1
One needs a place where the only noise is that which
one makes oneself. Then, the lovely stillness without helps to induce the lovely
stillness within.
2
The solitude which accompanies or is necessary to
these first periods of stillness should be accepted and gloried in to preserve
the experience from being broken into. Do not run and leave it prematurely. For
although at the end of this quest the mind's silence can be found anywhere
within the bustle and activity, the turmoil and the noise of modern city life,
the first faint tender ventures must be guarded, protected: solitude, outward
solitude, is the best way.
3
We go apart into solitude or take a walk alone to
think over a personal problem which has suddenly come up. How much more is
solitude desirable to think over the larger problem of life and to meditate
deeply on oneself?
4
It is harder to find solitude in this mid-twentieth
century than it was in the mid-eighteenth century. We have gained more
neighbours, easier communications with them and transport to them. But we have
lost much of our chance of just being alone, just being with our own self and
getting acquainted with its deeper aspects. Yet the pressures of civilization
have increased, so that this need of finding inner strength and gaining inner
poise has also increased proportionately.
5
This need of communing with our own soul expresses
itself as a need of solitude, as a disgust with society, or as a nervous
hypersensitivity.
6
When his commerce with God becomes his most important
activity and remembrance of God the most habitual one, solitariness grows deeply
on a man. His need for friends grows less.
7
If he grows in real spirituality, and not in the
emotional imitation of it, he will grow to love solitude as much as most people
dread it.
8
He will come to enjoy solitude as much as formerly he
enjoyed society. For when alone, he is alone with the beauty and serenity of the
Soul but when with people, he is also with their greedy natures, their bad
tempers, and their ugly insincerities.
9
We are least troubled and most content when we are in
solitude and silence with the Overself. It is when we are with others that these
states are harder to feel.
10
Whoever is willing to take up the inner work of
quietening the activity of thoughts and add the disciplining of feelings will
find with time that solitude is a valuable help. If the possibility of country
rather than town life can also be realized, his way will be easier.
11
If you want to know why so many hermits have sought
their solitude, the answer awaits you in the character of man.
12
We must find ourselves, our spiritual centre. We
know that the discovery comes only in solitude, but make no mistake: Yogic cave,
nun's convent and ascetic's monastery are only for the few. Withdrawal from the
affairs of life is not for the many. Theirs is to be the solitude of the inner
life, the keeping of a reserved spot in the heart while busy in society.
13
Everything depends on the point of view. To most
people this experience is a retreat from reality but to a few people it is a
return to it.
14
It is not that he shuts himself up in his own life
because he has no interest in society's but rather that the fulfilment of the
purpose which, he believes, God has implanted in his being, is paramount.
15
In the end and perhaps after many years he finds
that he cannot get away from man's innate loneliness.
16
There is a vast difference between an idle
morbidly-introspective solitude and the inwardly-active creative solitude
advocated here.
17
Sufi idea: To be worldly or to be in the world is
to forget God. You may go to caves and mountains but that is not to leave the
world. Live a normal life and remember God. That's all. Don't live outwardly but
inwardly.
18
He will learn to appreciate and even become tough
enough to like this aloneness. He will realize that he has enough in himself, as
well as in the inspired writings that he will keep around him, to last a
lifetime. He will come to see how soft, how weak are all those who cannot live
without craving for, and constantly having at least one other human being near
at hand.
19
Aloneness is good for a man, but when it is felt as
too overpowering, it is not. Then the balance must be redressed by society.
20
The decision by unmarried persons to live alone
rather than to share an apartment or a house with other adults is not
necessarily a misanthropic one: it may be a nervous necessity. There is too much
strain and pressure involved in such sharing, too much confinement and
limitation, too much lack of freedom.
21
When in meditation a man faces God, or his
own higher self, he arrives at a complete solitude in the sense that no other
person is present to his consciousness. It is a curious fact that on his way to
this unique experience, he tends to live more and more within himself, less and
less in the mental sphere of society.
22
Even Paul did not straightway start on his mission
to the Gentiles after the vision of Jesus, but lived for three years of solitude
in Arabia to prepare himself. What did he do there? What else could he do other
than pray, learn, meditate, purify himself, and strengthen himself?
23
It is enough at the beginning to make these
occasional excursions into the quieter and lonelier places. If they can be
absolutely quiet and utterly lonely, his purpose will be best achieved.
24
One may take a warm interest in what is happening
in the world, be thrilled or saddened by dramatic events, and yet refuse to join
in the scramble to get on, the fight between opposing parties, the denigrating
gossip or foolish movements. One may live as a hermit, while living in the
world, and thus live with oneself.
25
There are times in the career of an advanced
meditator when he needs to avoid contact with humanity and live entirely alone.
26
If he refuses to give himself to the demands of
society, that is not because of disdain for it, but because of a felt need to
give his highest aim his whole attention. By isolating himself from worldly
contacts he can develop with less hindrance those qualities which the worldly do
not possess, and even discourage.
27
To the man with sufficient and active cultural
interests, solitude may be quite tolerable but to the man without them it may be
unbearable. To the man who has learnt the secret of entering inner stillness, it
can be an exquisite pleasurable experience.
28
The mystic who dissociates himself from the affairs
of his era and shuts himself up in seclusion may still contribute some influence
on that era. But it will be necessarily limited to the plane nearest to the one
on which his meditation operates. He will affect the minds of sensitive persons.
29
This need of solitude and privacy as being not
merely a temperamental but also a vitally spiritual one, is recognized by some
monastic orders. In Catholicism, the Carthusians live shut in their individual
cells.
30
The criticism is heard that this idea if put into
practice today seduces the intelligent individual to try to strengthen himself
by weakening society at a time when society itself is most in need of being
strengthened, and that it withdraws the unselfish man from the common effort at
a time when his services could be most fruitful.
31
When a man enters this phase, he begins to feel a
great weariness with life. He loses his interest in many things which may have
absorbed him before. He becomes emotionally indifferent to activities and
persons formerly attractive to him. He withdraws more and more from people and
society. When this fatigue with all existence descends upon him, then he will be
more ready and more willing to lose the personal ego in the universal ocean of
being.
32
So far as the rest of mankind live for aims
directly contrary to his own, he himself must live inwardly apart from them.
33
For a sensitive person privacy is a need. And if he
also happens to be both a scholar and a writer - without mentioning a meditator
- then it becomes a very real need. The irony is that, the modern world being as
it is, his possession of it depends on material things, that the only way to
assure it is to have money; the more money the more is privacy possible - and
such a person is the least likely to accumulate money.
34
The desert has given mankind some of its greatest
prophets. Out of its solitude there appeared a wild-looking man, dressed in a
rough camel's hair girdle. He came living on locusts and wild honey, but fasting
often. He went among the cities of Judea, praying, calling for repentance,
denouncing wickedness, and proclaiming the Coming. This man was John the
Baptist. Immediately after illumination came to him on the road to Damascus,
Saul went to the desert. He stayed for three years, engaged in self-training and
inner development. When he emerged from it, he was Paul the Initiate. Islam was
born in the desert wastes of Arabia. It was not for nothing that the early
Christian mystics of lower Egypt fled from populous cities to the open spaces of
the desert. Their instinct was right.
35
He will find the Path leads him away from the crowd
into solitude; and, later, away from the thoughts of the crowd that people
solitude into himself.
36
It is hard to get this privacy, harder still to get
solitude in the full sense. Other people will not let him alone. If they cannot
intrude physically, they do it by letter. If not that way, then by thoughts
about him.
37
Most of those who have attained this pure
philosophic truth not only revolted against and deliberately lived apart from
worldly communities, but also from monkish communities. This was not only
because they were entirely free from religious sectarian bias (with which
religious organizations tend to become identified) since they usually
acknowledge no ties - but also because the physical habits of living among
worldly people were repellent to them.
38
He may have goodwill to all mankind but this does
not make him sociably inclined to all mankind.
