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In Memory of Jenny
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August 17, 2004
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August 17, 2004
Our friend and classmate Danny Rydarowicz (now Daniel Kasaris) is a prosecutor in Cuyahoga County. One of his cases was the season premier for the new ABC show, "In the Jury Room." Typically a one-hour show, the premier ran over 2 nights for a total of 2 hours, Danny's case being the subject of both hours. It was very interesting, and I hope those of you on our mailing list were able to catch it!
Congratulations, Danny!
June 28, 2003
Cindy's school raised $12,400.00 for Relay for Life!!!!! She said that is quite an accomplishment for a small elementary school. She thanks everyone who donated money to Relay for Life in Jenny's memory. Thank you, Cindy, for continuing to show Jen's family how much we all loved her and miss her.
May 2003
Please make a donation in Jenny's memory.
Relay for Life is sponsored by the American Cancer Society. Cindy (Williams) Macomber is seeking donations made in Jenny's memory for this year's Relay for Life in Williamsburg, Virginia. The deadline for donations is May 31, so PLEASE HURRY!! The suggested donation for a luminaria is $10 (but I know they will gladly accept more!) Please email Cindy for more information or send her a check directly at
Cindy Macomber
5 Hempstead Court
Williamsburg, Virginia
23188
Donate to the Poland Band Scholarship Fund in Mr. Don Stimple's honor. Mr. Stimple is retiring this year, and donations are asked to commemorate his time in the Poland Schools.
June 2001
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June 28, 2001
I have a lot to write about my visit to Poland and Lisa's wedding, and I just got the pictures back.
So I'll take care of all that later.
Right now I am going to write about my recent reunion experience.
Yuck!
As most of you know, I moved away before graduation, spending junior and
senior year in a land and culture far, far away. Well, it seemed so, anyhow! LOL So,
the reunion for that school was this past weekend, and I had to email you all and let you know how much I
value the PSHS class of '81.
A few of our Poland classmates have said they have no interest in a
reunion, and after this weekend, I can start to understand why. If the weekend I experienced is what they
predict for a PSHS '81 reunion, there would be no reason to attend. It was
awful. The biggest problem for me was that my closest friends didn't go
to the reunion. So I saw people that I hadn't seen in 10 years (since
the 10-year reunion, which I really enjoyed), said hi, and that was it.
No one attempted to visit with people (there were quite a few) who were
sitting alone. Fortunately, I had one good friend and a couple other
pretty good friends there and didn't feel totally isolated like some of
them appeared to. I even tried to talk to a couple of them that I knew
or recognized, but they weren't very receptive.
And talk about cliques! Boy oh boy! They outdo us in that department. It was
really embarrassing to be a part of that. I mean, people didn't speak to others that
weren't in their little group, whether it was an "elite" group or a lesser one. Of course, there were
exceptions, but for the most
part, these people seemed to be exactly the same as high school. It was sickening! As my niece
likes to say,
"Puke on my shoes!"
I met one girl from my class that I really don't remember, and we
visited with her and her husband (who, coincidentally, graduated with my
husband, same school, 6 years ahead of us.) We had a really nice time, and
we plan to keep in touch now. Other than that, nothing
pleasant came of the reunion.
I am so glad the Poland reunions are different! At the PSHS reunions so far, I have found everyone mixing and enjoying
each other. I hope that no one has felt left out. I would feel
terrible if I knew we had a classmate who went home with the feelings I
brought home with me this weekend. Part of the good thing about Poland
is that we all went to school together from 5th grade on. And we went
from kindergarten up with 1/3 of the class. And, being a fairly small
class, we knew pretty much everyone. We have a horrible
reputation among other classes in Poland. They say how clique-ish we
were and that we weren't friendly to each other. I'm sure there were
some who could only be concerned with their little group, but I personally didn't
witness a whole lot of that. And at the reunions, I saw no evidence of it.
