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Working With Difficult People

Working with people is often more demanding than lion taming. Perhaps that's because there's an animal inside many of us, suggest Frances Norwood and Annette Nunez , professors at the University of Southwestern Louisiana.

They use animals to describe traits of difficult people and then suggest ways to "tame" them. I may not have all the appropiate animals, but I sure had FUN doing this!! Bet we can find the ANIMAL in everyone we know!

BULLS

They come out charging, attacking the other person, usually because they feel frustrated. Because they feel their victims are inferior, they believe they have tremendous power and aften act abusive, abrupt and intimidating.

My recommendation, TURN THEM INTO A WEENIE!!

To Manage Bulls:

SNAKES

They enjoy blending in with the surroundings and striking suddenly when their victims least expect it.

My recommendation, LET THEM PLAY WITH THE DOPHINS!

To Manage Snakes:

CHEETAHS

They burst forth in sudden temper displays (a tactic they learned ealy in life to cope with fear and helplessness), as an automatic response to threat.

My recommendation: BE CALM AND CUTE WITH THEM. MAKE THEM FEEL SILLY REGARDING THEIR OUTBURSTS.

"MACAW" PARROTS

They talk and chatter-- sometimes sense, sometimes nonsense. They feel powerless and think others should behave in certain ways, and they complain when they don't.

My recommendation: INTRODUCE THEM TO TWEETY!

To Manage "Macaws":

OSTRICHES

They stick their heads in the sand, handling painful situations in noncommittal ways. They tend to avoid other people and themselves.

My recommendation: PULL THEIR HEAD OUT OF THE SAND AND TURN THEM INTO A FLAMINGO!

To Manage Ostriches: