The following is a copy of the Medium Session Preparation Letter
I used to send to all clients scheduling a medium session via telephone
or in person. By taking time to read this letter, I felt clients could better
understand the manner in which I work before the consultation began.
Thus leaving us (myself and the client) with extra time for actual
information that would come through from their loved ones in spirit.

I could not even begin to count
the many times I would hear
“Oh I have read every book available
on medium work and after death communication."

Or the client would inform me that they have watched
every episode of Crossing Over with John Edward, and
this made them feel, they were well aware how mediumship
works...

And it does!

Since the debut and success of Crossing Over,
my job has become easier. Folks understand that
I may confuse the names MARy and MARie.
Callers understand that I cannot guarantee...
who WILL come through, and who will NOT come thru
when I connect to the other side.

So...the many mediums (James VanPragh of Beyond,
Sylvia Brown on Montel, and John Edward of Crossing Over)
have SO helped society to grasp the manners in which,
the deceased will communicate.

The triumph of having these media mediums on TV,
does help the new client understand the signs & symbols
mediums receive.

There is...an adverse side to these shows.
People tend to think, that ALL mediums,
receive information EXACTLY the same.

And this is not so.

Different readers, read different.

There may be a minor difference, or a major
difference in the TYPE of information, signs,
and symbols that come thru.

SO PLEASE KEEP IN MIND - Even if you are John Edwards best friend,
even if you are a medium yourself…EVERYONE READS DIFFERENTLY.

Each psychic medium will have their own methods for reading.

Just like every chili recipe is different,
just like no two books are alike,
neither is every medium.

The medium may fluctuate just a bit.
OR a great deal.

Some professional mediums...want no information
(other than your name) prior to the session.

Other mediums, may need the name of the person you
want to connect with. They may need a picture or possession
of the person you want to connect with.

I prefer no information...at all to begin your session.
Because confirmation DURING your session is SO
important for me, I like to know NOTHING of those
you want to connect with so that I can be assured
that I am connecting to your family & friends on
the other side through out your session.

This approach is actually, a me thing.
I don't do this to wow you. I do it in order
to reassure myself that I am indeed connected
to those in spirit as I provide information to you.

Example: Very often, when I am reading for someone,
whether it is for a deceased pet, a deceased parent, child or
even spouse... I will come to a statement
(provided to me from the other side) and
the client says...
"NO".
"NOPE...this is not my wife/mother/child.
She/He/They LOVED to cut the grass for me!"
Or...the client will tell me...
"I do not think you are connecting to the person I wanted
to connect with because they LOVED my eggs benedict recipe!"

Well guess what?

If I have just provided you with very specific information,
be that a name, date, special celebration for your family,
or explicit characteristic trait....then I am going to STICK
with whatever I have heard FOLLOWING/ PRECEDING
the statement..you are disagreeing with.

Working with validation...lets me know that what I am
hearing...feeling....seeing....smelling....tasting....during
your session, is correct, even though you may not have
realized what that loved one, was realllllly thinking...
while eating your eggs benedict!

So...I work with a lot of validation information.
And to do that, I cannot have a huge amount of
aforementioned info from you.

Hopefully you can understand a bit better with just
this explanation....why you should know something
of the way your psychic medium reads.

You ABSOLUTELY have a responsibility in understanding the manner
in which your reader is going to supply information from the other side.

You are 50% of the reading.
And I know the skeptics will say,
this is what we "psychics" do.

We listen to what you tell us and play on that.

Well, if you can find a medium, who can tell you
about a certain bush in your backyard, the fact
your car just had "tire" problems in the past week,
or the name of loved ones along with other characteristics,
without you providing details...
you can believe that you have an authentic medium.

Please...if you are even considering a medium session
with me, or any reader, take the time to read the rest
of this article.

It certainly won't hurt.
And quite possibly,
it may improve the reading you will receive
by allowing you to understand better the
words that may come through in your consultation.

In the past, it was a requirement for my clientele
to read this letter before I would even read for them.

Eventually I discontinued that prerequisite.

I figured...if you decided not to prepare for your session,
that was your choice.

