I hope you have found this website helpfull, and has helped in some way. Please feel free to tell me what you think of my site. So i can improve things
Very thoughtful sight. I hope it does well.
I agree with skeptic. It's a very thoughtful site and I hope it helps somebody.
This is a smart site it must have took you ages to make it. I'd never have the patience to do it. well done Connie, be proud of yourself. i hope i can be a regular visiter in the future. Keep it up girl, you done good! T.R
Hi Connie Well, I have gotten through. The address you gave me (from the Rape and Sexual Assault board) this time did the trick. If you wish, you can visit me at, http://www.angelfire.com/biz2/tcsmpsicarter I am glad that you have opened this site. Having worked so intimately with abuse for such a long time, self abuse has always been very much misunderstood. If I can ever be of any assistance, please do not hesitate to mention it. OK? Always, Michael (tcsmpsi)
Micheal, I will vist your site as soon as i can. There is so many terms that can be used with what people do to themselves. Such as self-abuse, self-injury and self-harm. I much prefer to use the term self-harm aswell. I don't really know why i chose selfabuse for the name. Thanks for taken a look. I will is i need to as you for help thanx for the offer. If there is anything i can do for you then just ask. Connie
You're doing a great job here with your site. Good set up and lots of useful contacts and information. I'll have to come back and check on your updates. best wishes - ragdoll http://www.geocities.com/self_harm/
I really like this site- I am proud that you are able to share your stories- as we all know, self injury is a much bigger problem than most people know about. I know your site will do wonderfully and I look forward to visiting often- thanks and good luck- Kelly
This is an excellent site. I like the selfless way you have shared your own experiences to help others. Very thoughful and gracious of you. I am going to ask everybody to put a link in their site, and I will too. Great work.
you're inspirational
Great site!
Wow, great site Connie. I have self harmed for years and have already been trying some of the suggestions you made. Thanks a lot for your help here and at urnotalone.
This is an amazing place you've created, it will help people so much. For your eMail list I might suggest you check out http://www.listbot.com/p_websiteowners.shtml You just put a little button on your site ( see mine at i-want-hits.cityslide.com ) It's a fantastic way to manage a subscriber list and its FREE I added your site to the interim Community Directory at http://home.att.net/~hredelstein/CommDirect.html under Health & Education ~~THANKS!!~~ ~~Heidi~~
This is a really nice site you have here and I hope people can educate themselves about SI. As a SI'er myself, it's nice to see personal sites about the issue, like mine is. Hope your site does well. Luv Hidden XxXxX
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great site keep up the good work....thanks for all ur help and suggestions.marie
Thanks heidi, Your websites have been a big help to me and thank for the one for the mailing list. Your one in a millon. Connie
Well done Connie - you have done well with this site. Thanks for your help. Lyn from urnotalone
nice to know i am not alone
Your site gets better all the time! It's really helpful and thoughtful and I am very glad you have taken the time to help others with your website. Well done!
alright chick! your site totally rocks...it's always helpful to read stuff like this and know that i'm not alone. that sounds cheesy. it wasn't meant to. really, i love the site. keep it up. i'll be coming back! love, t xxx http://envy.nu/breathless
Beautiful site. Great to visit. I would like to add it to my links page on my website! http:www.homestead.com/secret_scars/safehaven.html
This excellent site is very informative and well written. A heartfelt thanks for helping to educate people about SI. Lots of love from Carolyn [http://i.am/.cat]
hey there ... thanks for the email i will link you up as soon as i can... by the way the page looks really good and i would be honored to feature your page on my links section... keep up the excellent work.... =) and take care! - heather ( the old familiar sting )
Cool site wee sis I hope people will use this site as a means of help and support. I am realy proud of you
Connie I have'nt met you,but you seem such alovely person.seeing your website has made me realise I am not on my own.thankyou Charlotte x
Will pass on all I have read and learned to our support group-GASH, Group Around Self Harm
Thanks for all your comments and encouragment. It means a lot to know that this site is touching your lives and breaking the silence.
