Parenting Links Too
Meet Mom and Dad! My mother hates this picture of her, so please don't tell her you saw it here! Their relationship began in 1968, Vietnam. Daddy had already been there a year.
Daddy was a warrior (still is, but not as heavily armed now) :) My mother fell in love with his blue eyes and charm. My father fell in love with her strength and beauty. It's quite a li'l story. We all came back in 1972 (1972?!?! yep, Daddy had a LONG tour). Dad finished his time in the Army (the man did his duty). In 1985, mom and dad decided that they liked each other a whole lot more when they weren't bound by marital expectations. Now, they are the closest of friends, and I am so much happier that they have lived their lives with consideration, respect, and love (Yes, Love). Mom hasn't aged much since the 1960's. She still looks as fresh and vibrant as ever.
(This is Bob, he's a good guy)
Mom now owns her own dental laboratory, and has chosen to use her meticulous skills in dentistry. She's more than just pretty good too. I live with my father about 15 minutes away from her. She comes over with food every now and then, just because she'll always be Mom ("mom, we HAVE food" "I know, but eat this anyway"). Daddy lives his days as he should...Like He Wants To Dammit. He worked very hard for a very long time to earn that priviledge. He should be a gentleman of leisure, but I find him constantly assisting others. Daddy is the Catcher in the Rye, and he has caught many people from running over the cliff, springing from the Rye in enough time to wrap arms around those that are lost. His aptitude and ability to help others is quite extraordinary. I hope to one day be able to listen and guide as he does. I'm extremely proud of both of them. My folks have always held me close to them emotionally, and I could not have asked for more finer parents. Without them, God only knows what condition I'd be in. They have not necessarily taught me right from wrong, but something better. They have taught me to discern for myself what is just and what is not. Since they are both intellectually gifted, I was a fortunate child (now, a fortunate adult). I love them with every width and depth of my heart, and find myself thanking them everyday for being so kind, patient, smart, and adoring. (Ha, only children get doted on y'know) :)
The following is a list of super parenting links. Since I began teaching, I have noticed that even though some parents do in fact love their children more than their own lives, sometimes they do not have the skills necessary to project guidance. It is even harder in these times of societal troubles. These links provide advice, a sounding board (parents need to scream too), and some resources for parents. I hope that every child can live their lives loving their folks like I do.
