Shalovem’s World

ABOUT ME
I am a grad student studying for my Masters in Social Work. I enjoy anime, dancing, poetry and helping children. I work as a children's counselor in the state of PA. My dream is to eventually open a behavioral/ learning center for inner city youth. I am Haitian American and feel blessed to have such a rich culture to pull for my inner strength. I believe that one can truly achieve despite obstacles put into your path, however you must work for it. I dont believe anyone "owes" me anything, if you want it, go for it, but don't whine and complain when things dont go your way if you didnt do anything to get to your goal. My motto is a "dreamer is a doer in the planning stages". I enjoy the challange of knowing that my life is in God's hands and in some small way, I am doing his work.

MY LIFE
I am currently single with no children. I believe that God has a plan for everyone, including myself. I feel that if you truly love in your heart than it is better to let it out than to keep to yourself. You should tell someone everyday you love them, a sibling, parent, spouse, your own child, because your words make all the difference to someone in this world.

FEELING ME?

 I am a pretty happy go lucky 
person with a silly sense of 
humor, I consider myself to
be very intelligent and I love
 real conversation so if you
 would like drop me a line
 and we can chat.  I don't 
take kindly to senseless bigoted
 remarks or any sexist bull shit, 
so don't bring it to me.

  I love anime however so anyone
 who knows of anything going 
on or likes to talk about shows, 
let me know!  I love dragons and
 was actually born in the year of 
the dragon. I love West Indian
 and Japanese culture and am 
currently learning about both.
  I attend Widener University
 for my Masters.

MY ROOMMATES
I have three cats, Sasha, Bandit and Wisdom, they are my babies and bane of my life lol, but I love them anyway. Bandit is gray and white, Sasha and Wisdom are both black and white.

MY THOUGHTS
My own motto" a dreamer is a doer in the planning stages" is one of my favorites. I also like the quote "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams." -Eleanor Roosevelt "Love is a many splendored thing" is another favorite. "It takes a village to raise a child" is one of the most truest statements ever made, so many of our children's problems would be solved if this were still adhered to.

ENOUGH SAID...

 The love of God does not 
depend on you loving him, 
he always will love you. 
The next thing, speak your mind 
by using your heart,
 if not your true words
 may never be spoken.  
Next, children are the future
 of this world, now more than
 ever I realize this, also I realize 
how truly tragic our future will be
 if we do not bring up
 our sons and daughters 
to respect themselves, 
God and others. If we lose them,
 we have truly lost the war. 
 Lastly, love someone, 
doesn`t matter if it is a 
boyfriend, girlfriend, 
mother, father, sister, 
brother, or whatever, 
but love someone 
with all your heart and soul. 
 We are not guaranteed tomorrow, 
and if you go,
 you want to know you left someone 
with the warm impression of your love.  

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FAMILY TIES
My mother, and sister as well as my cousins are my heart. Just to be warned, bring drama to my fam, you will leave hobblin on a knee cap!!! lol

WORDS AND SOUNDS
My favorite books and music: I love anything Sci-fi, or horror, manga (japanese comics) poetry and self improvement. I love merengue, salsa, hip hop, reggae, rock, and classical.

THE BROTHAS
I have a message for the men: if you want to be loved, then show love, but if u want to dog women, date the fleas, a good woman deserves a good man, if you can't be that good man, then be a dog to the blood suckers that want you.

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7 VII 2003 - 18:32 PM

FRIENDS
I am beyond blessed to have found and been found by people that I truly trust, Trinipeach, kaydeeblair, Lady Tee, lilmama, my Horsemen "round up yall, lol " my boys, Rich, knowl, D, nasb4U and the others. Thank you guys for just being you.