I guess the the fact that we are supposed to have church and state separate...is still  a fact that sadly goes hand in hand with politics and those politicians who call it forth when it suits there needs.  These people who come on TV news shows to toot the fact that they have are best intreset at heart because they from a church affliation. Since when does the label "I'm a Christain" all of a sudden make you a saint?

I think if you have to state it constanly then your not only trying to cconvince others but yourself as well. All the books in the world can not give you what you don't already have.......a good moral code. The simple knowing of justice, right from wrong and truth. In my opinion and this is not the gospel according to St. Me.....you are either a good person or your not, plain and simple.

As some of us feel the pressure to become attached at the hip in a haply ever after fairy tale.....the rest of us are left to wonder...."is this it"?  As we get older, are dating pool get's smaller and at the same time......yes, we get pickier. We are getting set in our ways and really don't want to make so many concessions as we did when we were younger.  So if age "ain't nothing but a number"......what's attitude?

That makes you wonder.....is the dating pool really getting smaller or are prerequisites get's longer?  Is it really that we start to believe that all we left at this age is another woman's cast-off? Or is it that we just think that if some one doesn't fit sunggly into our single nest......he's the one not worth it?

HEALTH CARE~

We have all heard on so many TV shows like Oprah, The Doctors...that we need to be pro-active in our own health care. This message can not be stressed enough!! I can not count how times I have been told in the past that  "we can't find anything", so I go home only to keep on having the same symptoms and you know when some thing is wrong. With such great sites as WebMd and other's, there is no reason why you can't look stuff up! If you really feel seem thing is wrong keep on your health care provider until they pay attention. Get those second opinions, educate yourself as much as you can. This could be life or death.

I recently asked the head nurse at my Doctors office if doctors get offended when you either bring in a list or some information that you have found online. She of course said "that would be greatly appreciated!". As she said, doctors only have about 10 minutes with you on average. Make the most of your time, getting to the point and not being so vague helps a ton! If you have a list, some thing for them to go on....it helps. It's like giving a detective his first 10 clues!

So be strong, be educated and never give!

Have you ever had a friend who you adore to death? This person knows what your thinking, knows how your feeling and also can drive you insane. She complete's me, and vice-versa. Friendship like these are rare and you should consider yourself lucky when you find one.

Mood:  chillin'

If your like me, your having trouble keeping up with the latest and greatest in cell phones. Just when I think I have a really cool model .........even better when I finally learn how to acutely use it....they come out with some thing better! They really need some kind of "trade-up" plan.......no really think about it! You get a new phone and of course in a about a week or two, it becomes obsolite......soooo you go back and trade up! Of course I don't think this would sit well with the cell phone carriers, but it would be awesome for us!

Just like your computer......yeah....we ALL know that as soon as you get it home, load all your goodies on it....it's considered old. When I bought my new HP.....gosh...I was in love. Of course I was even more in love when my tiny little town got high speed that same year! When I had technical problems with the high speed set up...or some thing...and called tech support....yeah, I was told "your computer is old, have you thought about getting a new one?"  WHAT!!!!!

 What people think about tech gadgets must be the same as most now think of marriage........it's old, not enough memory, time for new model!