1
Let us feel that we are trying to become good men of
warm hearts, not good statues of cold marble.
2
It would appear that ideals that seem too remote for
realization and goals that seem too high for achievement are not worth the
trouble of setting up. Yet to abandon them altogether would be to lose the sense
of right direction. That would be a mistake. It is wiser to keep them as
ultimate ideals and goals, drawing from them inspirational and directional
value. It is here and for such a purpose that the dreaming idealists themselves
have their place, not in the all-or-nothing revolutionary way that they
themselves think they do. It is needful to make a compromise between the facts
about human nature in its present state and the ideals which it can hope to
realize only in some future state. It is not necessary to go all the way with
the extremists, whether in art, mysticism, politics, or economics in order to
realize that we can learn something from each of them. Let us take what is
adaptable in their views, but let us reject what is decidedly extreme.
3
There are not only sins against moral virtue; there
are also sins against balance and proportion.
4
All extremists, whether in politics or theology, are
fond of propounding either false or artificial dilemmas. Either you are a X-ist
or a Y-ist, they assert. That you need limit yourself to neither of these things
alone does not enter their brains, any more than that you may often treat the
competitives and alternatives of those false dilemmas as complementaries. It is
not only wrong to take up such an extremist attitude, it is also dangerous to
the quest of truth. Manifestly, both attitudes cannot be right at the same time.
If we want the truth we must accept neither and search with less fanaticism for
it. And we shall then discover that it is not so black or not so white as the
extremists and partisans would have us believe. The choice before us is never
really limited to two extremes. Philosophy refuses to confine itself so rigidly
to them and points out that there is always a third alternative. But
unphilosophic minds are too partisan to perceive this. They operate mechanically
on the dialectic pattern. It is as natural for the ordinary enquirer to be a
partisan, to suppress what is good and proclaim what is bad in an opponent's
case, as it is natural for the philosophic student to bring both forward because
he is genuinely a truth-seeker. Consequently, most public discussions of any
case present a picture of it which varies entirely with the mentality and
outlook of the discusser. Even if the philosopher finds it necessary to take one
side in any controversy, this never prevents his perceiving, admitting, and
accepting what is true in the opposite side. With this understanding of the
relativity of all human knowledge and experience, he will understand that a
multiplicity of possible standpoints is inevitable. Consequently, he will become
more tolerant and less inclined to accept the hard, dogmatic "either this
ultimate or that one" attitude. Nevertheless, if philosophy affirms that
different views of the same subject may each be right from their respective
standpoints, it does not affirm that they are equally right. It recognizes
ascending levels of standpoint and consequently the progressive character of the
resultant views.
5
The illumined man will not condemn the unillumined
one for not being better than he is, for not having developed a higher standard
of thought, of feeling, and of conduct. He does not make the mistake of
confusing the two levels of reference, of setting up his own criterion as being
suitable for others. This must not be understood to mean, however, that because
he gives them his intellectual sympathy, he also excuses them morally, for he
does not. A misdeed is still a misdeed even though its relativity may be
recognized.
6
We are not in full agreement with those who attack
all success as unspiritual or better living as materialistic. Whoever has
realized his early purpose, if he has done so honourably and if the purpose
itself is worthy or conducive to society's well-being, is a success. If he
receives rewards for his accomplishment, there is nothing unspiritual in
accepting them. And whoever appreciates attractive clothes, good quality food,
modern aids to efficient comfortable living is - if he develops his self-control
alongside this appreciation - taking better care of his physical instrument and
making more of his physical environment. He is not necessarily materialistic.
The meaning of the word "spiritual" should not be unjustly circumscribed.
7
We believe that the battlefield of the quest is more
within the mind than the flesh. Ascetics who gaze with disdain upon a useful
life in the world have hitched their wagon to a cloud, not to a star.
8
The unsuccessful, the sick, the disappointed, the
unfortunate, the pleasure-satiated, the defeated, the neurotic, the bored, and
the sad have not found happiness. In their discouragement they turn either to
worldly escapes like drink or begin with what seems the next best thing - inner
peace. They perceive that peace can be got but only at the price of partially or
wholly renouncing bodily passions, earthly desires, human prides, personal
possessions, and social power. This sense of frustration drives many of them to
religion, some of them to yoga, and a few of them to philosophy. All entrants
into these portals are not similarly motivated, for others come through higher
urges. It is a good start all the same because it marks an awakening to the need
of higher satisfactions. But it is only a start. For the ultimate goal of life
cannot be merely the negative denial of life. It must be something more than
that, grander than that. The ascetic ideal of liberation from desire is good but
not enough. The philosophic ideal of illumination by truth both includes and
completes it, bringing the positive qualities of joy, happiness, and contentment
in its train.
9
Even the sincere aspirant can become too anxious
about the quest because he is too self-centered. He must learn to let go also.
Let him remember the sage. He is satisfied to be anonymous.
10
If a man becomes cold, pitiless, impenetrable, if
he sets himself altogether apart from the life and feelings of other men, if he
is dead to the claims of music and the beauties of art, be sure he is an
intellectualist or a fanatical ascetic - not a philosopher.(P)
11
We need not become less human because we seek to
make ourselves better men. The Good, the True, and the Beautiful will refine,
and not destroy, our human qualities.(P)
12
We ought never to wish that any harm should come to
anyone. If a man is behaving in a dastardly way, even then it would not be right
to do so. In that case we should wish that he should awaken to his wrong-doing.
13
The simple uncluttered life is a sensible idea. But
if pushed by fanaticism, exaggeration, and extravagances to its ultimate,
logical, and inevitable consequence, it would not only lead to the complete
abandonment of all gadgets, appliances, and tools but - by steps - to life in a
cave and clothes made of skin.
14
The desire to achieve unity in various sections of
human life, belief, and activity - and in humanity itself - is only a dream. The
differences are there, and will, in some altered form, still be there even under
the surface of any cheerful pseudo-Utopia of a unified world, or section of the
world. There is no profit in denying them, only self-deception. The only real
unity can come out of inner expansion, out of a great heart which excludes
nothing and no one; but this will still not be uniformity.
15
What we have to allow is that those who live only
to satisfy the ego and its earthly desires are not lost or sidetracked. They
need and must gather in such experiences. It is a part of their necessary
involvement.
16
He should guard against those foolish tendencies of
so many mystically minded people to hero-worship some man into a god, to
over-idealize this man's personal statements as infallible oracles, or to
exaggerate some helpful idea he propounds into a universal panacea.
17
With fanaticism there comes unbending rigidity and,
in fact, unwillingness even to look at the evidence - which it finds of no
interest.
18
It is not enough to be eager for the truth; he must
also be open to the truth. No bias, prejudice, fear, or dislike should stand in
the way.
19
If excessive pride in his attainments, virtue,
knowledge, or devotion is an obstacle which hinders a man's growth, excessive
humility is also another. This may surprise those who have read again and again
in spiritual manuals of the need to be humble.
20
Goethe's Journey to the Harz Mountain has a
poem by him in it which is very inspired. Brahms wrote the music for it. It was
written after visiting a man who saw only the negative side of life and became a
hermit. Goethe specially went to see him to point out the positive side of life.
21
Why demand perfection from others when you find it
impossible to attain yourself? Why impose ideal standards on them when they mock
your own strivings and aspirations?
22
When virtue is too self-conscious, it becomes
Vanity.
23
The path from arrogance to madness is a short one.
It is safer to keep humble if we want to keep sane.
24
When mysticism leads to stolid apathy toward
world-suffering, when it paralyses all sympathy for fellow creatures, it is time
to call a halt.
25
The holier-than-thou attitude which condemns the
sins of other men implies its own sinlessness. This is not only to commit the
sin of spiritual pride but also to fall into the pit of self-deception.
26
Do not maintain a position which conscience, common
sense, or intuition show you later to be wrong. Have the willingness to withdraw
from it.
27
He should shun the unphilosophic attitude which
sees one side as all black and the other as all white, for he should understand
that both have a contribution to make. Nothing is to be hated but everything is
to be understood. Nobody is his enemy for everybody is his tutor, albeit usually
an unconscious one and often only teaching us by his own ugly example what to
avoid.
28
It is in the nature of unbalanced and unphilosophic
mentalities to see everything in extremes only and to confront others with the
unnecessary dilemmas which they pose for themselves.
29
A book that has not taken a laugh at life somewhere
in its ramble, becomes a bore. A man who has not found the fun in life at some
time, has somehow failed. But at the same time everyone cannot give years and
years of intense thought and concentration to trying to solve the most difficult
problems of life without becoming stamped with gravity, not only in mind but
also in body. If he is well-balanced, however, he will appreciate the lighter
side of life and enjoy it without losing his earnestness.
30
No single factor is usually responsible for a
particular evil and no single remedy can cure it. Reformers are usually one-eyed
and take our attention away from important contributory causes in order that we
may fasten it upon the one which they happen to have picked out. They are
doubtlessly well-meaning, but are apt to be dangerously fanatical.
31
When fears and wishes wholly control a man's
thinking, instead of reason and truth, we must guard ourselves against his
statements, commands, doctrines, and ideas.
32
The average American wants economic security
because he wants to satisfy a higher standard of material living than exists
anywhere else in the world. And the average American is right. Let him not
degrade himself materially at the behest of monks and ascetics who wish to
impose an ideal on others which was never intended for the world at large.
33
Philosophical mysticism cannot appreciate, much
less accept, the kind of nonattachment which runs to fanatic extremes or which
makes too great outward fuss of itself. It cannot find any enthusiasm for
Ramakrishna's refusal to handle money because he regarded it with such horror
that the auto-suggestion brought a painful burning sensation to the palm of his
hand when, accidentally, he did touch it. It cannot admire Chertkov, who was
Tolstoy's closest friend and disciple, in his refusal to handle money to the
point of necessitating his wife to sign his cheques and his secretary to pay for
his purchases. It admits the moral purity and sincerity of both these men but
deplores their mental unbalance.
34
His cheerful enjoyment of life did not pull down
the blind between Whitman and his mystical experience of life. Asceticism is
certainly a way, but it is not the only way to the goal.
35
The cynic who despises and distrusts human nature
is seeing only a fragment of it, and not the full circle.
36
It is good in a world where there is so much evil,
so many wrong-doers, to be cautious. But carry this quality to excess and you
breed timidity or fear, which are evils in themselves.
37
He should beware lest in his recoil against trying
to satisfy the demands of an unworthy sensuality, he falls into the opposite
extreme of trying to satisfy the demands of an impossible renunciation.
38
It is possible to show a faithful devotion to
principles without becoming either fierce or fanatical about them.
39
These extremists tell us that such a reconciliation
of the spiritual with the human is impossible, that the two aims are mutually
discordant and utterly irreconcilable, that they contradict each other and if
attained would destroy each other, and that either the first or the second will
eventually and inevitably have to be abandoned. Sometimes it is better to be
suspicious of such an oversimplification. It may lead us more quickly to truth,
but it may also mislead us. And this is one of the times when such caution is
called for.
40
It is a common phrase in the literature,
instructions, and rules of totalitarian movements - especially political
movements - to say that not the slightest deviation may be made from the line
laid down by the authority.
41
The ascetic demand that we renounce art, turn our
backs on aesthetic feelings, and reject beauty may seem a necessary one. But we
have to beware here of falling into the danger which Angelique de Arnauld,
Abbess de Port Royal, fell into. She said: "Love of poverty makes one choose
what is ugliest, coarsest, and dirtiest." She was the same Mother Superior who
refused to allow any form of recreation to her nuns, so that some of them had
nervous breakdowns and others went mad.
42
Those lovers of excessive asceticism who shiver at
the sight of beauty, shrink from the thought of refinement, and brush off all
suggestions of cleanliness as time-wasting, thereby proclaim the opposites by
implication. That is to say, they proclaim dirt, squalor, and ugliness as being
spiritual.
43
This insistence on interfering with other people's
lives on behalf of some fanatical belief, this minding every business but one's
own is a great troublemaker. It is the cause of the world's division into two
fighting camps today.
44
One of the signs of fanaticism is its conceited
assurance; another its lunatic extremist attitude which denounces a moderate
position as heretical.
45
If he overdoes his remorse and stretches out his
repentance too far; if his self-examination and self-criticism become
unreasonably prolonged and unbearably overconcentrated, the actuating motive
will then be not true humility but neurotic pity for himself.
46
Take the spiritual life seriously, but not too
seriously to the extent of becoming a fool or a fanatic when active in the
world.
47
The fanatic mutilates himself, deprives his mind of
all the great accumulation of wide experience, original thought, and intuitive
feeling which exists in the rest of the human race or in its records.
48
He who has caught the spirit of philosophy cannot
become a narrow-minded fanatic or a conversational bore. He does not shut out
the activities of human intelligence and human creativity from his interests,
but lets them in.
49
With fanatic hatred as his spirit and verbal
violence as his expression, a man can never make a bad state of affairs better.
By thinking such false thoughts, he can only make it worse. When views are so
wide of the truth and so violent in expression, he cannot become a leader of
people but only their misleader. He is an unfortunate sufferer in a psychopathic
state and needs remedial treatment to restore his lost mental balance.
50
Violently emotional exaggerated statements,
reckless hysterical extremist screams should warn us that they come out of some
sort of imbalance, that it is time for caution, prudence, reserve.
51
He can be quietly enthusiastic about his cherished
beliefs without indulging in propagandist shrieks.
52
The discipline of passion, the checking of emotion,
and the ruling of the flesh do not demand that we are to turn into inert wooden
creatures. We may still keep the zest for life, the enthusiasm for worthwhile
things, and the appreciation of art and beauty, but we shall keep these things
in their proper place.
53
It is one thing to set up such a goal in life; it
is another to find the way to reach it. For the attempt to live in celibacy -
unless wisely managed and informed with knowledge - provokes the animal in us to
revolt.
54
When his involvement in the Quest has become a
desperate affair to the point of morbid self-analysis endlessly repeated, it is
time to restore his balance.
55
How many misguided persons have condoned bringing
harm to a fellow human or animal creature by quoting a text or a doctrine!
56
Without discipline the passions and emotions may
run wild. With excess of discipline the heart may freeze, the man become fanatic
and intolerant.
57
He must constantly make allowances for the
possibility that his own attitudes are not the higher self's.
58
He will be neither a slavish sycophant of modern
sophistication nor an over-enthusiastic votary of ancient folly.
59
To feel detachment from earthly pleasures is one
thing, but to feel distaste for them is another.
60
He must not so clamp himself in the rigidity of any
system as to turn it into a superstition.
61
When criticism becomes so harsh that it becomes
hysteria, the man has lost his balance.
62
A mind surcharged with hysteria or neuroticism will
not be able to appreciate, let alone find, the highest truth.
63
A man must know his limitations, must know that
there are certain desires he can never attain and certain people with whom he
can never be at ease. Moreover, he must know other men's limitations too, must
realize that he can never make some understand, let alone sympathize with, his
mystical outlook and that he can never bring the unevolved herd to give up their
materialistic, racial, or personal prejudices.
64
The simple life need not be a squalid one. The
austere life need not be an ascetic one. There is room for aesthetic
appreciation in the first and for reasonable comfort in the second. Both must
respect the finer instincts and not decry them.
65
The "renunciate" who gloats over the miseries of
life and points continually to its horrors is not necessarily wiser than the
hedonist who sings over its joys and points continually to its beauties. Each
has exaggerated his facts; each is too preoccupied with a single facet of
existence. Wisdom lies in the impartial appraisal and the balanced view.