39
People misunderstand his motives, resent his
keeping to himself, reject his need of solitude, and prove totally unable to
understand his reasons for staying on his own lone path rather than society's
beaten path. So they descend to injustice, call him haughty or self-centered or
poseur. His refusal to get involved in relationships which will sap time and
energy needed for higher things or in situations whose troubled outcome he can
foresee quite clearly, will be denounced with anger as inhuman.
40
Without moving from one's home, without any
experiences in the world outside it, a man may form character and acquire
wisdom, but only if he correctly understood and faithfully followed the
philosophic meditations.
41
Total independence is impossible to attain in this
or any other society. But what may not be found outwardly may still be found
inwardly.
42
I have known quite a number of hermits, ascetics,
and monks in my time and travels, but I have never known one who was so totally
withdrawn from the world that he was not, in some small or large way, dependent
on the world. Complete isolation is theoretically possible but practically it is
not permanently possible. Even the millionaire who seeks it needs those who will
help create it for him, and to that extent he depends on them.
43
But the essential thing is what we do with the
mind. Socrates nurtured his philosophy in what was for that time a large city;
he did not need, like Thoreau, to withdraw into Nature's solitudes.
44
It is important to his success or failure that this
temporary isolation be protected against unwanted intrusion.
45
The old yogi, sitting under the shade of a neem
tree, unconcerned with the bustling world, is entitled to his withdrawal and
justified in his view. But those who follow another way, who stay in the world
without being "of it" are not less deserving of tolerance and respect.
46
The more he can find a place, a time, and a
circumstance when he is least likely to be distracted by any cause whatever, the
better will his meditation be. In this connection it is needful to remember that
to help achieve this purpose of solitude, seclusion is better than society -
even than the society of one person and that a member of the family or a close
friend. This is because the other's thoughts and feelings may penetrate his
consciousness in a vague way and disturb it since he is sitting receptively and
passively.
47
He must resist the interruptions of his privacy
whether they be boorish or well-meant if they lead to interruptions of his
peace.
48
It would be interesting to count the men of your
acquaintance who are able to stand on their own solitary opinion, who refuse to
be strapped down in the straitjackets of conventional public opinion. You will
usually find that such men, by taste or by circumstance, are accustomed to pass
somewhat lonely lives. They like to sequester themselves; they prefer to live in
quiet places. If destiny grants them the choice, they choose the place of quiet
mountains rather than the prattle of little men. Such men develop their bent for
independent thought precisely because they prefer withdrawn lives. Society and
company could only assist to smother their best ideas, their native originality,
and so they avoid them. Thoreau, that powerful advocate for solitude, could
never be intimidated by anyone.
49
In the still hours of the evening, when the
activities of the world drop from its tired hands, the mind can find anew its
olden peace. But in solitude there can be comfort and healing. Genius fleeing
the multitude, as Wordsworth did, knows this to be true.
50
So few know either the meaning or the delight of
inner silence; so many know only the depressive associations of outer silence,
such as ancient ruins and peopled cemeteries.
51
Privacy is a great privilege - almost, in these
noisy days, a luxury. To be able to live without being interrupted by others, to
be able to converge all one's thoughts, without being disturbed, upon the
highest of all thoughts, the discovery of the Overself, is a satisfaction
indeed!
52
Not many persons are suited for solitude. To get
the best it has to give requires a special sensitivity of temperament, a fine
appreciation of Nature, and a little knowledge of the mind's possibilities.
53
A time must come to every sensitive person when he
tires of the multiple distractions activities and tensions of twentieth-century
civilized living, when he yearns for a simpler, less exhausting, less
complicated existence.
54
The higher creative works are best developed in
isolation. Those to whom they are offered later would, if present, disturb the
concentration needed or obstruct the blowing wind of inspiration.
55
A hermit sitting in a sequestered retreat may
eventually draw to himself by the mind's mysterious power, as some Oriental
sages have done, certain spiritual seekers, those who were then benefited by the
contact.
56
The man who cannot be as happy in his own society
as in that of others will never attain true happiness at all.
