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Giving someone bad rep
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over a thread they don't like. YET had posted in said thread wishing that person a Happy Birthday. If that isn't starting shit, I don't know what is.

Heres the rep tht was given out by TopCat
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Happy Birthday Papergirl! 6-24-06 05:08 AM TopCat: We are all trying to start new and to wish someone who trashed the board a b-day is very unclassy.


Heres the fucking thread she posted in.

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I am pretty sure she left for good.

Happy B-day anyways.
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Yeah, she isn't starting shit is she. What a fucking moron she became.



Posted by planet/xchangelosers at 10:41 AM EDT
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And the Sheep shall flock
Members who have called past members sheep, and people who can't think for themselves. Are still teaming up to protect their OWN friends. Who are the sheep now?

Lets list names

Pagan
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Monday, 26 June 2006
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http://www.myspace.com/ronscleverpage


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Ah, yes, you are a landwhale too
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Thursday, June 22, 2006


A song dedication...to all of my friends who are fighting
Current mood: disappointed

People Are People - Depeche Mode

People are people
So why should it be
You and I should get along so awfully

So we're different colours
And we're different creeds
And different people have different needs
It's obvious you hate me
Though I've done nothing wrong
I've never even met you so what could I have done

I can't understand
What makes a man
Hate another man
Help me understand

Help me understand

Now you're punching
And you're kicking
And you're shouting at me
I'm relying on your common decency
So far it hasn't surfaced
But I'm sure it exists
It just takes a while to travel
From your head to your fists

I can't understand
What makes a man
Hate another man
Help me understand

Help me understand

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Shawn


Riding on the range.
I've got my hat.
on.
I've got my boots.
dusty.

I wanna be a cowboy.

Posted by Shawn on Friday, June 23, 2006 at 8:21 AM
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Preach it, Nolan! Never did know the words to that tune.....a perfect fit, though.

Shawn, whoever you are, .

Posted by Val on Friday, June 23, 2006 at 2:33 PM
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Perfect song! For those who decided to stick around, they will see the change in everyone.

Posted by Thresa on Saturday, June 24, 2006 at 3:51 AM
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Amen Nolan. Amen.

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Sunday, June 25, 2006


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Current mood: pissed off
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I'm pissed off tonight. Came online to find out someone I considered a friend has been saying shit about me behind my back.I hate dealing with people that are two-faced cowards about things. If you have a problem with me, then say it to me. I won't give the name at this point to avoid getting involved in any more drama. Don't feel like dragging others into this right now. I will say that getting called an "attention whore" really pisses me off. I'm sorry if some people have seen posts that I made on the Xchange in that light, but there opinion really doesn't matter to me. The only reason I'm bringing this up is that I consider uncalled for when someone is much of a coward to say that to me and instead tells other what she thinks while acting like a friend to me. It's a friendship that's over and done with as far as I'm concerned. I've got better things to do with my time than deal with immature people. This has also made me decide to permamently leave the Xcahange. Not going back there knowing there's shit like this to deal with.

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Guess some people just can't let go.

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The Drama Continues..
The Drama Continues.........
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I find it sad today that the drama from the Xchange has goten so out of hand and spilled over onto other sites. It didn't need to happen. I want to avoid taking sides, but its hard not to when so many people have been drawn into this. I will say that certain things have occured that I don't agree with on the Xchange. I don't want to leave the site, but I at least need a break from there while I sort through all of this and decide how I want to move forward. I just hope I don't lose any friends over this. This whole situation should have been dealt with a while back by the Xchange mods since it had such a negative impact on the boards. Maybe this huge mess could have been avoided or at least minimized. This is just my thought on the drama. Unfortunately, I had a bad feeling for a while now that something major was about to occur there. Maybe this is just some needed change for everyone.

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Agreed.

Posted by HANP on Friday, June 23, 2006 at 7:16 AM
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I'm with you on this Jazzy things just got out of control. I am also taking a hiatus from the xchange for pretty much the same reasons.

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It's knowing I'm not the only one feeling this way. Now we just need Roem & Ingrid to get their site up and running. lol I need somewhere to go online. :p

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