In fact....You may still receive very beneficial
effects from your medium session
without doing any type of "groundwork".

As I mentioned before...
the success of John Edward, Sylvia Brown, George Anderson and last but not least, James VanPraagh, more and more clients will understand the symbols and signs that
I receive during your reading.

More and more I do not have to explain
what is meant when I state
there is a young man “below” you.

You have probably heard the pioneers mentioned above
use this same description and know that it is a male that
would be of younger age value than yourself...

The thing is...
We will have anywhere from 45 minutes to 1 hour together.

This definitely leaves time for me to stop and explain my symbols.

It is enough time for me to explain that I can confuse names like
STEVE – STEPHANIE – STUART….(see the ST that is common in all names?)

BUT…if you want to come to your session,
organized and prepared, take a minute to copy this article.

Any of my office staff will be more than glad to send this
format to you via email (without the background) or via
US mail.

You may think about all of the time
you will spend reading these words.

However, the time you spend here
before your session
will undeniably provide you
with more time for the ACTUAL messages,
when we implement your reading.

Lets go to the letter.

I thank you for selecting me to provide you
with such a personal experience as that
of a medium session.

My personal responsibility
when I decided to do this type of work
is to hopefully provide you with the same style of healing
that I received due to communication from my deceased mother
through the help of a medium.

A medium session can be most definitely be healing.
It is NOT a cure.

I believe a good medium session
is only a slight fraction in the process
of therapeutic management we can go through
when losing someone we love ... incredibly.

In fact, I don’t know if we can ever reach a place
of total peace when we have lost someone we love.

I have not come to a complete feeling of release
with my mother who I lost in 1995.

I loved her dearly and I still miss her physical presence.

What I have discovered
[because of the work I do and some of the medium sessions I have had]
is that I will never let the sun set on an argument again.

Losing my mother, made me realize how to
separate the big stuff from the small stuff.

The loss of my mother taught me how to say
“I am wrong” with such a greater ease.

And the words “I love you”
comes with such simplicity now.

So you see, my mother continues to teach me, from the other side. =)

I have also come to accept and grasp the concept
that there is more...after we leave here.

The biggest part of my work with you
will be to transfer communication
from those in spirit and relay it onto you.

I bring through contact in the form of affirmations.
Validating information.

During your session,
or any sitting I am involved in as a medium,
I seldom say, “Mom is here and she loves you...PERIOD...

This is too indistinct.
That...is general information
when it is not tied to other
information that
I SHOULD NOT KNOW.

To hear a medium state....
"Your loved one is here, and they
say tell her/him I LOVE them"
is just not enough information to warrant spending
the amount of money charged for a medium session!

Medium work is draining work.
I know it doesn't look like it, since
the medium just kind of sits there,
and delivers words. BUT it is exhausting.

And a fee is a requirement.

But when you post that payment,
you should receive something back.

So when you hear the
"they love you" from the medium,
listen for other confirmations that will
let you know...you are connecting with
YOUR family & friends. You have paid for it.

If you have come to me
to reconnect with a loved one, chances are high,
that there is a common bond of love.

It doesn't really take a psychic to
figure that one out.

Therefore, I should be able to provide you
with information, facts, numbers, dates, habits etc. etc
that would remind you of that special someone.

I know some "psychics & mediums" will disagree
with me on that one. Telling me that it is not
necessary to provide details in a reading.

And...possibly they are right.

But I know for me, when I get a reading,
I WANT TO KNOW that the practitioner
I am receiving this reading from, can tell
me something that is not general information
for any person who has lost a loved one.

I like detail - so I give details.

It certainly may not be what
you expected to hear. Or initially
I may not bring through the deceased
relative or friend you THOUGHT
would come thru. But if you will listen,
and let me complete what I am receiving,
chances are, somewhere in the words,
is verification of authentic connection
to the other side.

I have always felt my first and most important objective as a professional psychic medium is to bring through the events surrounding your life, their life. Events, celebrations, dates of importance, names, unusual numbers, locations of birthplace, living arrangements, situations (sometimes sticky situations, humorous or unforgettable moments) will come through.