57
Not all persons leave the world because they cannot
cope with it: some do so for the very opposite reason. They can handle its
affairs only too well, they know its human weaknesses and deformities from
personal experience and can counter them. But enough is enough: their scale of
values is now on a new higher level.
58
The mind germinates with great truths after these
lonely sessions.
59
The demands made by acquaintances, and even by
friends, ought not be permitted to supersede those of the inner life.
60
The enforced cessation from external activity which
imprisonment may bring could be a help to spiritual awakening. A few months
before he died Oscar Wilde said, "I have lived all there was to live. I found
the sweet bitter and the bitter sweet. I was happy in prison because there I
found my soul."
61
Why should he contend with a society that is
dominated by materialism, motivated by egoism, and saturated with sensualism?
62
A man who is spiritually minded often has moods
when he sickens of frequent contact with his more sordid fellows, when he
prefers to withdraw and become a mere commentator on life.
63
The theory of breaking all connection with the
world in order to make connection with the Eternal Spirit, is sound enough.
64
They withdraw from experiences because they want to
withdraw from the senses.
65
It does not need much thought to understand why it
is easier to find the presence of God in the absence of people.
66
For a month every year Muhammed withdrew from the
world and from Mecca into complete solitude, and thus balanced activity with
contemplation.
67
He deliberately isolates himself from the crowd at
these regular intervals because he believes that only in loneliness can he
approach the Ideal. Not that he ever really achieves such a condition for God
alone is alone.
68
The man who is frightened by loneliness is not yet
ready for philosophy.
69
If solitude is filled with growing knowledge and
deepening peace, one never wearies of it.
70
I am too enamoured of this tranquillity which
solitude gives me to accept the overtures of those who have no connection with
me except a geographical one. If there is no spiritual propinquity it is better
to stay alone.
71
The creator in art and the thinker in philosophy
need privacy for their work. Those who break into it without being invited -
whether in person or by letter or, worse, by telephone - deprive others, rob
humanity.
72
It is his inner apartness that enables him to keep
his freedom and pursue his quest. Whether it has to be translated into outer
terms is another matter, and one dependent on his circumstances: it is not
inexorable and essential.
73
Solitude becomes intolerable to those without inner
resources. The time passes too slowly for them, too boringly. Unless they have
some outer activity to keep them busy all the day, the inactive hours become
unendurable.
74
Whether a bodily withdrawal should follow the inner
one at the same time, or at some later date, or is not necessary at all, must be
determined by each person for himself in accord with his outer circumstances and
personal strength.
75
To be always among other human beings, be they in a
city or a village, is suffocating to the growth of awareness of one's own higher
individuality. There are times when even the involvement of family or the
cloistered life of a monastic institution have saturated one's aura and
occasional liberations are needed.
76
The hermit who tries to improve himself, to deepen
himself, to purify himself, and to enlighten himself is, indirectly, also
contributing to the improvement of mankind generally.
77
To put it plainly he has less time for society
because he wants more time for God.
78
Loneliness he is thankful for and comes to regard
as a blessing, not as the misfortune it is so widely supposed to be. If choice
and destiny have brought him seclusion, he would not give it up easily.
79
The recluse who finds his spiritual and cultural
resources sufficient company is as happy - in a different way - as the
householder enjoying his family.
80
Loneliness is cold to those who know only the self
which gives them a personal existence, but very warm, very friendly, to those
who know their other self.
81
It is a matter of temperament and circumstance
whether he shall bury himself in a solitary existence or not. The inner life is
always available, whether he is active or passive, for in both cases it is
available only as he turns toward it, retreats into it, or draws upon it.
82
He finds that his solitude is inhabited by another
being than his familiar own, that a higher presence has entered the area of
consciousness.
83
By communing with his deeper self in quietude and
solitude, he can renew his battered ideals and fortify his aspirations.
84
There are a few periods of his inner life when
complete isolation is greatly needed and greatly advantageous.
