Greetings Lords and Ladies... (Sorry i have been away so long. i have just finished doing some updating. Some links are still not working on the friends page. But i will update them as soon as they do. Alot has changed since we last spoke, both on the outside as well as within.) Often times i thought my parents should have named me gingerale. Because it suits me;on the plain side,but bubbly and a great mixer. However,you may find me using many nicks such as: "h.l.minx." given to me by a man who sometimes seemed to know me almost too well or wearyheart, Lady J or maybe my real nickname Pj. Whatever the handle, i will always be the same straightforward woman,who thinks men are "way better than chocolate".
If you are curious,i am a voluptuos, 5'7",51,with short, curly hair is a myriad of brown shades with sterling highlights courtesy of mother nature and my big eyes are sort of jade green with scatterings of smoky topaz.
Finally happy here in Colorado Springs. i live by myself in a two bedroom. i love my day job.But in my spare time, i run my own jewelry business. My second passion is writing. Also really enjoy cooking,hiking and making friends with open honest people who are actively seeking Christ. But still looking for a patient teacher for bowling and pool. I don't use drugs or tobacco and drink only occasionally. WARNING(STILL IN EFFECT): i am an excessive talker and a bit of a procrastinator.

FAVORITES
Colors-(ON MEN) black/red.(ON MYSELF) purples and greens
Food-Italian, my cousin Jerrys barbecued country ribs & my moms meatloaf.
Beverages-(TODAY)orange green tea and on occassion vanilla rum/kahlua in milk or cocoa
Music-(NOW)Justn Guarini and alot of inspirational and easy listening but still rock and alternative sometimes.
Songs-NEW-James Blunt-You're Beautiful,Jessie McCartney-Beautiful Soul,Inner Child-Justin Guarini(really all of his that i have heard)
Tv
Shows(NOW)-SMALLVILLE/Stargate/Dead Zone/DayStar Television
Tv Shows(of all time)-QUANTUM
LEAP/Starsky&Hutch/Miami Vice/StarTrek.
Movies-NEW-Club Dread,Tango and Cash,DemolitionMan,From Justin to Kelly,
Blade,ToSirWithLove,OverBoard,
PeggySueGotMarried,BackToTheFuture,TimeCop,
DoubleImpact,StarTrek:WrathOfKahn,StayingAlive,
DirtyDancing,X-Men and the Mummy Returns(for a few)
Date-casual and inexpensive,but must involve talking,lots of eye contact and touching.
Painting-Starry Night
Qualities-genuineness/caring/sexuality.
Things to Do-quality time with the man in my
life/writing/learning a new skill.
Actor Types-Kurt Russell, Vin Diesel and Kevin Sorbo
Artists-Van Gogh/H.Soroyama/B.Vallejo/
Quotes-"What doesn't kill you makes you
stronger"/"You wouldn't worry about what people
thought of you,if you knew how little they did"/
"If it were easy to be yourself, everyone would
be doing it"
Gifts To Give-my homemade cookies/long hugs/foot treatments/paperbacks.
Gifts To Receive-scented candles/microbead-filled pillows/long
passionate kisses/over-size t-shirts from your collection.
TURN-OFFS
dishonesty/filthy habits/hatred/drugs &
tobacco
TURN-ONS
hard work/cleanliness/reaching goals/kissing

MOST IMPORTANT- is too constantly grow and better myself. Then i will be more able to help others and make a more equal partner. STILL-My personal quest has been for a rare breed of man. One who is sincere, affectionate, patient, kind, and loyal, who doesn't play heart or mind games and isn't afraid of soap and water. Ideally, he would passionate and romantic. Looks don't matter as much as personality and attitude. Someone to hold my hand, capture my eyes with his and always be real. NOW-Must believe in the Lord and be focused on fulfilling his purpose here
"Regardless of popular opinion, honesty is
not merely for those with no imagination"
P J H.