I have included some short examples of my readings below
to help you understand the signs and symbols and
the way I receive these validations.

I may or may not mention your recent pregnancy,
sale/purchase of your home,
or which wife your husband preferred…number 1 – 2 or 3.

Your best bet…come with an open mind.

Do not insist on me picking up your nickname
when you were 3 years of age...please.

However, if you let me go,
and release those binding mandates of what you
think Grandma or Uncle Albert would say,
you may be quite surprised with
what will surface.

Dogs names, unusual collars and even your middle name, may surface.

Just do not hold on steadfastly waiting for that
“thing you told Dad this morning before your session with me”.

You will miss what they ARE saying.

If you can arrive for your reading,
be it in person or via telephone,
and remain open to the names
and descriptions that are coming
thru at the moment....over 90% of the time,
I eventually go on to connect with that certain
someone on the other side.

The person[s] that the whole appointment was arranged for.

More than likely, there will be relatives, neighbors, long lost acquaintances
and even unidentifiable names that will emerge in your session.

And where I would like to tell you different,
the truth of the matter is that I am guilty
of doing the same thing when I get readings for myself.

I sit there waiting with
baited breath for those special words
I EXPECT to come thru in my session!

Recently a group of my psychic girlfriends
all gathered to celebrate the holidays.
As we sat around the kitchen table, one friend,
who is a psychic medium, asked "Vicki, did you
have an aunt Maragret?"

Caught me off guard as we were not there to
be psychics! But I thought quickly. Hmmm,
no...no Maragret. I kept thinking.

My thoughts were interupted by the telephone
ringing. As I looked at caller id, I saw that the
incoming call was from Norma so and so.

Hmmm...my MOTHERS name was NORMA!

The call was from a lady phoning me to see if
we had some donations for Amvets. The caller,
was named NORMA.

I knew when I looked at the caller ID screen,
and saw the name...it was a sign from my mom.

My guests (all professional psychics!) had goosebump
city going on!

When I reseated myself, I told my friend, where I could
not think of an aunt Margret, I KNEW there must
be someone. That Amvets phone call assurred me,
that I was wrong, my friend was right.

The next morning, I had to phone my friend, to
compliment her reading. It was only the next
morning as I sat with my coffee watching the
Today show...that I rememebered....
my aunt MARGIE had passed that year.

Now, I didnt call her Margret...But I BET
her birth certificate did!

So I understand how one can get side tracked
or caught off guard when receiving a medium session.

Another thing I am embarrassed
to admit too, is that I don't always
appreciate in full when someone
comes through in a reading, that I didn't
expect to come through OR was not that
close to in life....

In fact, I have even thought under my breath...
"What in the WORLD is my Uncle Grover
doing here in my medium session?!?!?
I WANTED TO TALK TO _____________"
(fill in that blank with the many folks on the
other side I would prefer to hear from other
than Uncle Grover!)

I always have someone in mind
that I would like to connect with, or
something special and specific
I would like to hear when I have
treated myself to a reading.

So I do relate to clients as
I pay for medium sessions for myself,
I have in mind what I want to hear,
and...who I would like to hear from.

To bear with the reader is difficult.
And I know this from a personal standpoint.

But if you keep your ears open
and try not to obstruct the flow of info,
connection occurs more freely.

And eventually the session will go from Grover
to your selected person you wanted to hear from.

And let me tell you this...
it is often if you listen carefully,
you will hear hidden messages inside
the mediums words.

I know this is exactly how
my information comes through.

And I have had a couple of readings for myself where
once I was settled down from the sessions excitement,
I knew the meaning of something that didn't make sense at
the time.

Again, let me give you some examples.

I had a reading with Suzane Northrop at one of her seminars in
Cincinnati, Ohio. I was lucky enough to receive a message.

Right out of the gate,
Suzane said Mother,
preceded by the
exact date of her passing,
onto a physical description of my mother,
and then went right to a connection to my great grand dad.

(I was fortunate enough to know my great grandfather very well.
He didn't pass until I was almost 9 years old)

So...my first emotion when we switched to grandpa...
was O GOSH I AM NOT DONE WITH MY MOM!!!!!

