THE WEEK THAT WAS
It has been on hell of a month for Fiddy. My daughter became very sick and needed to be put in a hospital for a while. She's fine now, and she's making a full recovery.
Something occurred to me. What are the really important things to me. #1 on the list was my family. Everything else went to the side. My cases, job, hobbies, nothing meant anything to me, just my family. Then it really hit me,
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I think many who come here need to understand that nothing is more important than the people who love you, and some of you out there don't know who those people really are. It's not your boys, they don't really give a shit about you. How do I know this? I've locked up more people in my time than you could count, and most of them never get a visit from their boys, but their mothers are there to see them all the time! When one of the "brothers" gets killed, you don't see the "brothers" going to the grave site, but you see mom, dad, sister, wife, FAMILY, at the grave site. Ask one of the boys for some money to go back to school, see what they say. I bet if your family could afford it, they'd hand over money for school in a second.
Who and what's important is the only thing that really matters in life. Sure things are going to come up in life that at the time seem like they are the most important thing to ever occurre, and at the time, due to stress, or perhaps, "not exactly level headed thinking", it maybe very important. In the end, you find out that the most important thing in the world is your own. I wish people would think before they do things. Think about your mother before you shoot that FLAKE. Think about your child before you sell that rock to someone else's parent. Think about your siblings before you beat someone else's siblings into the ground.
In my job, I don't always have time to think. I have to make split second descisions that will effect not only my life but many others every day. In your line of work, you can consider killing someone in a drive by forever if you want to. You can think about not selling drugs until the cows come home, you don't have a dead line. You don't have to make that split second decision like I must.
Think before you act. Think about wheather or not it's really important to pull a trigger, or sell that dope. Think about right, and wrong and then think about how your actions will effect your family.
As always, wishing peace,
FIDDY
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