Imagine that you are the male supervisor, whom Pat Lorance trusts and goes to after her demotion to discuss the broken promises made by the union and management. As Pat Lorance’s supervisor, you have been told to “write her up for a reprimand,” an act they hope will discourage her from taking legal action against the company. Decide what you would do in this situation. Your job may be on the line if you do not follow orders.
Write a formal letter to Pat Lorance explaining your personal and professional feelings.
Dear Pat,
You know my situation. You know that I have been told to write
you up for a reprimand for what you are doing. What you don’t know is how
I feel about this.
We have known each other for a long time. Over the years we have
become good friends, even though we have been in different positions on
the job. I have witnessed, first hand, the discrimination that you and
the other women have faced. I apologize to you for not being able to do
anything about that. Then I noticed that you were trying extremely hard
to get ahead, and I was proud. Accompanying your hard work came the break
that you were looking for. I couldn’t be happier. And despite all of the
negativity coming from all of the male workers, you persevered. Then you
were demoted and that’s where the trouble for me started. I know you came
to me looking for support and I tried to give it to you. I spoke to the
bosses about your downgrade and they told me to write you up. The biggest
problem for me is that I have to make a decision on whether or not I will
do it. Doing it would be wrong because you have done nothing wrong. You
were only trying to get the same opportunities that everyone else was getting.
However if I don’t do it, I might lose my job and this job is a necessity
for me. I have a family that needs to be taken care of. I have bills to
pay and food to buy. If I don’t have this job, what am I going to do? Where
am I going to get the much-needed money?
I wrote this letter to inform you of my position both professionally
and personally. Hopefully you now understand what I’m up against and can
grant me forgiveness if the decision that I make is the wrong one in yours
or anyone else’s eyes.
Sincerely,
Jim