85
The law which completes every thing and every
movement in Nature by its opposite or contrary acts here, too. If a period of
self-sought isolation is prolonged enough, a man inevitably gets tired of it and
desires a change.
86
Read the Book of Genesis and note how Joseph's
inward liberation came during his outward imprisonment. Read the biography of
Sri Aurobindo and note how his spiritual awakening came during the year spent in
jail. Read the poems written by Sir Walter Raleigh during his last confinement
in the Tower of London and note the depth of religious feeling they reached.
87
Periodic retreats into solitude are a necessity to
the advanced soul if he is to fulfil his purpose in attaining true, free, and
inspired Individuality.
88
Although few will have troubled to perceive the
fact, or may even be able to perceive it, we all have to live in inner solitude
anyway.
89
The need of withdrawing at certain times from outer
contact with other human beings will be felt and if so should be obeyed. If he
disregards it, he misses an opportunity to progress to a higher stage.
90
Swami Ramdas: "You should not take refuge in any
ashram for the purpose of realizing the supreme state. What you need is solitude
and suitable environments."
91
The difference between seeking holiness in a
corporate monastic life and seeking it in a solitary one is wide.
92
Man's long search to find himself may begin with a
crowd but must end in complete loneliness.
93
He will have to endure at times the solitude of the
man who finds himself on a summit.
94
He will tend to become more and more solitary in
his social habits, less and less disposed to carry on with external work, for he
will grudge the time and feel that it belongs by right to the prayers and
meditations which are leading him inwards. The same solitude which may lead
others to despair or madness must lead him to calmness and wisdom.
95
Because he has to find a balance between the wordly
life and the inner life, he discovers and develops a portable solitude. This he
takes with him to work or social leisure.
96
The same mental isolation which may lead to
illusion in the mad may lead to truth in the well balanced.
97
When the disadvantages of fame are severely felt,
the advantages of flight into obscurity become attractive.
98
It is not so much that he, as an individual, has
come into conflict with society as that he finds the goals offered him by
society to be unsatisfactory, sometimes even frightening. So he withdraws from
it.
99
The love of solitude will not be felt by those who
are still enthralled by the love of gregariousness.
100
His sensitivity to the world's evil currents may
become unbearable, forcing him to withdraw into isolation or else to suffer
enormously.
101
The world thinks it could hardly wish one a worse
fate than to be cast away like Crusoe on an uninhabited isle, and the mystic
could hardly wish himself a better one, for then he might come to complete grips
with himself and follow Ariadne's thread till he finds the Soul.
102
If for a while and in certain ways the student
has to learn to live unto himself alone, this is only that he may later and in
other ways better carry out his responsibilities towards his fellow creatures.
He has not washed his hands of this responsibility but he has decided to equip
himself better for it.
103
A princess once told me about a friend of hers
who had been an officer high in the Russian Army and a popular member of the
Russian aristocracy. After the Bolshevik Revolution he escaped to Greece,
renounced the world, and made his home in Mount Athos. There, in the hermit
settlement perched on the windswept cliff-face of Karoulia, he occupies a kind
of half-cave, half-hut, perched high above the sea and reached by perilously
steep unprotected steps. He sleeps on the floor with his head on a stone pillow
and with the bony skulls of former monkish inhabitants of the cell lined up on a
shelf. Father Nikon, as he is called, is one of the very few educated and
mannered men to be found in the peasant-stock illiterate community of Mount
Athos. In a message he sent the Princess after many years of this solitary
existence and in response to her enquiry, he said that he had found great peace
and had never before known such happiness. The visitor who carried the message
was struck by the contentment which radiated from him and the serene
self-mastery with which he bore himself.
104
The wider his experience of the world, the more
he is tempted to become a recluse.
105
The impingement of other people's auras, if they
be inferior and if he be sensitive, causes him a kind of suffering. Can he be
blamed for preferring solitude to sociability?
106
The man who seeks to defend his solitude and
protect his privacy for spiritual purposes is not the type that the public
admires. Yet why should he present his sacred treasures before scoffers? Why
should he cast the divulgements which come to him in quiet meditation before a
sneering world?
