Sunday, 22 April 2007 - 4:14 PM PDT
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The “Western Addition” kids.
Yes, Oprah could have built a school and introduce an educational program for the Western Addition kids, but she didn’t, she decided to put her energy and good will into Africa. Why? Well, as I already mentioned, because these girls will cherish it like no other would, it’s their chance to become educated and be able to help their own people in future. Do you think, the Western Addition kids would cherish such a program? Who would you like to help, someone who will be thankful for giving him/her such a great chance, someone who will bloom and grow in front of your eyes, someone who will show how much they appreciate it all and use it in their best way, or someone who you feel like forcing into education, someone with no sense of appreciation of your efforts.
You see, I believe these people who call themselves “poor” are too spoiled and to comfortable to be in the place they are, they don’t do any efforts of even trying to get out of there. These “lower-class” people have it so much better than the girls in Africa. But as I said it already, it’s just so much easier to complain and push the blame on the “others” than actually do something about it. I’m sorry to say that, but I have no understanding for such people.
In the liberal city of SF, there are too many places to go to and seek help, people here want to help, there are various programs offered in schools and/or churches. So what’s the excuse for not joining? It’s laziness. These people labeled themselves as poor and disadvantaged and it is simply easier to just keep on believing that there is no other way out. Without an effort there will be no results. Everything in life has a price, and often one needs to fight for it, only strong actions and hard work will pay off.
Comparing to American standards, I would say I came from a “poor” country. (Just as an example: I tasted my very first banana when I was 6 years old; my family got a phone line after being on the waiting list for 15 years!). Did I get discouraged about preceding my goals and getting an education because of such background? I stumbled a lot along my way, I had bad jobs, I had my share of bad experiences and loses, but I keep on going.
I look at some other immigrant friends of my parents and I admire them. Educated people who begun to work as cleaning personal in the new country, but who with hard work and effort built their life and established an average living standard. I look at the Mexicans working bad jobs, many of them not speaking English, and they seem to make it work for them, they put their energy and believes into making it work. Do you see them sitting around and complaining (except Rodriguez who definitely has his own issues) being disadvantaged? Why not? Because they know, that that’s not the way to achieve anything.
The Western Addition people, what kind of effort do they do to better their life? Their kids get the chance for education, there is no excuse not going to the college (like CCSF that is cheap and/or even for free for low income people). There is no excuse to not know how “stupid” it is to engage in selling drugs or getting pregnant at 15. If the parents are not the “role models”, well then look for someone else that will be, ask people for help. Work hard and move out of the ghetto. It seems to me, that these people for some reason have no values, no aspirations and I don’t understand why that is.
All the people I know have dreams and try to pursue them, they have goals set, and they work hard to move on in their life. I know so many people (including my family) who left their old life behind, sold everything they had, come to a new country, worked the worst jobs possible, and still managed to learn the new language and adjust to the new culture and establish a pretty decent life. You see, that’s the sort of people I know and maybe because of them I’m driven the same way, and probably that’s why I have no understanding for people who are even too lazy to have dreams and goals.