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.2-26-2004 11-14-02... 9-18 5-21.. 4-22-02... .3-22-02..2-17-02... 10-4... 9-5.01..... .8-10-01.. .7-1-01.. . 6-11-01..... .5-3-01.. .4-5-01 .3-2-01.. .. 2-6-01..... 1-4-01...... 10-4-00.. 11-10... --2-27-00, --1-27-00 --1-14-05 Why does the media promote endless articles about what bad men do to women but never what bad women do to nice guys? Many nice guys go through life in misery due to what such women pulled on them. Some have nervous breakdowns. Some attempt suicide-- and some succeed. I've known guys in all these categories. Yet even the feminists refuse to admit that there are are many women with stronger psyches than men. ..... ....A bad woman can ruin a nice guy, stab him in the back and drive him to suicide. But if, with his last breath, he slaps her face for what she caused, he would be the villain as one can see the welt on her cheek but even the coroner could not see the fatal sucking emotional wound she inflicted upon him........ ... Date rape? Woman beating? Many women prefer OBVIOUS violent greaseballs over nice guys who would never think of touching them without their permission. There are plenty of guys much more in need of affection than sex but young women don't want them, they want the ex-cons. Thuggishness is "masculine"..... .

...JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL-___// ,,.__ ;;__-- JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL--_______- JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL--_______- JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL-- _______- JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL---.._______ ... JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL..._______.. JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL--_______-... Junior High is when nice guys first notice that aggression is what gets girlfriends. Never mind that the aggressive guys tend to be the nasty ones without feelings, driven by heartless lust, who only want to use the girls' bodies and unaggressive guys tend to be the nice ones but don't have the heartless brazeness to compete....... .. It's thought "cute" that young girls have a new boyfriend every couple of weeks. Not if you were one of them it wasn't. It's when you first learn, the hard way, of the pinwheel of female emotions. It's when a decent guy learns distrust. Many a guy who will say anything to get a woman and have no feelings for her pain learned it from a girl who did it to him when she had a crush on him, used him, and dumped him when he was very young, innocent and decent. Remember: Girls reach puberty two years before guys. They often first go after a guy, seduce a guy, dump the guy, and start him off on the wrong foot towards women..... Junior high is where you learn that men are not supposed to have any sexual self-respect. Any awful girl can move on you and you'd better not reject her or she'll tell everyone you're gay or immature or shy. Men are "supposed" to be promiscuous. Young girls are the first to ridicule modest men yet males who respect their own bodies will respect those of women as well. It's also where you first meet the "touchy feely" types who don't realize they're sending the wrong signals to rotten men while offending decent men. (or maybe they do!)...... Late Junior High is where you first learn that a woman can seduce you when you originally had NO interest, suddenly dump you in the way best timed to derange you (i.e: during finals, when your dog dies, or better still, a parent) with absolutely NO guilt whatsoever, have the audacity to return ten days or ten years later, and say, with an absolutely straight face,"Why have you gotten so distant?" As if males have neither Feelings nor Memories! (Even the worst rat who dumps a girl doesn't expect her to be friendly afterwards, yet girls expect it!)...... It's also when you notice that, although girls always complain about guys who "only care about sex", THOSE ARE THE JERKS THEY ARE ALWAYS WITH!!!. They DON'T want the nice guys who would not think of touching the girl on the first date. Actually, I've often been tempted to ask, "What else you got?" considering so many girls will spend every spare hour on their appearance and no hours developing their minds, talents, or abilities. Develop only appearance, attract only shallow men.

