Daddy's Little Girl
Let's examine a very important question: what is wrong with women? Women today are as insecure and unhappy with their marriages as ever and there is a significant upward trend fueling this statistic. A recent survey conducted by Women's Day Magazine polled over 3000 women and the statistics unfortunately supported this: "More than 50% of married women were "not sure" they would marry their husbands again. Perhaps more troubling was the admission by one-third of women that, if given the opportunity, they would "definitely" not choose the same husband. These telling numbers are even more disturbing when coupled with the following admission: One-third of these self-described desperate housewives admitted "they don't have time for sex with their husbands." Yet inexplicably, 75% did find time to fantasize about men other than their husbands-and almost 40% acknowledged "constantly flirting" outside their marriage."
We have about a 50% divorce rate where a female has two choices when splitting from a man: she can fuck another man and get half her husbands wealth; or she can simply divorce him and get half his wealth. We see it all the time. And men get crucified by the court when taken through this painful process. With the high divorce rate coupled with the above statistics, I must ask, what the hell is going on?
First, I would like to give an example of a woman who I highly respect: Mary Wollstonecraft, author of A Vindication of the Rights of Women. Now I hope this doesn't sound like a god damn book report, but let me explain her views real quick. Mary Wollstonecraft's complaint is not that of men in society per se, it is of the women. Her misogynistic views are based at the lack of respect women have for themselves. She argued how a female was not seen as a human being; instead she was seen as a "woman." It was this essence of being a "woman" which drove men to desire women. Created by society, a woman was expected to act certain ways and was seen as a sexual figure. However, Wollstonecraft is not advocating the need for women to become superior to men. On the contrary, she wants there to be a mutual respect and equality amongst the sexes. Man is not the enemy, but women are their own enemies. She believes women need to wake up and not be slaves to their own crooked beliefs on how they should act and what roles they play in society. They must have an understanding of how and why to improve and be virtuous. She felt women were seen as objects who are weak, well-mannered, and puppy-dog like. Wollstonecraft believes women will never be respected or seen as equals to men as long as they are recognized by their beauty and sexuality. I couldn't agree more.
DADDY’S LITTLE PRINCESS
Ever since a young age women are brought up to think they are "princesses." They are raised on the notion they are "cute", "adorable", "special", and that one day a prince charming is going to come along and sweep them off their feet, and the media plays a big part in supporting this as well. It's not a coincidence either that successful women of higher power in today's society typically possess qualities associated with males: assertiveness, boldness, strength, etc. On the contrary the "cute, adorable" ones are weeded out and aren't in such positions but become dependant on a male instead. A man may have priorities in his life and work hard, but once married his wife becomes his sole priority while everything else is put on hold and his goal and purpose in life is to take care of the female. There is no reciprocity.
Women are raised to be catered to every need and that one day they will do nothing but shop in Beverly Hills with their girls or travel to Paris while their husband brings in the money. They are put on a pedestal and pampered to every need from day one and expect this to continue for their lifetime. I even remember growing up my mother always taught me to open doors for women, pay for them when we go out, pull out their chair when they sit down, etc. Even in elementary school I was told to give up my seat for a female and go out of my way to assist them in things they could easily do themselves. Many would see this as proper, but even Wollstonecraft viewed it as a way man could show their superiority. A double standard is created in the process: women want to be seen as equals with men when shit suits them best but they want to be treated as the weaker sex when the shit doesn't suit their needs. There are no consequences for their actions either and instead they are excused as being the "poor little helpless girl"... a victim to society's cruelty created by the big bad man.
Men are not to blame; instead society in general is to blame. Women and men are a product of society and men are just as guilty as women for their ignorance because both sexes are victims of society's influence. Women are seen as a means of gratification, and friendship is not the basis of relationship with man. Women aim not to be friends with men or to try get inside their heart, but instead they are intoxicated by the adoration of men. In all fairness, men would act the same way if in the same situation. And I'm not off the hook either, because I generally see women as sexual objects too and only want to be "friends with benefits" with most, but I can't be blamed either. Keep reading.
Now don't get me wrong, paying for a date, opening doors, or giving a gift is fine but it becomes a problem under two circumstances, when:
1) Women feel entitled to this type of treatment
2) There is no reciprocity
Anytime a woman feels she deserves this type of treatment and has this sense of entitlement then there is a problem wherein this double standard is created. When there is no reciprocity the female is giving nothing back in return, adding again to the double standard.
GETTING BY ON LOOKS
First let me say to any female reading this that looks are a dime a fucking dozen and then fade in time, so you lose twice. I live in Miami and I can attest to this fact because every other girl could be a contestant in a beauty contest. My point is, personality and character go a helluva lot further than a pair of tits. The latter is indeed good for fucking, but if you want any chance at a successful career and marriage you need brains and integrity.
Women today are brainwashed into looking thinner and thinner, tanner and tanner, with bigger and bigger breasts, longer legs, wider hips, tighter pussies, clearer skin, and so on. Plastered on magazine covers and televisions, women are made to feel guilty and ugly if they do not live up to these standards. These qualities are fine as many are reflective of how well a women takes care of herself, but when they are acquired via unhealthy measures, taken to extremes, or made to be "requirements" for women in order to be attractive or successful than there is a problem.
REALITY HITS
So what does this princess mentality do for a female? Well reality hits them harder than a semi on the highway. This reality is overwhelming to them and women in turn play the victim while resenting the world and resenting the men that surround them. They are pissed. Pissed they're life isn't this lovely fairy tale they were raised to believe in; pissed that things are no longer handed to them and they actually have to work to succeed on their own; pissed there is no prince charming; pissed that their appearance is slowly diminishing after being raised on its importance while their uterus shrivels away into another vestigial organ. They cuddle into a ball of mediocrity while becoming dependant on a man as they sink into a depressive, monotonous life. Harsh? Keep in mind we're talking in generalities here...
SOLUTION?
Wake up. Quit trying to get by on appearance and "cuteness". Quit expecting special treatment and get rid of your sense of entitlement. Quit holding men to double standards. If you want to be a housewife, traditional female, a delicate little flower or whatever that is fine, but quit demanding unnecessary parity amongst men especially in the work field and don't ignore reciprocity nor feel a sense of entitlement. If you do enter the workforce, don't expect or demand special treatment or privileges. Accept consequences for your actions, prove you have a strong head on your shoulders, and quit playing the victim.
How can women expect men to not see them as inferior when one constantly hears such things as "I'll just marry rich." How can women expect men to see them as equals if they try to get by in life on their looks and sexual appeal? And how can men take women seriously if they see them as objects of pleasure when women themselves fuel this passion by explicit dress and sexual relationships? Men still need to be held accountable for their actions, but as long as women keep giving in to their behaviors things will never change.