107
The man who prefers his solitude to listening to
the silly chatter of those who talk endlessly but say nothing worth saying, has
at least done no worse.
108
When a man becomes disgusted with the world's
ways, he may decide to leave it to its own fate, retreat into solitude, and seek
out his own progress.
109
He is not afraid of being alone, nor even of
living alone. It is in such solitude, he knows, that he can become acquainted
with his real self. But neither is he afraid of sharing his solitude with
someone else's. The Spirit is large enough to be findable in one or the other,
despite all monkish or ascetic claims to the contrary.
110
People blame him for being a recluse, but then he
will rarely meet a beautiful soul whereas he can always meet a beautiful bit of
Nature. Do they blame him for preferring Nature? Besides, he is so taken up with
this task of getting to know himself that he has little inclination left to get
to know others.
111
If he is to be away from outer temptations which
stimulate afresh and keep alive thoughts that he is desirous of subduing, then
it is better he should be away from society. If he is to avoid the semblance of
situations which may outwardly compromise him even though he is inwardly
guiltless, it is again better that he should be away from society.
112
There are times when a man needs to be alone,
apart from others, to be wholly himself and think his own thoughts.
113
It is hard for such a man to stay in society
without compromise, without playing the hypocrite, without becoming
half-insincere. It is understandable if, disgusted, he would rather retire from
the world and be a recluse.
114
His revulsion against this materialism is
understandable. Its denial of the finer culture which he is beginning to find is
reprehensible. Shall he follow the Indian example and withdraw from the world,
repudiate its values, and disengage himself from all relationships? It may not
be the easiest way to live but it is certainly the sincerest.
115
Hearing some nearby worshipper singing out of
tune, say quite flat, does not promote the feeling of reverential worship, let
alone of brotherly love. Yes, the argument for privacy in worship is a strong
one!
116
Left alone, with no intrusion of other people's
auras to create tensions, a beautiful placidity takes over the mind of a
philosophically developed man.
117
"I regard my last eight months in prison as the
happiest period in my life. It was then that I was initiated into that new world
. . . which enabled my soul...to establish communion with the Lord of all Being.
This would never have happened if I had not had such solitude as enabled me to
recognize my real self. Although I did not study mysticism, the mystics I read
in prison appealed to me tremendously." - Anwar el Sadat, former president of
Egypt
118
No matter how many other persons anyone surrounds
himself with, he is and remains fundamentally alone. He may not recognize it, or
may refuse to recognize it, but an hour comes when the hidden truth is forced
upon him.
119
He must use a shield against intrusive society,
against aggressive egos ever ready to desecrate what he holds most holy. That
shield is concealment.
120
The lonelier he is the likelier is meditation to
appeal to him.
121
Solitude is not a necessity of the meditative
existence. A man may go his own way in the midst of a society inwardly detached,
calm while outwardly busy and alert, weary of the witless talk that imposes upon
their dementia a pomposity which provokes right and proper ridicule.
122
This is not my own discovery. The ancients and
the medievals knew it, too. Richard Rolle, the fourteenth-century English
mystic, states, "In ancient days many of the more perfect went out from the
monasteries to dwell alone." I myself witnessed the procession of the more
advanced of Ramana Maharshi's disciples exiling themselves, one by one, from his
ashram during his lifetime.
123
At such times, when he is alone with the best in
himself, he will come to appreciate the worth of solitude.
124
The recluse who rejects society is entitled to do
so and to find his own spiritual path in his own way; but it is neither just nor
wise for him to impose his way upon the others who have to live in society, who
can not reject it.
125
To the man of thought, feeling, and meditation,
privacy is a treasure - a necessity of his way of life, a creative and fruitful
period.
126
Solitude is the best way of life, Nature is the
best company, God is the best presence. Those who are wealthy surround
themselves with servants, so that they never have solitude, but always other
presences, other auras around them. Privacy is the accompaniment of solitude and
where there is no solitude there is no privacy.