.....HIGH SCHOOL---_______-- HIGH SCHOOL ---_______-- HIGH SCHOOL---_______-- HIGH SCHOOL--_______--- HIGH SCHOOL---_______-- HIGH SCHOOL-- _______--- HIGH SCHOOL_____ HIGH SCHOOL-- _______--- HIGH SCHOOL--- _______-- .....High school is where many male fully learn how many women have their heads on backwards. Kindness is taken as weakness. Decency is taken as shyness. So they slobber over rats who are either dopers, alcoholics, woman beaters, cheaters, ex-cons, or sex fiends. Rotten men tease nice guys about how they get the rotten guys leftovers. The males of my generation related to the Dr. Zhivago scene where ther gentle idealist who is saving himself for marriage becomes an embittered, hardened commissar after learning his "sweet" girlfriend was secretly copulating with a sleazebag..... ..... .... You learn that the most aggressive guys get the girls. How is it possible for them to be so aggressive?? They aren't slowed down by decency, morality or consideration for the feelings of others (empathy). But nice guys are! So they're crippled at the starting gate...... .... It is where you are confronted by the most diabolical thing ever invented by women: the "friend". Many nice guys are patted on their heads and proclaimed friends"...This means you get all the bad things of knowing such women with none of the good ones. You'll fix her car, balance her checkbook, repair her applinces--- while she borrows your car to secretly take out her REAL boyfriend who mistreats her..And then she'll have the nerve to expect YOU to feel sorry for HER!!! Many women divide men into categories such as lover, potential lover, close friend, friend, and aquaintance. FINE! But what is crazy is that they think they can promote or demote suddenly at will and the man will obey without question or complaint. As if, say, a former lover will accept being demoted to a 'friend' watching her with her new lover. Equally bad is the woman who has been a friend so long he thinks of her as a sister. A total breach of trust yet she will think him a cad if he he politely rejects her. (Many women form a brother/sister relationship, deliberately remove every bit of mystique, and suddenly, after months or even years, get interested as if men have on/off switches. (And ladies, if you lose interest in a man, GET RID OF HIM. Don't try to keep him on as someone you can USE in the future as a 'friend'. YOU CANNOT DEMOTE A MAN, YOU CAN ONLY GET RID OF HIM and get out of his life so he can find someone else. When you try to demote him you're lucky if he doesn't HATE you, much less expect to USE him. ................. ............... .............. Out of self-respect, many men demand two categories: lover or GONE. Ladies: If you lose interest in a nice guy, GO AWAY!! Don't think that just because he didn't hit you it means he wasn't upset. (This writer is STILL plagued by females who left him when LBJ was president!) To most men any woman with whom they as much as made out with will always be a sort of girlfriend and never anything else. ...... .............. Most young women will also blindly follow any moronic fad. If purple pantaloons are 'in' this semester the males who mindlessly obey the herd and wear them will be popular with the girls. Those with minds of their own won't be. (In my day it was cordovan penny loafers, burgundy socks, paisley shirts, and Barracuda jackets)... .,.... ..... .......... Its where you learn that if a girl sends her friend to tell you that she has a crush on you YOU'RE supposed to ask HER out and pay for everything- or youre a cad. (A woman can have many boyfriends at little expense but a guys dates are limited by his DADDIES wallet........................ High school is where one learned that a gentleman is not someone who doesnt put the make on a girl at the drive-in as to do nothing is to reject her. Rather, you must read her mind to learn at what time and rate to do something-- in order to give her, not you, the option to accept or reject. And if you are one minute early she'll tell everybody how forward you were but if you are one minute late she'll tell everybody how shy you were -- which is even worse for a guys reputation (nice guys are usually late)............................ And then begins the glorified prostitution. If your daddy can buy you a nice car, you've got the girls. They they wonder why they aren't treated with respect. Whores Don't Deserve Respect! ("Meet my wife, She's the best I could do with the car I had") You learn that both quality and quantity of girlfriends are proportional to the size of the bulge in your pants- your wallet! As teenagers are paid minimum wage it all comes down to whoever has the richest daddy to buy him his women..................... Smart nice guys learn to act cool, distant and indifferent to attract women . If you can't act thuggish, at least pretend you forgot her name and dont care about her one way or another (even though you secretly like her her so much you remember everything about her and would love to do nice things for her. )......... AT THE FIVE YEAR HIGH SCHOOL REUNION the girls who snubbed nice guys for rats and jerks would now all be divorced and telling them how mistaken they were. Especially to the college grads (Back when ABs were important and rare) I always wrote a girl off forever the moment she got married-- saved future problems. And why should decent guys get defiled second hand sluts?.(Young women, when virginal and worthy to be the wife of a decent man and the mother of his children, don't want him and will treat him like crap. BUT two or three years later, after having been married to a dope-smoking scumbag who defiled them in bed hundreds of times before the divorce, then and only then, do they consider themselves low enough to marry a decent, loving nice guy. But why should nice guys get stuck with the defiled second-hand left-over filth of scummy guys??................

At the TEN YEAR HIGH SCHOOL REUNION they're desperate for fathers for their ex-rats kids. Marry them and you also get to associate with the rat forever (Note: I first typed this in 1993, Now Pamela Lee Anderson said the same thing about how anyone who marries her in the future will be stuck with her tattooed violent jerk as well because of the kid). NEWS FLASH: She went back to her beater. Of course!........ .....

At The TWENTY YEAR HIGH SCHOOL REUNION they push their phone numbers at nice guys as they need suckers to put their rats' brats through college. And the beauties who WHORISHLY traded their looks for a rich husband's money began to show up: divorced. Seems her beauty faded but his money didnt. Nice guys get the leftovers of rats and the throwaways of rich kids...........