The next thing, after Suzane handed me like 235
correct validations! LOL Was something about a big
flat UGLY necklace with long dangly earrings.

My mind was racing so fast
that I thought this was my
Grandpa talking about jewelry!

Wrecking my mind trying to
think of what in the hell
he was talking about,
I missed info that would have brought in my Grandmother!

Had I not been so locked in,
I would have caught it at
that moment in the reading.

See, my grandmother used to wear the funniest,
funky jewelry! She would wear these huge ball
earrings or amusing necklaces. All for fun.
My grandmother was filled with humor & wit.

My grandmother loved to play practical jokes
and would go to any length for a laugh,
including the unusual jewelry.

Why would the jewelry come up?
Well first of all, the one characteristic
I obtained from my gramma...is her
sense of humor. Now let me tell ya...
this sense of humor is NOT always
appreciated by the rest of my family!

They sure do not get me at times!

The second reason the peculiar ornaments
would arise in a reading...
So many times, I have wished that I
had some of that jewelry as a keepsake.

The jewelry was not pricey heirlooms.
But...they were my grandmother.
And I would have loved to have
some of those zany pieces to just hold
onto.

What BETTER validation that my family
was surfacing inside that session?
The things that made us laugh.
The features of personality that links
us together even now.

Even though I didn't catch on at the time
Suzane provided me with this information,
I did have time to figure it out later, because by the grace of God,
3 people took notes for me!

When I read those notes,
there were things I did not even hear Suzane say.

WHY?

Because one...I was so hung up on WISHING
my mother back into the reading,
and two, I was stuck with grandpa.

I didn't even realize that my "ma"
was trying to make a quick guest appearance as well.

When you get in this mode,
you will miss all other gestures sent
with love and validation
from others attempting to enter.

Even though I am a reader,
I cannot read for myself.
I have had mini readings from some of the best!
And I will be darned if I still don't find it hard,
to stick to my own set of rules that I ask my clients
to adhere too!

When I was on air as the resident
psychic medium for Angel Waves Talk Radio,
I had the great fortune of receiving a reading from John Holland.

And then...years ago,
I attended a 4-hour workshop with
John Edward and Suzane Northrop.

This was before John’s huge success.
The workshop was filled with a small group of folks.
Less than 20-30 people I would estimate.

Their workshop took on a unique appeal
[John & Suzane had the audience provide readings for
each other with minor intervention and assistance from John & Suzane]

That was probably the best seminar I have or will ever attend.

During the workshop...
I actually received a short reading from John!

Because John & Suzane designed this seminar
to teach us how to connect and understand the signs from the other side,
the reading for me
from my family on the other side...
began as a lady in the audience had connected
to my great grandmother, great grandfather
(both of which I had known well which is a blessing
as most often our great grandparents pass when we are relatively young) .

The audience member
(remember she was NOT a medium!)
also brought through my great aunt who had recently passed.

Her information was astounding!

REMEMBER!! This lady was not a medium;

She was just a member of that fortunate small group
of people there in the hotel conference room on that particular day.

With the help of a guided meditation
to open each of us safely to the other side,
directed by Suzane & John,
she brought through some very accurate information on my family.

Here is the funny thing…

As she began to share the description of what she
was shown as we were meditating (connecting to the other side)
John stepped within probably 2 feet next to my chair.

Almost as though, he knew this information would be for me.
The temporary psychic medium…(the lady…not John)
shared her depictions of my family.

I didn’t want to jump the gun in claiming them,
so as I listened and paused before collecting my
association with the description….
Suzane looked my way and John moved toward me!

Undoubtly...they knew this info was for me.
(Now John & Suzane DID NOT know me either!
I was just another member of their audience)
So they had no clue what I did, or who I had
on the other side!

Even though I do this work,
I still am amazed at the whole process.

Nothing has become second hand to me even after doing this
work on a full time basis, day in and day out...

NOW... I had to grin as I noticed John and Suzane’s observation.
They knew right where the ladies information was headed...to me!

Now, here is my point.
I sat right there,
in that cold stainless steel chair,
waiting for that “SPECIAL PHRASE”
that I needed to hear to know that this was my family.