127
It is pleasant to live ignored and unknown. The
world then lets you alone and keeps its negative thoughts off you, directing
them to someone else. To be regarded as a nobody and let others find out after
you have passed from their physical ken or moved elsewhere that you are a
somebody prevents unwanted intrusions.
128
He is a prudent man who does not much encumber
himself with commitments to other persons upon the journey of life but retains
some measure of the freedom which is found in aloneness and independence.
129
Who has full freedom and complete independence?
Who is walled against the actions, the influence, the suggestions, and the
presence of others? Even the recluse who withdraws from society will find it
difficult to live or be alone. He prefers to be inconspicuous among others, to
live quietly in society, to have a humbler rather than a grander position, and
to hide himself in anonymity or obscurity. But these are his own preferences.
If, however, the Higher Power wills or instructs him intuitively to come into
the public eye, to be publicly active, he will reluctantly have to obey the
call.
130
This mental solitude will seem to be enchanted,
almost magical, outside the working of time itself.
131
He must not be afraid to hide himself if that is
the only way he can avoid being disturbed.
132
Many people look upon living alone and staying
alone as often as possible with something like horror and to be avoided. The
philosopher has no such attitude for on the contrary he is able then really and
truly to be himself and not what the pressures of others force him to try to
appear to be.
133
The large spread of vulgarity in the world makes
a fastidious person find more enjoyment in solitude.
134
The better part of his character revolts against
much that he finds in the world but which others have long since received into
their concept of an acceptable and respectable society.
135
The mystical temperament covets solitude and
quietude, detests multitude and noise. The mystical way of life renounces the
limited ego, battles against the lower instincts, and abjures personal strife.
Consequently, the mystic is inevitably repelled by much that belongs to the
active life. His breadth and depth of outlook find little attractive in it. He
wants to save the time and energy it absorbs so as to make his life inwardly
profitable.
136
If he seeks to live apart from others for long
periods, he is entitled to do so. Society and community may do much for a man
but they do not give him inner peace. For that he must fight alone in the full
sense of the word.
137
A sensitive man is entitled to protective shelter
from intrusions to his private tent in the wilderness of this world. Aloneness
with the Overself may be his particular way of life. Solitude may be his
necessity, but someone else's curse.
138
Has he obligations to society which remain
unfulfilled if he chooses solitude whilst he remains in it, or withdrawal into a
retreat when he does not? Is he acting dishonourably? The answer is that he is
entitled to his decision: it is personal. His own future life is at stake, not
society's.
139
The criticism that the man who withdraws and
excludes himself from the turmoil and agitation of ordinary life for spiritual
reasons is antisocial and selfish is a narrow, one-sided, and superficial one.
If he uses the hermit-like retreat to improve his character and to foster
resolves to amend his conduct when he returns to society, he will surely be a
better member than before. Since society is composed of individuals, that which
leads to their moral elevation cannot fairly be called antisocial. And since
everyone benefits by it in the end, it cannot be called selfish.
140
Is the man who has gone aside for a while to
collect his forces, to quieten his mind and to study the ancient wisdom, to be
labelled a deserter of civilization? How false such a label, how foolish the
critic who affixes it! All that is best in civilization has come from men who
for a time went aside to gain the inspiration or the vision out of which their
contributions or creations were born.
141
The disgust with the world which Shankara regards
as one of the four essential qualities for the Quest, or dispassion as it is
sometimes translated, must also include disgust with humanity. Therefore, if it
leads a man to seek a solitary existence in order to find what the world's
influences obstruct, he ought not to be blamed.
142
If the hermit is busy with quietening his
thoughts, penetrating his consciousness, deepening his attention and uplifting
his emotion, his unsocial behaviour is quite justified. He knows now that he
must fulfill his duty to himself and that it takes time and strength. If he
leaves other persons alone, does not intrude into their lives, it is because he
is trying to make his own life so much more valuable, and this in the end will
make him so much more valuable to society. Thus, not only is his own patience
called for, but also the patience of society, to bear with his solitary ways.