COLLEGE__ ________ COLLEGE____________ COLLEGE_________ COLLEGE__________ COLLEGE__________ COLLEGE__________ COLLEGE_____ COLLEGE__________ COLLEGE_________ COLLEGE__________ COLLEGE__________ COLLEGE__________ At College one learns to hit the ground running in September when you have the most money. (MONEY, MONEY, MONEY) Spend and gather as many as you can so you can run on momentum as the cash gets tighter. Drop $100 on a first date and she's nailed down the rest of the semester (Direct cash transfer is 'prostitution', indirect cash transfer is 'romance' ( dining, show, dancing, candy, flowers, fancy vehicle ride).. Poor guys learn they can't compete thanks to the greed of many females. ... ...,..,, ... .... The glorified prostitution worsens as now youre competing against guys whose daddie's own law firms and medical centers. I was sandwiched in a dorm between two nice guys rich kids who HID their money because they wanted girls to like them for themselves, not their daddies money. They never found them. They eventually married beautiful women whom they cheat on as they know it was MONEY love not true love that got them. But they were nice enough to lend their fancy cars to the regular guys who knew better .... ..... College is where you learn that girls can squeeze the inside of your thigh, talk about going out with you, kiss your face, discuss their bodies and sex, but if you take this as an invite to kiss them they can, in all sincerity, be horrified that you would think they ever meant such a thing...... ..... College girls shack up with their cruel or rich boyfriends in the guy's dorm. Eventually they break up and they'll stand in the hall claiming rape (!?). Law students living on the hall hear this and grow up to be judges deciding the validity of rape accusations.... ..... I was brought up to respect women so I'd look for those who appeared to be decent. Yet from 1970-1985 virtually every unmarried girl I met slept on a mattress on the floor (no bedsprings to disturb the neighbors). That made me wonder how "unique" my visit was. Only late does the truth come out about ther pasts. They put on airs, make men jump through hoops normally reserved for vestal virgins and then turn out to have more of a "past" than the good ole blatantly honest high school slut. Nice guys look for wives from the beginning but they're usually the last to find them as they don't want the mother of their children to have slept around far, far more than they have......

GRAD SCHOOL _______ GRAD SCHOOL _______ GRAD SCHOOL _______..... GRAD SCHOOL.._____... GRAD SCHOOL.._____... GRAD SCHOOL..._____.. GRAD SCHOOL...___ ____... GRAD SCHOOL.._____... GRAD SCHOOL._____.... GRAD SCHOOL... _______.. GRAD SCHOOL.._______.,, .. Studious nerds who never had a date in their lives suddenly find themselves popular when they become "Doctoral candidates". The term "doctor" really makes the dollar signs in those female pupils light up...... ..... It's tough for a grad student to find someone who doesn't just look at him as a "success object" and didn't whore herself around to guys with money. Only rich girls are immune as they already have it but that just reverses the prostitution (rich girls offer to buy PhDs for attractive struggling grad students in return for marriage)..... ...... Of course, for every male, age 21 means Singles Bars. They are where heartless females go to see how many guys they can gather with no concern at all for their feelings. It's tough enough for the more-average guys to take that long walk in front of everyone only to be shot down without such creeps playing games. (Why is it that we never hear of the FEMALE ego?) Nice guys have one recourse however-- to drop a couple of bucks and flip the girls drink over. This is the universal signal to other nice guys that, "This is a collector of men. A user. One who leads males on."..... .....

In all those studies about why males date younger women they never mention that the bigger the age gap the less likely the female will try to pull any head games.