66
We need all these virtues, yes, but we also need to
practise them on the proper occasions - or they lose their value and do more
harm than good.
67
It is not the ordinary use and ingenious or
aesthetic development of material things which corrupts man, but it is the
excessive use of, and infatuated attachment to them which does so.
68
The life of some unbalanced persons seems to be a
periodic swing from one side of the pendulum to the other - that is, from
extremes of emotional and physical sensuality to extremes of fanatic and wild
asceticism. Their existence is filled with contradictions and discrepancies.
69
The unseen source which suggests or encourages
fanatical austerities, extreme self-ordeals, or dramatically exaggerated
sacrifices is suspect.
70
When detachment is overdone it becomes a
coldbloodedness. The man then moves and acts like a marionette.
71
There is a constant preaching of renunciation:
abandon possessions, embrace poverty, chill off desires, and turn aside from
luxuries. The high evaluation of poverty by holy men - in their preachments - is
not seldom contradicted in their practice.
72
Why should he go out of his way to destroy
religious ideas which others put their faith in, if such ideas are not used to
support harmful actions?
73
We must recognize that men are at different stages
of response to the commands of Moses, the counsels of Jesus, the admonitions of
Gautama, and the teachings of Krishna. Consequently it is vain to hope that they
will accept or obey a universal rule of behaviour.
74
Enthusiasm may degenerate into exaggeration.
75
Every beginner must remember that his own way to
truth is not the only way. However perfectly it suits his need and temperament,
it may not suit another man's. Each gains his understanding of it according to
the level of his evolution.
76
Failing to establish himself in the truth, he hides
the weakness of his position under the abusiveness of his phraseology, and
conceals his lack of rational arguments beneath the plenitude of his personal
innuendoes.
77
If we simply compare the two attitudes, instead of
arbitrarily opposing them, we shall find that they usefully counterbalance each
other.
78
Why should we deny our human needs and human nature
because we claim our divine needs and seek our divine nature?
79
All external austerities are helpful in training
the will but only some of them have any other value in themselves. And when they
become fanatical and extreme and merely external, they become perilous and
illusory.
80
He is not so foolish as to seek to impose the
austere ethical standards of the higher philosophy upon those who are still
unable to get beyond the level of the lower religion.
81
The sages were never so unpractical as to offer a
rule of life whose logical application could only be that all men should enter
monasteries and all women enter convents.
82
How often in history do we find men and movements
whose purpose is admirable but whose execution of it is execrable! A bad means
used to attain a good end, turns the end itself into a bad thing.
83
The man who sits encased in his own virtue, may
unwittingly become encased in spiritual pride.
84
Both conservative followers of tradition and
progressive rebels against it may have something to offer which is worth
welcoming. Why not admit the truth and scrutinize each offering justly? Why
immediately react against or in favour of it, only by looking at the name of its
source? It is better for everyone if there is willingness to accommodate the
other, to get the entire picture and then only make decisions.
85
We must fly the kite of idealism, but we must also
be able to jerk it back to earth on a minute's notice.
86
The single-idea enthusiast, the fanatic persecutor,
and the disproportioned extremist - these are all out of focus, out of harmony,
and out of balance.
87
The danger of adopting extremist attitudes is that,
each being insufficient, its results are imperfect.
88
The unbalanced fanatic merely makes a new
attachment out of his attempted detachment.
89
The type to which a man belongs, the temperament
which he possesses, will direct him to go along a certain way as being easiest
for him. This limits his outlook, and leads to intolerance of other ways and
imbalance of his own development.
90
He should not fall into extremes and, in his care
for self-protection, fall into an excessive prudence that risks nothing and
consequently gains nothing.
91
Your creed is immaterial in mysticism. You may be a
philosophic Buddhist or a doctrinaire Baptist.
92
Do not in enthusiastically winning new qualities
and virtues ignore and neglect the one which must regulate them all - balance.
93
The beginner who develops a self-conscious measured
spirituality is dangerously near to the vice of spiritual pride.