143
Experience will instruct him that until he
attains a certain inner status, the more he moves with others, the less often he
finds the inner light. The more he is alone the easier it is to commune with
Nature. It needs courage to practise solitariness at the proper times, for too
many meetings and too much chattering deprives.
144
When he sees how much malignancy there is in the
world, a man may be excused if, without turning misanthrope and for the purpose
of higher development, he cuts himself off from his fellow men and withdraws
into seclusion.
145
The hermit who isolates himself from neighbours
in order to enter a deeper intercourse with himself, is entitled to do so. It is
the spiritual motive which justifies the antisocial act.
146
To leave the worldly life, out of clear
perception of its insufficiency and unsatisfactoriness, or out of disgust and
fatigue, is not necessarily a cowardly act. It may well be the only proper and
prudent act.
147
The benefit which can be got from solitude, is
had only by properly balanced minds. The others will be still more unbalanced by
it.
148
The hermits who go, self-banished, into their
rural retreats have as much right to their solitude as we to our society. But if
they avoid all contact with others for too long a period, they fall into fresh
danger of monomania, hallucination, or illusory progress. Here, as in all
things, a balance must be kept.
149
The tendency to withdraw into oneself in disgust
with the world is useful so long as it does not end in a withdrawal to some
other part of the ego. The result is likely to be that one shuts oneself up in
sulkiness, if not morbidity - a sterile move.
150
If he loses interest in the world to the extent
that he is quite willing to let it go hang, for all he cares, where is the
evidence of spiritual unselfishness in this? Is it not rather a complete
obsession with personal development?
151
So long as he does not go into action, the hermit
is in no danger of being shocked into discovering all the truth about himself
and about his theories. His meditation may reveal some or much of it but so far
as this practice is swayed by his imaginings or permeated by his ego, it may
lead him only to false results. But in the world he will meet with events,
rocks, oppositions, temptations, that force him to bring up to the surface what
is really in him or test the advances he has made to measure whether they be
real or imaginary.
152
Hermits who dwell overlong in mountain eyries get
out of touch with common life. Their outlook becomes narrow and confined; their
thoughts become unable to take wide generous and balanced views. They fall into
a fatal complacency.
153
There is a dangerous side to excessive solitude
spent in efforts at meditation. It may lead to a dried-up, holier-than-thou
sanctity which hides and protects the very egoism he sets out to kill. It may
breed hallucinatory visions and pseudo-revelations, in which he gradually
becomes lost to the truth and sanity of real vision and authentic revelation.
154
An excess of solitude may lead to a degeneration
of manners. The man who lives too much in himself may forget how to live with
others. Living alone, unsociable, having no companions, much less confidants, a
hermit may lose polish, graciousness.
155
The dangers of introspection exist mostly if he
is to revel in egoistic thoughts. But the philosophic aim is the very contrary -
to cut a passage-way through all such thoughts and escape entirely from them.
156
The mere indifference towards other men and the
self-sought blindness to events which characterize such a recluse are not
necessarily the highest kind of detachment.
157
There is something outwardly ironic in asking
such a man to love his neighbour as himself. Having secluded himself from all
normal contacts with his neighbours, how can he find the chance to love them?
158
Isolation from all culture may either breed
insanity or foster wisdom.
159
Prolonged isolation from his fellows can fill his
mind with unreal imaginings about his own experiences and wrong ideas about
other people's.
160
He becomes too withdrawn into himself in a
negative way, ending in a lethargic apathetic self. This is not at all a
philosophic result but quite the reverse.
161
The solitary man may or may not have a better
chance to attain stillness, not enlightenment. This is because he is likely to
have less distractions of certain kinds. But in that case he is likely to have
other kinds instead.
162
Solitude may help a man immensely in his
spiritual life during certain periods which may be quite long or quite short.
But just as any good that is overdone becomes a bad or turns to a folly, so it
is with solitude. Too much of it may cause a man to go astray and lose himself
in chimeras and illusions. For if he has no other human contact he has no one
with whom to check his ideas, from whom to receive constructive criticism, and
by whom he may be warned about deviations from the correct path.