However, it's not foolproof. In my mid-30s I went out with one who claimed to be 21. In the midst of my buying her drinks she admitted she was 17. If caught, the newspapers would have crucified ME. ("Middle-aged former Mayoral candidate liquors up innocent little high school girl") Must men demand IDs from women?..... ..... Singles bars are good places for pretty girls and rich boys. Horrors for plain girls and poor boys. They'd save time by lining up the pretty girls and having the rich boys bid on them by yelling out what they owned ("Jaguar!", "airplane!", "houseboat!", "daddy's company") Get the whores and johns paired and out of the way...... ..... They're where the wives of your friends, who just told you how 'very much in love' they were with their husbands, slobber all over rich guys. Wives should be banned from singles bars. They disgrace themselves, mislead single men to placate their female egos, and are embarrassing their husbands. I'm tired of being told not to tell someones husband I saw her at the singles bar...... ..... They're where girls compliment your physique and try to feed you alcohol and junk food, compliment your decency and try to corrupt you, complain about guys handling them while handling you.... ..... Actual honest romance? The more intelligent a man, the more romantic he tends to be. But it's all one-sided. The man takes the time to learn all the rituals from the wine-testing ceremony to reading foreign menus while the woman sits like a bump. One is supposed to be Sir Lawrence Olivier, Fred Astaire, and Maurice Chevalier while she has the social grace knowledge of Tugboat Annie.... ..... Perhaps the whole singles scene should be reversed. The man should give the woman his number. Then, if she wishes, she call him and the two should go out for coffee at a restaurant in the daylight. No male pressure. No female games..... ..... Women claim that all the best men have been taken. The truth is just the opposite. The best guys could not function any longer in a system that rewarded evil and punished good. They dropped out. They now either keep to themselves or with other nice guys. The males who are the most sensitive to a woman's feelings are also the ones who are the most vulnerable to harm at their hands. The best proof that homosexuality is not a "chosen" lifestyle is that nice guys would have switched...... ..... I write this because one of my male friends committed suicide (Front page Harrisburg Patriot years ago) and another is permanently deranged-- because of what their women did to them. 4-20-99.........Note: The normal female answer to this posting has been, "Not all women are like that". That's true. But all the women who CAN be like this, are. If you are a very ugly or very fat or very old woman you're not like this: because you can't be. If you are one of these dime-a-dozen middle-aged divorced women between the ages of 35 and 60 who are absolutely desperate for a man, you can't be. (Although you probably USED to be back between 16 and 34 when you screwed around with scummy guys and rich guys while being horrible to nice guys and poor guys. You only stopped because you CAN'T do it anymore. I get a big kick out of meeting the girls I went to high school with back in the 60s who were so ARROGANT and teasing and unfeeling back then and seeing them now, with their looks gone and their husbands with 20 year olds and how "nice" they now all are to me- while I wouldn't be caught dead with anyone my age now. ("The women who used to be too young for me, are now to old for me"). I now keep meeting girls I went to high school with at Border's Books (The prowling place for divorced middle-aged women) and they come up to me and say, "Remember me? We went to high school together!" And I say, "Yes, I do. You were a bitch who treated nice guys like me like shit! Here's a bulletin for you: Nice guys had feelings and MEMORIES. Goodbye" ..... .... .... 6-30-99. My 'thanks' to all the girls who made this page possible. .... ... Pamela Lee is back with her batterer..... Get aload of the supermodel Kelsey Grammer is married to. And hes so ugly. Money!..... _________________ _________________ _______________________ ___________ THIS IS FROM THE BOOK BY MARCUS PIERCE MELETON, JR::::: CHAPTER 8: REPROGRAMMING THE NICE GUY::: RELEARNING CHARACTER TRAITS:: Beginning to see the point? You have your positive qualities all mixed up. Bad qualities are still all bad qualities BUT NOT ALWAYS WITH WOMEN. You will now begin reprogramming. Below is a dictionary of personality traits to learn from_____:: ALOOF: This trait makes a man seem independent or distant. The challenge of breaking through that disinterest, to make the man attentive and feeling is intriguing. Aloofness can be interpreted as non-acceptance thereby feeding the inadequacy needs of some women. If you have little substance, be aloof. Cats are aloof. They leave home, they're choosy about their food, and women love them. (Synonym- indifferent)..... ANGRY::: As in "hating the world" type anger. The JAMES DEAN SYNDROME. Look at what it did for him! This trait lights up the needs-help sign. Women are desparate to help cure this anger. If the anger is turned on her, then she gets the added thrill of martyrdom and inadequacy. EVER NOTICE THAT TROUBLEMAKERS TYPICALLY HAVE GIRLFRIENDS?..... EGOTISM: (Exaggerated sense of self-importance) We all hate egomaniacs, right? WRONG! If this were true, half of all football players would never find a date. Was Mohammed Ali lonely?..... CHIVALROUS: (Marked by Honor, Courtesy, and Generousity). Chivalry, if not dead yet, soon will be. It turns off female inadequacy., martyrdom, and need-to-help motivation. It is therefore AMPLY unrewarded and if Darwin's theory is correct it will be bred out of men. Most men will support the position that chivalrous acts have had little effect on their attractiveness...... CONFIDENT: Its good to have confidence but its worthless to women unless it is in the right form. A man can be a mental case and a failure at everything, but if he is confident with women, he can change his bedpost to sawdust carving notches in it. Astrology, metaphysics, body language and any other magical but useless assistance take their rightful place in oblivion as confident males plow through women..... CONSCIENCE: (Consciousness of the moral right and wrong of ones own acts or motives) The most successful of the Mr. Abuses LACK a conscience.The trashing of a woman must be accompanied by the ability to not care that one does so. This prevents any hesitation of doing it to the next one. Lack of conscience also serves as a drawing card. Women want to help him learn that he should care and will extract microscopic signs of caring and declare them a breakthrough. What a challenge!..... GENTLEMAN: Women like gentlemen to be around as long as it doesnt develop into anything serious. A gentleman makes a good butler, not a lover. A statement often heard about a gentleman is, "He is such a gentleman, why doesnt he have a girlfriend?" The question answers itself..... GIVING: A man who is giving is generally rewarded with a woman that takes. Eliminate this urge. It wont get you a woman.. Wheres the challenge in a man that gives? How will giving make a woman feel inadequate?..... GOOD LOOKS: under construction

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