94
In trying to mold himself on a higher pattern, a
new fault may insert itself - the tendency to become self-righteous.
95
He is in a hard state who is unable to make
compromises and untempted to make concessions.
96
Like the rudder on a boat, or the governor on a
spring, the very quality which he lacks is needed by a man to keep him from
going astray into extremes, follies, quicksands, and disasters.
97
When behaviour or ideas are pushed to an incredible
extreme, they are held up to ridicule either by mild humorous irony or by strong
sarcasm. This brings a needed corrective to their exaggeration.
98
Any good quality may be pushed to fanatical
extremes, whereupon it may become a bad quality.
99
It is hard to walk with the pessimists and deny the
will to live because birth is evil and deny the natural needs because desire is
evil. A juster evaluation would find evil forms of living and evil desires, but
the great current of Life itself is surely beyond such relativities as good and
evil.
100
A temperate self-discipline is certainly
inculcated by philosophy but it does not call for the extreme of rigorous
asceticism. A reasoned austerity at certain times and a wise self-denial at
other times fortify and purify a man.
101
Ascetic disciplines take four channels: physical,
mental, emotional, and vocal. This last one, the restraint of speech is
threefold: first, some of the mantra yoga practices; second, the observance of
strict silence for specified periods; and third, the carefulness never to depart
from truthfulness.
102
The purpose of all balanced asceticism, whether
physical or metaphysical, emotional or mental, is to pull the consciousness up
from a lower outlook to a higher one. But this is only to make it possible for
the aspirant to get the loftier outlook. This cannot be done if he confuses
asceticism with fanaticism. It is properly a training of the body and thoughts
to obey and work with his higher will.
103
To practise the necessary trainings and
disciplines which any improvement of self calls for is to embrace the correct
kind of asceticism, not to fall into the unnecessary and unbalanced ways which
turn it into fanaticism.
104
"We practise asceticism," said a Mount Athos
monk, "not because we hate the body but because it calms the passions."
105
Life makes no sense if we have to deny its most
powerful manifestations; if we are taught to deny the body and ignore the
senses, if we are to reject the natural satisfactions and renounce the aesthetic
ones.
106
To deny Nature in the name of some narrow ascetic
doctrine, to judge men and art by its standards, is to introduce ugliness into
life, prejudice into affairs, and imbalance into character.
107
Not in ascetic despisal of the flesh nor in
fascinated enslavement to it will peace be found.
108
Two representative examples of those forms of
asceticism which may be listed as unreasonable, extreme, or fanatical, and which
are therefore taboo in philosophic practice are wearing hair shirts to cause
irritation or itching of the skin, and deliberately inflicting pain by scourging
or mutilating the body.
109
An asceticism which makes a moral distinction
between the body and the Spirit is exaggerated or false.
110
Asceticism is useful as a training of the self
but harmful as a shrivelling of it
111
Asceticism serves a useful purpose, but the
balanced man will not cling to it when the purpose has been achieved. He will
let it go in order to reach the next step higher, where there is no room for
one-sided things.
112
Among the dangers of asceticism are its aptness
to breed an intolerant mind, its proneness to harsh judgement on nonascetic
human beings.
113
An asceticism which rises from within, which is
wholly spontaneous, natural, and unforced, which at the same time avoids
fanaticism and imbalance, is not objectionable and may even be admirable.
114
The ascetic who is ashamed to possess a body is
as foolish as the one who hates it for the weaknesses he thinks it produces in
his feelings.
115
The ascetic seeks for the impoverishment of life
and the worldling seeks for its enrichment. Both are right in their place. But
whereas the ascetic would impose his rule of life upon all others as
constituting the highest one, the philosopher knows that it is but the mark of
the beginner who has to disentangle himself from the dominion of desire and
worldliness.
116
I accept the Chinese Confucian view which asserts
that taste or flavour is essential to enjoy food but reject the Chinese Buddhist
view which requires spiritual aspirants to deny themselves such enjoyment.