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What I believe to be true Romance...
I honestly believe that romance is an art form. It is an art form
that requires two artists to work properly, both working together on their
"Masterpiece". I believe that the two "artists" should make love in everything
they say and everything they do. For example: When the two of you meet after a
day of work, cooking dinner together while talking about your days is a nice
start. When dinner is done, I like to walk up behind her as she starts the
dishes, wrap my arms around her and tell her how special she is to me. Then I
take the dishtowel, dry the dishes and put them away. If you both work together
the chores get done faster, giving you more time to spend with each other. You
should both be working together on all things, it will strengthen your bond and
your love. This is just one way of making love in everything you do.
Another part of romance is spontaneity, Picking up a flower or a card, some
little gift to let her know you were thinking about her for no other reason then
the fact that you love her. We often forget that it's the little things that
mean the most. Being spontaneous doesn't stop there, it should be in all parts
of your romance.
Now, for a very important part of romance...
Good communication is a key to a great romance. Men, I can't
stress this enough, Listen to her! Don't always try to fix her problems for her,
listen to what she says and comfort her. Most of the time, all she needs is
someone to talk to and share her feelings. Learn to just hold her and listen to
her and you will be surprised how much closer that brings you together. You will
really make her feel loved if she knows she can talk to you about anything. If
you let her open up to you, she will share her soul with you... and that's the
greatest feeling in the world when you can connect on that level... you will
have true love...
A soft touch...
Most men do not realize the importance of a great kiss, or a soft
touch... Both of these are very important in romance. When you touch a woman do
it very softly, your fingers should just barely touch her skin. A soft caress as
you brush the hair back from her face, as you move closer to kiss her. Holding
her face lightly in your fingers as you kiss her, letting them slide through her
hair as you deepen the kiss...
If you really listen to a woman, the sounds she makes, the way she breathes
as you touch her, you will learn more about her body then you ever thought
possible. Listen to every sound she makes and use them as your guide to pleasing
her. A soft touch is important on all areas of her body. On most women it is
much more stimulating, but once again you must listen to her, how she
responds... and let that guide you on how to touch her.
The Art of Softkisses...
A soft touch, looking into her eyes... is very important to a
great kiss. A great kiss should never be rushed, it should be slow, soft and
sensual. A great kiss has its own form of foreplay. It should be started by
looking into her eyes, brushing the hair back from her face, holding her face
softly in your hands and keeping eye contact till your lips are about to meet.
You will feel a connection with her through your eyes. Let her feel the love in
your eyes. Start the kiss slowly, brushing your lips softly across hers. It
should be done slowly and very softly. Your fingers gently caressing her skin...
sliding along her cheeks... sliding softly into her hair... as you deepen the
kiss. Great kissing is very important in romance... it is the spark that keeps
passion alive in a relationship.
Some Reasons Why Relationships Fail...
Next thing is, be yourself. Its a hard thing to do at the
beginning, we all try to act like we think the other person wants us to, we put
on a show doing things we wouldn't normally do. We all act like salespeople,
selling ourselves, we dress extra nice, we buy flowers and things so we can
"make the sale." Men open doors, hold hands, act like perfect gentleman. Then
once we feel comfortable we slowly slide into our old habits being ourselves.
This is a natural thing, we all do it. Problem is, after showing how great we
are in the beginning, when we slide into our old habits our partner wonders
what's wrong, why did they change. Here is a prime example... When the
relationship is new, we talk about everything getting to know each other
spending a lot of time communicating our feelings, our thoughts, our dreams. The
woman thinks "Boy this is great, I have a man that likes to communicate. He
loves to talk to me and share things, he is so romantic and such a gentleman"
and she is happy, tells her friends "This guy is different then the last one, he
opens up and shares with me, he is so romantic and such a gentleman." Well
after a while we get comfortable, content, The sale has been made and we are in
a relationship. So we stop selling ourselves as much. The man slowly stops
talking as much, he stops being as romantic, he is happy, thinks that this is
great. At the same time, the woman is wondering what happened, why doesn't he
talk to me as much anymore? Why isn't he as romantic as he was? So she is
starting to hurt wondering what's wrong, she tries to talk to him about it, but
he doesn't realize that there was a change. He starts feeling uncomfortable,
after all he is the same person he always was, right? Well, he is not the person
she met and fell for... he is different now in her eyes but he doesn't see it.
He thinks, "Why did she change? Why is she always nagging me about talking to
her?" This puts a great deal of stress on the relationship and is the point
where many relationships fall apart. That is why its important to be yourself at
the beginning, if you are really right for each other things will workout even
better then if you act extra special for them at first.
Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not
boast, it is not proud, It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily
angered, It keeps no record of wrongs, Love does not delight in evil but
rejoices with the truth, It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always
perseveres
1 Corinthians 13
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