Sure, people sat with and visited the most with people they were good
friends with. But everyone danced and visited and laughed and
reminisced together. After the last reunion, we went to continue the
party at a second location (after Paonessa's had had enough of us!) And
after everything closed down there, a number of us went to breakfast
together. We got home at 5:30 a.m., if I remember correctly. It was a blast,
and most of the people at breakfast weren't people I "hung out" with.
I want everyone to go to the next reunion and experience what I have at our Poland reunions. I
can not name a single
classmate that I wouldn't be glad to see again. (Well, that might be stretching it! haha) If
everyone contacted their closest
friends and said, "Go to the reunion!", it would be a roaring success for everyone. Who cares if
you have changed since high
school? Haven't we all? (Well, haven't we most?) People have
stayed single, gotten divorced, gained weight, lost weight, had kids, remained childless, gone to
college (some more than
others!), found a trade, become stay-at-home moms, stayed in Poland (or the general area),
moved north, south, east, or
west - - there will be people there with whom you have something in common. Let's make this
reunion a huge success, and
give me the opportunity to blow raspberries at that "other" alma mater that I don't like to
claim!
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February 28, 2001
I posted Connie's picture. If you are a classmate and would like to see Jenny's daughter, please
email the '81 Pagemaster
for the link.
February 13, 2001
I have been really, really bad about keeping this page up. I apologize. Hopefully now that the
house is habitable
(albeit not complete), I'll have more time to dedicate to this. I think it's really important, and I'm
always happy for the
emails I get from people who appreciate it.
First and foremost, let me ask everyone to convey their sympathies to two of our classmates who
have recently experienced
the death of a loved one. Becky Stroup Geltz lost her sister, Nancy, on Feb. 11, and Paula Bilas
Lidle just lost her father on Feb.
9. Some of you might remember Nan. She was two years ahead of us at school. She died from
Adult Respiratory Distress Syndrome either caused by rheumatoid arthritis
medication or a severe case of influenza complicated by the RA medication. I do not have
details on Mr. Bilas' death. Please keep
both families in your prayers. If anyone would like to send condolences, that would be a very
nice
gesture. If you are a classmate, you can contact the
Pagemaster for their
mailing information or send an email via that same route.
Mrs. Rumberg and I continue to correspond. She seems to be doing quite well and is keeping
very busy. She and Connie (Jen's
daughter) take ballet together, which I think is wonderful! Connie looks just like Jenny. I hope
to post her most recent picture in the
next couple of days.
I got a great email from Charlie Guiraud in the fall. It is always wonderful to hear from
classmates and old friends. Charlie and his
family live on a lake in North Carolina, and the setting sounds idyllic! He lives close to Elmer
Boda and his family, and it sounds like
they get together fairly often. When he wrote me, Charlie said they'd just had a Jimmy Buffet
party and ate cheeseburgers in paradise.
Hey, doesn't someone want to move to my historic little town in the balmy south and have
Jimmy Buffet parties with me? Let me know,
and I'll keep an eye out for prime real estate! (I think Anne Stark would be on the next plane if
she had the chance!)
I also got a nice email from Bart Raub. I'm happy to report that Bart's business, Total Team
Wares, is doing great. It's one of the
top distributors of competitive swimwear and equipment in the country. Does that surprise
anyone? Not me! He got married to Amy
in December of '99 and sounds very happy with his new family, which includes a 10-year-old
stepdaughter.
I also heard from Todd Terihay. He is getting ready to move into a new house, so anyone who
has lost contact can email
me to get his new address, effective March 1,
last I heard. His daughter is
in 1st grade, but I blew him out of the water when he found out my son is in 9th! LOL Don't
know which is worse...
Sherry Hartman found me, too. She emailed me a while back and gave me her new info, which
you can find on
the UPDATES page. She is living
in Ft. Lauderdale now (lots
of our classmates in sunnier climes than "home"!) If you're in Florida, Sherry would love to hear
from you. Actually, it
sounds like she'd be happy to hear from any of us, of course, but it would be fun to possibly
catch up in person if you live
nearby. Drop her an email! There are quite a few of you there!