Ta this is a great site, just goes to prove im not alone, even though i often feel it, ta
Just read through you web site, but this time it made an impact. I had no idea how many people who self harm. I take alot of guts and strenth to do what you are doing. I know how hard it is for you at times. Keep all this good work up and you will see the benifits. Lots of Love fi Ewan & Mel
Dear Connie, Your site is a huge comfort to me, as I have just recently found my 16 yrold son burning and cutting himself, I have no idea what to do other than research this pain he is experiencing and be pateint and love him no matter what.Your site is very informative and I wish everyone who visits here and your self only good things to come. I will be visiting often for more info...Thankyou for your generosity Casey-Mac
Hi All, First time on this board although i post on others. Hope to get to know you all soon and we can work together to fight this crap. I've been selfharming for 21 yrs now and there doesn't seem to be an end to it all. Amber666
this site is pretty damn good i have to say. i'm 17, been SIing for 4 years, getting help, but cant stop. glad to meet other ppl like me, and want to say thankyou to Connie for creating this site. take care. xx
was pretty impressed with website although i didnt think that you really gave a reason for your self harm you dont have to go into detail.eg:was it something that happend it the past personal or other.i think if you gave a little insight it a lot more people might be able to relate more and give more people an understanding int why you started but all in all a good website keep it up
I'm looking for help!!!! please!!! I like your site so far...
i read some thing i never knew b4 and i think i am feeling a bit better cos i aint aloan nay mire .Cheers for that peeps.
ur web site is very good and helpful!
hey. nice page...I have a web site about SI too. check it out sometime
this site is brilliant and even though i don't self harm this web site has given me loads of information for the project i was doing. and to all the people who self harm it will get better, to all the people who have self harmed congratulations for getting through it because i know i wouldn't be able to!
Connie hon ur site is going from strength to strength, always an inspiration, well done proud of ya keep up good work,,,,,,,,luv ya wee sis x
I found your website when I needed help, its an inspiration to us all, I self harmed a ot before, the last time about a month ago, im going from strength th strwgth t stop it and your site is a great help im making me reliase a lot.Thanks Rachael xxx
Thank you Rachael what you have said means alot to me. I am so glad to hear that you are going from strength 2 strength, and that this site has helped. Take care and we are here if you need to talk. Hugs Connie X
Re cut last night, feeling empty and lonley, ive let so many people down x
Rachael, You have not let me down. It don't really matter what folk say hon. You are doing the best and that is what counts. You have so much strength as you want to stop cutting and that takes guts. You are doing great hons. Just take it one min at a time. Connie
great web site try visiting my site http://www.SIGH.50megs.com all about self harm and self harm support group mailing list. take care keep up the great work -Ella-x-
I have been self-harming since feb 1999. I consider it to be the best way of making myself feel better as the only other thing I have found that works is massive drinking binges that cost lots of money (15 beers and a bottle of Jack Daniels ain't cheap)and almost certainly cause me serious internal damage. I would like to stop self-haming but not until I overcome my other problems.
Hi there EKL, I have been where you are, drinking lots up to 100 pounds in a night. I do have to agree that you have to over come or deal with the other stuff before stopping self-harm. Who knows when you have dealt with the other stuff you may find that you have no need to self-harm. I wish you all the best, and welcome to whats the harm.
You have an excellent professional site. I just notice I signed the guestbook about a year ago. Keep up the great work. Take care & stay safe. You can find me at http://www.geocities.com/self_harm/
thanks for this site its very help full!
I think some of the stores are very disturbing and it's grat becaus it made me reliz I have no reson to do it anymore! thanx love TULOOLA XxXx
leanne
i am looking for help
i am a self harmer and i feel that this site is excellent to help people understand.I love reading the poems,coz i can totally relate to them