YEP. I sure did.

Not because I was testing her.
And not because I was going to demand
my specific signs.

I just wanted to make sure it was for me
and not jump too quickly.

And listen, my family is what you may call,
unique.

Well go figure!

I am a professional psychic
and it is no secret inside my family or my in laws
what I do 40 plus hours a week! So unique is an
understatement when referring to my family.

If it was not for the fact that John and Suzane both knew
EXACTLY where those facts and descriptions were supposed to be,
I think I would still be sitting there,
in some kind of a
psychic stupor,
waiting for that poor lady to say
“IS THERE A VICKI IN HERE?!?!?!?”

As John stood above me, within reach, I knew I had to respond!

So you see, whereas I connect with the other side…
when it comes to me personally receiving contact…
I can become the reading from hell!

I can easily turn into that one client
that a reader will want to choke from aggravation!

Where I can value your thoughts
that your loved one is going to send this one particular thought,
word, or description…
I have to tell you,
don’t wait on that to make this session rewarding.

Because exactly what you think will come through, may not.

And while you are so busy assessing and critiquing…
you will neglect what is right in front of you.

So RULE #1 : LISTEN TO WHAT IS BEING SAID,
NOT CONCENTRATING ON WHAT YOU THINK
SHOULD BE SAID.

Another very important step to a rewarding session is to read this prep letter and share it with anyone who will be sitting in with us. It is your job to pass this onto the other participants.

You do not want to have someone sit in on your session
and because they don’t understand my saying
“this is a JA connection”
we get locked in place for 10-15 minutes
of our 60 minutes we have together.

By understanding fully
what I mean when I say JA male above you,
heart and chest area, we can acknowledge and continue the session.

Allowing connection to move toward that special person(s) you want to connect with.

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Lets just jump to another very important rule…

RULE #2 Come to this session understanding that you may speak up at anytime through out the reading to END the session and receive a prorated refund on your cost.

If at anytime for the duration of your reading,
you can have me stop and I will issue a refund
for the time you did not use.
It doesn’t get any better than that.

If you cannot make sense of the names,
dates, scenarios, and symbols I convey – STOP THE READING.

Providing you with this option relieves so
much anxiety and apprehension for you as a person
wanting to trust the word psychic.
This option of ending your reading....
Also helps me as a person who would like to provide you
with some kind of repair of such a loss.

By offering this choice to close the session,
it represents my honesty and shows example
of respect for the work I do.

If you are unhappy with the reading...end it.
At any time.

There are times,
seldom yes, but it does happen…
where I am unable to connect to you at all.

There are times, seldom again, but possible
where I get nothing at all when I connect with you for your session.

This truly doesn’t happen regularly,
but even if it happens once every 10 years,
I will continue to offer this stop the reading guarantee.

If I am unable to provide you with what you expected –
I will charge you only for the time you have used.

Below I will go more into the fact that I cannot
guarantee WHO I WILL or WILL NOT connect with.

As did at the John Edward/Suzane Northrop seminar,
I heard from loved ones absolutely.

Although had I made a mental list of whom I wanted to hear from,
those that did come through would have appeared just a bit lower on the page.

It is often that those who would appear “a bit lower on your list”
will bring through the ones right at the top of your page.
So if the energies that are coming through are recognizable for you,
give the session chance.

Now just what is going to come through in your session?
Am I going to begin with the EXACT name of your mother?
Will I come out of the gate clearing up years of guilt
or directions to the family fortune?

And how do you decipher my meanings and descriptions?

You know…when I had my short on-air reading with John Holland…
I had my pen and paper ready.

I was so focused I could have burned a hole through
the wall I stared at to keep a clear mind! LOL

I had shut down everything around me
so that my total focus was on Mr. Holland’s words.

He asked me did Peter Pan have special meaning to me.
My heart dropped.

NO.
No, it had none.

None until 2 weeks later when I sang
”I Won’t Grow Up” and remembered
that I used to sing this
to my mother until I was 30 years old!

That song was derived from PETER PAN!