I heard from Danny Kasaris, formerly Danny Rydarowicz. He is an Assistant Cuyahoga County
Prosecutor in the White Collar
Crime Unit. He said he is, and this is a direct cut-and-paste from his email, "handling all types
of cases from rapes, murders, militia, doctor, nurses theives and in general major
bad guys." Go, Danny!
I am sure I missed someone or something important. I apologize! I'm just trying to get some
quick news in here so that the page
doesn't continue to stagnate! If you have something you want me to post, just email me. The
link is all over the place!
Looking forward to hearing from more of you! Bye for now! ~your pagemaster
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BULLDOGS STATE CHAMPS!!!!
1999 Division III State Champion
15-0 Season Record - - New Ohio State Record!
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December 8, 1999
You know, I really feel like most of our classmates are missing out on something
great. This has all been such a wonderful experience for me. A few of my close
friends have teased me about doing all this, especially since I moved before
graduation. But Poland is my home. I grew up there. My foundation is there.
All my fondest childhood memories are there. But this stuff I'm doing, whatever
it's called, has been rewarding. I keep getting kind or encouraging or thankful
notes (or all the above in one!) from classmates and even from other PSHS alumni.
So many people seem to appreciate a connection of some sort. Thank you to all of
you who have taken the time to write me notes and let me know what's up with you,
that you appreciate my efforts, whatever. I love to hear from all of you.
December 6, 1999
I heard from Leslie Viczay (Ms. Frew) Saturday morning, tidings of joy about the
Bulldogs' incredible season. I had been following the season through the
PSHS site, but I had not realized it had gone so far! And I certainly had not
yet heard that we won the State Championship! Les said that Trolio's had the
silkscreens ready and began printing shirts as soon as the final score was
announced. She said it was pretty funny seeing lines of people at Trolio's at
8:00 on a Friday night. I might have been one of them. :) Luckily for me,
Leslie is sending me my sweatshirt as well as a tape of the game and the front page of
the Vindicator! I can't wait! What a friend!
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Late November, 1999
Well, we're back from our annual Thanksgiving beach trip, and we saw Mrs. Preston again.
We almost did not, thanks to my mother's scatterbrain and the phone company's incompetency.
Mrs. P called my mom several weeks ahead of time to tell her she wanted us to come to her
house while we were in Florida. Mother said she'd call back and finalize the plans after
she confirmed that it was ok with me (which, naturally, it was). Unbeknownst to me, she never
called Mrs. Preston back, and she lost her phone number. So we're in Florida, and my mom says,
"Why don't you call Shirley and see if the plans are still on?" I said, "OK. Give me her number."
Mother looks at me with this blank expression on her face and says, "Don't you have it?"
"NNNNOOOOO.
I wasn't told to bring it." Of course, she tried the typical parental, "But I told you to bring it..."
blathering, but she couldn't help smiling part way through when she knew she had never told me
any such
thing. Normally, it wouldn't have been a big problem. I take my address file with me often
when I travel,
and I had planned on starting my Christmas cards while I was there. Unfortunately, when I
stacked up all
the stuff to be loaded into the car, the file and Christmas cards didn't look very important to my
extremely wonderful husband, so we were without information! (Notice here that nothing in this
whole
scenario is my fault! hee hee) Anyhow, I called the phone company for information, and they
said there
was no Shirley Preston listed. So we called for Lisa, Phil's sister, with whom Mrs. Preston shares
a house.
Yes, they had a number for her! We called and left a couple of messages on a machine but never
heard from
them. Thinking perhaps they had given us a wrong number, Charlie (my step-father) called
information again.
They had no listing for Lisa. What number did they give me the first time?! So I had to call
information to
get Phil's number. Fortunately, he was home. After spending $10 on a 5-minute call to get his
mother's number,
my mom called to say that Charlie had gotten the number from the front desk of our hotel. It
was in the phone book.
I am very unimpressed with the calibre of people hired by the phone company right now! All's
well that ends well,
though, because we had a wonderful afternoon with Mrs. Preston and Lisa, and we got to meet
Lisa's boyfriend, Loring.
