Study

Study - The First Step in the Process

When you make the decision to convert ( after you have meet with the rabbi) you will likely be asked to attend either a Conversion or Introduction to Judaism class. Some Rabbi’s may decide on meeting with you privately instead of an open class. The majority of rabbi’s from the liberal movements choose the class room environment. Within the Orthodox movement private, one on one meetings with the rabbi is still the only option.

Both avenues have positive and negative points to consider. In the class you are able to meet others who are making the same decision you have. It gives you a chance to hear how others came to their decision and, during class discussion it allows you to see a wide range of views. You may also form lasting friendships with will help you through this long difficult process (as I did). The down side to this is that classes must be scheduled according to the availability of all participants. Also, if you miss a class, catching up could be difficult. You may also feel inhibited from expressing your true feelings while others are listening.

With the private meetings you may feel more free to express how you feel. The down side to this is you may feel isolated and lonely. Its really a toss up. I personally believe that it is helpful to speak with others who are going through or have finished the same process.

In the class you can expect to cover Jewish history, the Jewish holidays and festivals, Jewish life cycle - birth, marriage, divorce, death and etc, Israel, the Holocaust and theology. The Rabbi will give you a required reading list. These books will start your home Jewish library. You may also be required to keep a glossary and journal. The journal can help you write out your feelings and you may discover questions which you hadn’t previously thought of. The journals are, almost always, private. The Rabbi isn’t interested in checking to see what you have written.

The glossary is another important resource. Throughout the class and in the books you read you will see and hear Jewish terms which will be important for you to know. The Rabbi will usually stop to define unfamiliar words for you. If he doesn’t, ask him. You wont be expected to remember every Jewish/Hebrew term used but a basic vocabulary of terms will be of great importance when you begin you life as a Jew.

Every class differs. Some may be very active and keep students interested and involved. Others will seem to scholarly and loose the students attention. The important thing is to keep at it. The study portion of the conversion may last anywhere from six months to two years. My class lasted fourteen months. Some fee’s may also be involved. You should ask your Rabbi if and how much you will be expected to pay. Don’t let the financial aspects scare you off. Most Rabbi’s will drop the fee’s or allow you to pay him back later if your financial situation requires.

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