You have to keep in mind;
Mediums may see a picture of your life.
Your loved ones are showing us examples, events,
and symbols that I WILL UNDERSTAND.

Most of the time, I don’t have a clue what is going on.
I have to say what I see.

I have to state what I feel. Where I am feeling it.

This is a very important part of your reading.
You are a very important part of your reading…
I never ask you to reach, I do not ask questions about you or about the one you want to connect with.

I do work hard to bring through messages.
But you have to be there ready to grab them.
Be ready to understand that I can confuse names…to a point.
I can confuse a brother…and a brother in law.

The details below will help you in understanding the difference between REACHING. VAGUE and an awesome reading!

WHAT IS GOING TO COME THROUGH IN YOUR SESSION?

EVENTS: Celebrations, Anniversaries, Birthdays, Christenings, Weddings, Divorces, Remarriages, Funerals, Vacations, Hospital stays, surgeries, medical procedures, Johnny lost his tooth, Emily received a promotion, Charlie moved back home, “hey mom, remember when I put aluminum foil on my bedroom walls like wallpaper, fishing trips, cancelled trips. The list goes on.

DATES & NUMBERS: Dates of events will follow/proceed event mentions. Months, days, weeks, hours, years may all come through. A date may come in front of or behind a name that we have not yet recognized or validated. I may simply say 22, or September. I may say 456 and not realize this was a loved ones hospital room number, or dorm room number. 2390 may come through as someone’s favorite number played every night for the lottery. The numbers may relate to an address. Past or present references.

NAMES: I do hear names. I ask you to leave me a tiny bit of room for error on names. I can confuse JIMMY AND JAMIE. I can confuse ELLEN AND EILEEN or ELLEN AND HELEN. I will NOT confuse Norma and Zelda. I will have the initial or the sound correct. I never just give a name. Other facts will come through about the given name. The following is a big mistake made too often…clients tend to think the only names I will say are names of those passed over.

Remember. Remember. I will refer to names of family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances still living - as well as those deceased. There are times when I will not be able to immediately distinguish if the name and descriptions are connected to someone deceased or living. There are times when I ask you to reply to acknowledge my descriptions with only a YES, NO, YOU DO UNDERSTAND, or YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND. By having you reply with as little explanation as possible, this helps me to stay away from any personal speculation.

I prefer my “common sense” never enter your reading.

I have to stay as objective as possible when reading for you so that I can relate to the smallest of feelings, visions, and words I hear from the other side. Your circle of people are so special, I have to be able to sense every extraordinary detail of them.

When I pick up on those crossed, it is such a delicate procedure.

I do not want to miss a single thing.

So, when I reference a name, especially when it is a not so common name, please think before stating NO, because you do not know an Edna that is decreased. Edna MAY exist. With your salutation of the name, more details will come through about Edna or Edna’s group of family. Time won’t be wasted on me coming back to a name already brought through. Also time won’t be wasted on me becoming stuck on energy of someone wanting acknowledgement.

Let me share an example of a flawed reading. I was with 2 sisters recently.
I said,

I need to attach importance to the female that I would see as above you,
name is JU.
Like June, Judy.

She would be one of 3 siblings.

I went on to even say you know this feels like mom to me.
I asked, “Does this make sense?”

NO, they replied in unison with heads shaking.

I sat there, and once again, heard JUDY, and could see my symbolism for mother.

I said are you sure that moms first name isn’t June or Judy
or she doesn’t have someone remarkably close named Judy – June?

“Well yes, Mom is named Judy. But she isn’t deceased.”

They had not read this letter.

What happened right there took a toll on their reading.
It is not what caused me to shut down,
but it was definitely the beginning of the clog.

I had to eventually end this session with the sisters.
After several repeated incidents like the one above,
I felt like I was throwing myself into a brick wall!
LITERALLY!

After the name game mentioned above,
I was bringing through a description of a man
in their lives who was deceased, he mentioned 2 sons,
he mentioned liver disease, he showed me tulips around
the perimeter of his home, and he told me he became sick
or he passed in December.

The siblings just sat there, eyes glazed like the old cliché of
deer in headlights…

After rousing them by asking..”Does this make sense to either of you?”
They replied in unison…”NO”.