The food was delicious, the company was even better, and it was another great Thanksgiving
vacation.
By the way, I have a typical Phil story to impart. He cracks me up; always has. I told him my
daughter was asking
if he and Sharon had any babies yet. So before we hung up, I said, "Well, let me know if any
great, exciting news
comes along." He said it wasn't likely anytime soon. Then he lowered his voice and said, "I was
just reading something
recently, and you know," then he acted very conspiratorial and whispered, "You have to have
SEX to get a baby!" Good to
know some things never change. Thanks for the laugh, Phil!
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August 24, 1999
I heard from Mrs. Rumberg a few days ago. Again, if you would take the time to write her, I
think
it would mean the world to her. She still misses Jen very much, and I think it helps her to know
that we are still thinking of her. She was grateful for my letter, and she said how sad she is every
day for missing Jenny. Don't forget that Connie's (Jenny's daughter) birthday is coming up in a
couple
of weeks (September 5). The other news from Mrs. Rumberg is that Susan, Jenny and Charlie's
older sister,
had a baby boy in April.
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June 22, 1999
I have spent the past couple of weeks tending to my Daddy in S. Florida. He had emergency
abdominal surgery and is recovering slowly but surely. I was there to care for him for a
while. For those of you who knew of the situation, thank you for your prayers and concern.
When I returned home, I had an email from Becky Stroup Geltz. Elaine Shurilla Lewis lost her
father the
first week in June. Please send Elaine a sympathy card (via 81 Pagemaster
if you don't have her email address) and let her know we're thinking of her. This is particularly
sad as Mr. Shurilla
had just retired. He and Mrs. Shurilla were planning on spending the summer with Elaine
because, as you know from the
Updates page,
Elaine and her husband, Brad, are expecting their first child soon. Naturally, I'll let you know as
soon as I hear
anything about the new baby! Bec, thanks for keeping me updated.
I heard from Cindy Williams Macomber. She sounds like the same friendly, wonderful, upbeat
person she always was,
and I'm so glad to be in touch with her again. She is a mommy and an elementary school teacher
in Virginia. She had
compliments about the web site. Just like Cindy to work in something to make me feel good,
isn't it? Thanks, Cindy.
Waiting for news from anyone else! Until then ~81 Pagemaster
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December 2, 1998
I saw Mrs. Preston last weekend. I was in Florida with my family for our annual Thanksgiving
beach trip, and we met Mrs. Preston for a long lunch one day. We had a nice visit, discussing
family, old times, politics, sex (guess that was redundant,) and other topics. My mother had
a Long Island Tea and was an absolute blast the rest of the afternoon! Didn't see Phil and
Sharon;
they were with Sharon's family this year.
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November 30, 1998
Mrs. Rumberg wrote again. She sounds like she is sad but is trying to get on with things. She
sent me a copy of the picture that Anne had scanned for me. I'm going to put it at my desk along
with the pictures of Jenny and Walter and Connie. Mrs. Rumberg said again how grateful she
was for
the support she felt from all of us during Jenny's illness. Try to drop her a line if you haven't
already. Her address and Charlie's are both on this page; scroll down.
early November
Anne Stark's husband, Jerry, scanned a copy of the Rumbergs' family picture taken probably this
summer. It is a wonderful picture of the whole family. They are such an attractive group and
seem
to only improve with age. Those of you with email who would like a copy can email me, and I'll
send
you the file. I won't post it on the internet.
I got a touching note from Charlie today (October 30) along with a copy of Jenny's eulogy.
I'm writing to him to see if he would mind having it posted here for a while on
the page we've dedicated to Jen. He did a fine job on the eulogy and certainly captured
Jenny in his words and memories.
I got 2 notes from Mrs. Rumberg and a note from Mrs. Williams (Doug's mom) shortly after
the funeral. They both sent me the clipping about Jenny from the newspaper. There she is,
dimples and all, smiling out at me like always. Weren't we lucky to have her? She was
one-of-a-kind,
and I know so many of us are thankful that we knew her, laughed with her, loved
her.
