Things To Think About: Love, where did it come from? How long has it lived? Do we really know what it is? Before you go on, think of your definiton of love. What exactly is love? Well depending. There are many things that can be classified as love.But I have my own little way of doing it. You see this is my way. I have five classifications of love. You see there is: Now that we have that straight, have you ever fallen in love? I mean real love? Well first of all, let me tell you there is no age for love. You can love someone 2,3,even10 years younger than you. Don't let anyone get you down if you are in this situation. They are not you, and thay have no right what so ever to interfere with your love life. Love is very fragile. But very strong. Age does not matter, looks does not matter, money does not matter, knowledge does not matter. The only thing that matters is that you love the person. You know I have heard people say "Oh my gosh look at the dump he lives in!" or "He has no money!" or "He is such a looser, not even a bit popular!" Well I thought "Who cares!" We have all heard the song "No Scrubs" right? Well it goes "No I don't want no scrubs!" Well I hear people sayin "Oh that is so right , I'm gonna marry some rich guy!", Now it makes me think "Will this person love the peron,herself,or the money?" Well only two of those. Herself and the money. NOT the person. It shows it right there in that sentence. They are only thinking of themselves in a budle of money. So all you rich fellas out there becareful who you fall in love with. Cause when you love someone, you don't care who they are, What they look like, if they have money or not, If they are popular or not, you just love them unconditionally. If you like someone, just say it. The worst that can happen is having them say no. And it won't be that bad. Or if you are in love with someone and are dating this person, tell them "I Love You" as many times aas you can, every chance you get. This is it for today.
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Have you ever felt good about yourself? It's very important that you feel good about yourself. You need to. It's a neccesitty, a part of self-esteem. When you look in the mirror what do you see in yourself? Well what I see is a a very unique person. A person that lives life like any other person. One that likes to face challenges in their life. Someone important. You need to think about the same thing about yourself. Don't let ANYONE let you down. their rude comment is nothing. They just don't have anything else to do. You know, I think we could live better if put-downs did not exist. It really makes a person feel bad. What I do is if I hear someone put someone else down, I preach to them and tell tem to stop. I think that if you let someone know that you know they are there and that they are cared for, it makes someone's day. When you see someone that frequently is put-down say hi and ask how they are. Do this even if they are not. It really makes them feel better and loved.
It's incredible the number of suicides commited because of the put downs. Like I have said in the past, we are one race and we must care for each other. being a teen is harsh for some people. They get put down a lot. Give them a chance. Don't be harsh. they have a right to live life and enjoy life. We must cover for each other and if you hear someone talking about another person defend them. Tell tem it is not nice, and it is not right. We do not have the right to judge other people. We do not have the right to put them down. God made him/her the way he wanted to and that's the way it should be. We have to learn to share our world, and have the right to live a wonderful life. But if we put people down, it's spoiling another person's life.
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People have to go through some difficult times sometimes. Whether confusing, desesperating, frustrating and many other, but they are all stressful. A very good way to relieve stress is laughing, but most times people have a hard time even smiling. So the best thing I think is to do is to talk to someone. It really helps. Let everything out. Let them know how you feel and ask for opinions and/or suggestions. And for those who are listening erally listen to them. Give them your best opinion and/or suggestions. Let them know you're there for them when ever they need you. If it feels a whole lot better when you talk to someone about how you feel. We have all experiened it. Well atleast about all. When you like someone and you don't want to tell anyone, but you just have to. And when you tell a friend it feels a whole lot better. it makes you feel good. So just keep what I have "told" you in mind.
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have you ever heard of the phrase "Think before you act"? if you haven't well now you have. you really must think before you act. Because you might be doing something wrong, or maybe something that will hurt someone else. Before you make a decision, make sure you think of ALL the consequences. Maybe it might be stopping you from doing something you really want to do, but then you'll realize it really wasn't worth it.
Also don't feel forced to do something you don't want to do. If you don't want to then don't do it. Just because someone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to do it. It's you choice. you have the right to say no. So don't be afraid to do it.