Well just like anyone else who has worked in a particular field
for years on end, I have something I can do to check if I am correct or in correct…

I looked to one of the sisters and stated….
”Your husband travels a lot in his work or works for transportation?”

”No…no…. no” followed by the deer in headlight appearance.
I just KNEW I was right.
I asked," What does your husband do?”

”Why he works at the AIRPORT”…

I could have swallowed my tongue.
I could have fell off my couch.
I could have died myself.

What I did is asked this person I was bringing through
to provide me with something, that I could give these ladies,
that they would know upfront.

Something…that would let me know
I was hearing, feeling and seeing what
this person on the other side wanted me too.

They showed me an airplane in the air.
They showed me the sister I needed to
go to. They showed me her significant other.

Without hesitation I made a call that this airplane
must mean travel or transportation.

And what the client heard was only the first part.
HE TRAVELS. She was so quick to say NO…
I am betting she did not even hear the rest of my
statement.

To this day, I don’t understand why these ladies
booked a reading. I seem to think I was some type
of weekend entertainment for them. I think they
wanted to get out and look at the psychic rather
than going to the usual mall sale or opening.

Or possibly…they did not understand how
I would read. How I would observe their family.

There was no way I could continue this session.
I was exasperated, exhausted, and angry and my energy
was depleted.

The reading ended, they got their fee back.

There was definitely exasperation from all 3 of us.

But once I lose connection with the other side,
because my own feelings have entered, it is gone.
It is seldom that I am able to recover it.

I certainly do not expect you to be immediate.

Just prepared in how the process works.

Your mind will be reeling.

Mine is when I am the recipient of a medium session!

Just remember, I have been in your shoes!

I know there is a lot of information in this letter.
Too much to retain, and it doesn’t include everything.
I will be helping you through out the reading.

What I have here is the most important factors.

STRENGTHS / WEAKNESSES: medical problems, procedures, habits, routines, traditions, routines of yours, those around you, those passed. Ordinary to come through in a session “Grandpa used to smoke a cigar” “Mom shopped on Thursdays, and hair was always done on Fridays” “One of the kids just failed math” This is their way of personalizing what you are doing, what they are seeing, what they did.

CLICHÉS: Be careful to listen to certain clichés I will use. Paraphrases and rewordings. Most of the time I will notice that I am using terms or phrases that are not my own. I once was with a client who wanted to connect with her sister. The first thing I could hear was April Showers bring May Flowers. The sister had this on her front door welcome mat. The sister that had passed was a florist. Now you have the general idea of what can come through. Next step is knowing….

WHO IS GOING TO COME THROUGH IN YOUR SESSION?

GENERAL RULE OF THUMB…anyone deceased that is in your loop, your ENTIRE circle of friends, family, associates, colleagues, co workers, neighbors, in laws, ex in laws, foster children, step family. By and large, if you have any sort of access to someone who has lost someone they love, this is who may come through in your session. I know this sounds a bit chaotic. It is truly not. Again, let me give you a few instances of who will not come through and then who will.

You have brand new neighbors next door. They are not too friendly. In fact, they never wave back. Their mother who passed 22 years ago will NOT come through in your reading. Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin will not come through in your reading. That is unless you are related to him indirectly =) Your first spouses great great great grandmother will NOT come in.

When there is exchange from the other side, it means there is an enormously immense probability that you can convey the information to the person needing the message. Those on the other side will absolutely provide us with the chain of command that we need to go through to deliver and understand where they belong.

Example: I have read for a long time client who was dating a new man. He is a fireman. I did not know this however when this info came through. They showed me the Twin Towers, New York tragedy. They showed me the uniform of an emergency worker. And they gave me a name. It was the name of the person crossed over. After a huge halt in the reading, I almost literally spit out the name of my clients, new boyfriends ex wife. To the t. No sounds like, no initial only. Exactly. And this was not a common name like Ann or Mary. My client realized that this was her new beau’s friend who had indeed passed in the Twin Towers disaster. The heroic firefighter on the other side only made a mention of a medal on a plaque. My client passed this onto her new beau. Even though he didn’t understand the medal on the plaque. Several weeks after the reading, the client called to tell me that her new love had received a medal, and a plaque for his work. Simple to understand now isn’t it? Now, you can definitely expect and be prepared to connect with

SIBLINGS Foster siblings, half siblings, stepsiblings; birth interruptions (miscarriages & abortions) will come through.