Nothing new to post. If you have time, drop Mrs. Rumberg and/or Charlie a note
to let them know they're still in your thoughts.
Mr. and Mrs. Rumberg
7308 Indian Trail
Poland, Ohio 44514
Mr. Charlie Rumberg
36 College St.
Poland, Ohio 44514
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August 1998
Phil Preston's wedding (to Sharon Marie Russell) on Saturday, August 8, 1998, was
lovely. The people we would all be familiar with who attended are:
Jeff ('81) and Julie Cotton ('82) Deichert
Rob Ingersoll ('80) and his wife, Jenn
Dana ('81) and Jean Sutton; Dana, a Presbyterian minister, was co-officiant of the
wedding.
Doug Williams (usher)
Mr. and Mrs. Williams and Mr. and Mrs. Ingersoll also attended.
For those of you who weren't aware of it, Mr. Preston passed away a few years ago.
Mrs. Preston gave Phil his father's ring. She said it worked for them for about 45 years, and it
wasn't doing anyone any good sitting in a drawer. I thought that was a lovely way to have Mr.
Preston
included in the ceremony. The flowers on the altar were also dedicated to his
memory.
Dana's sermon was wonderful. He talked about the way things are "s'posedta" be. It was very
touching, looking
at Dana there, and Phil by his bride, and all the childhood friends in the congregation. Oh, O.K.,
I cried. But
that's what I DO at weddings!! Hey, I only had to use a small part of one tissue!
The reception was a lot of fun. My children enjoyed it immensely! This was my daughter's first
wedding to attend. She
was dancing with her daddy and said, "I never knew weddings were so wild! It was pretty fancy
and quiet until
now!" She's 9, so weddings are glamorous, magical things to her now!
Doug Williams caught the garter. Mrs. Williams was glad; she's ready for her boy to be married,
I think! I
didn't ask his date, Andrea, how she felt about it, but I'd venture to guess she wouldn't mind. She
was really darling. Very
pretty, tall, slim blonde. And young. Well, I liked her, anyway!
We had a delicious sit-down supper. We had a shrimp salad, rolls, and an appetizer (I'm sorry,
Sharon, I can't remember
what it was! I had too much fun!) Supper was Chicken Florentine, and it was fabulous. The
bride and her mother did a
magnificent job. Of course, we had wedding cake for dessert! What else?!
The music was provided by a DJ, who played a huge variety, mostly our era, though, which
made Julie, Jean, and me very happy! (Yes,
"me" is the correct pronoun there. Trust me.) We had some disco, which made all the men roll
their eyes and made the
women dance! It was kind of like Junior High again, all the girls dancing and the guys watching!
We had a great time, though,
and the guys did dance with us on slow songs. (Just like PJHS!!)
The party broke up at 1:30 a.m. Most of the Poland gang went upstairs to their hotel rooms to
continue
the party together. Tom and I got back to his cousin's, where we were spending the weekend.
We had a family
reunion to attend the next day and had two very tired, albeit happy, children on our hands! I
don't think they
got off the dance floor once, and they fought leaving. Elizabeth cried when we left because she
was having
so much fun!
I guess I didn't describe Sharon's dress, but I couldn't do it justice. It was a white silk, simple and
elegant. She wore
a short veil, maybe waist length, and no blusher veil. She was absolutely beaming the entire
night. She did not stop smiling
once during the ceremony. Phil looked handsome in his tux. I think men should have to wear a
tuxedo weekly. It does something
for them. Anyhow, I got to talk to Phil before the ceremony while he was waiting in
the back for everything to get started. He said he wasn't nervous about anything other than
hoping that all went smoothly. That's
a nice quality in a groom!! Phil's brother, George, was best man, and Sharon's brother was a
groomsman. Sharon's cousin was the
maid of honor, and Phil's sister, Lisa, was a bridesmaid. One of Sharon's uncles (or cousin? I'll
check on that.) sang during the
ceremony. Phil's nieces greeted guests and attended the guest book, and several other relatives
took part in similar ways. It was
a wedding of a large, loving family.
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