Parent’s Again not only biological parents will come in. Step Parents, In Laws, aunts/uncles/grandparents who assisted more than usual in your raising will come through AS PARENTS. I will not be able to tell the difference between an aunt who raised you from a biological mother in most cases.

SPOUSES Present and past spouses, strong commitments, fiancés, love interest past and present, and even secret relationships (affairs) come through. I am discreet when bring through confidential information.

FRIENDS Did you lose a friend when you were in 3^rd grade? High school? Were there kids who possibly passed when you were in high school and you didn’t actually know them well? Did your sister lose her best friend? Has your boss lost his wife? These are all examples of those that will come through in your reading.

NEIGHBORS Neighbors that you may have grown up next too or recently lost may come through. Did mom and dad hang tight with the couple next door after you and your siblings went onto college? But you didn’t know them too well? YES…they can come through. Did your neighbor lady Rosemary always bring you seedlings when at the beginning of spring? She can come through. This is a closer attachment than just having someone live next to you that you would not have spoke too, or come to know.

CHILDREN Biological children, step children from 2 marriages back, foster children, nieces, nephews, friends children, miscarriages/birth interruptions of any sort of your own as well as of acquaintances/family will come through.

I know that many clients are drawn to the work I do since the success of John Edward of Crossing Over. This has its pro’s and cons. I do work in the same manner as John Edward. We are both mental mediums. We are both shown information in our own frame of reference. I really admire the work and ethics of John as well. I was fortunate enough to sit in on one of his 4-hour workshops back in 1998. This was before his extreme success. That workshop and his work was the only help I was able to find that facilitated a way for me to understand how to decipher the information that those on the other side were sending to me. I was doing psychic work back then, but was nowhere near prepared to receive and interpret information from those deceased. By the time I stumbled on John Edward’s work, I actually had quit doing psychic work almost altogether because the medium part of my work was overwhelming me. From reading his work, and continuing study on mediumship, I was able to come to a place where I felt comfortable in providing this type of psychic work professionally.

Now, let me express that I am not a personal friend nor student or affiliated with John Edward. I do read similar. I will share information just as he does. But WOW, he is much quicker and developed in his readings. In fact, he amazes me and I do hundreds of medium sessions per month!

Please understand if you are a fan of the TV show Crossing Over, that it takes 3-6 hours to tape the 30 minute show we see. This is fact. The show is edited for quality, time and content. In fact, I have heard that John himself stated this on one of the shows in respect to us working here in the field. So, we may not connect with your loved one within 2 minutes of speaking. Give it some time. If you haven’t had the chance to watch Crossing Over with John Edward, make an attempt to do so before our session. It will give you the essence of what to expect with my reading. Check your local listings for times. The show became syndicated in 2001. It is on The Sci Fi Channel Sundays through Thursdays on Cable TV 11 PM Eastern Standard Time.

So now, your next piece of homework…Jot down names, dates, and other information that may help you to assist me in acknowledging those that will come through to reach out, and link with us once more from the other side. We will have approximately 60 minutes so there is no rush. Your session will be taped as a courtesy. Please check note attached for confirmation of your scheduled time. Please call in as close to your scheduled time as possible. If for any reason you may be running late or need to reschedule just phone the office ASAP we will be more than glad to reschedule your time. You do want to experience this when you are comfortable and relaxed and I have your full attention. Also, make sure that you place your call on a land phone rather than a cell phone. I can also not read when on speakerphone. Cell phones and speakerphones create echoes that will distract me from hearing the other side. As you can imagine, when I hear those on the other side, it is already similar to a ricochet/echo effect. Cell and speakerphones will intensify the effect.

Thank you and I look forward to sharing this experience with you.
Vickiveil 513.521.7976

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