Remember: As you read these verses the cultural understanding of the word “wife” and
“divorce” is very different in the book of Matthew than our understanding today of those
words (Don’t forget the cultural context!). Also remember that Jesus
does not
say adultery is grounds for divorce
(a GREAT misunderstanding) but
fornication, and the primary meaning of the word “fornication”
concerns sexual relations before marriage (again read
The Forward).
Brethren, it’s not just 1 word (fornication) that is in dispute, but 3 words (“wife”,
“divorce” AND “fornication”). Even in the Gospel of Luke (which in actuality is a letter
written by a GENTILE author to a GENTILE man. Luke 1:3) even Luke left off the
Jewish cultural exemption clause when he wrote his letter to Theophilus (Luke 1:1-4 “...
that you (Theophilus) might know the
EXACT truth
about the things you have been taught).
Brethren, another important thing to remember is how the Apostle Paul saw the teaching
of Jesus (or these below verses). He saw them - in his letter to the GENTILE Corinthian
church - specifically as Jesus addressing believer / believer marriages. [“But to the
(believers) married (to each other) I give instructions, NOT I
BUT THE LORD
(Jesus), that the wife should not leave her husband, but if she does leave, let her remain
unmarried... ”
just as the Lord says (in His teaching / or as we would say “in the
Gospels”).
Again, NOT I
BUT THE LORD (Jesus).
Brethren, believers are NOT to remarry from a divorce / seperation from another believer
(1 Corinthians 7:10,11). In other words... what Paul is saying in 1 Corinthians 7:10,11 is
that ‘those who believe’ and ‘who are married to each other’ will follow Jesus’ teaching
on the matter (read
Question
45,
NO REMARRIAGE) and again read
The Forward.
This is how the Apostle Paul saw the teaching of Jesus (or these below verses), and I do
believe he had a better understanding of the language - as well as the customs of Judaism
- than we do today.
Brethren, even Luke understood this - as well as Mark.
And
remember Luke spent time with Paul [see the “we” and “us” passages in
that
other GENTILE letter he wrote to that same GENTILE man (Acts 1:1). “The
book” of Acts (Acts 16:10-17; 20:5-21:18; 27:1-28:16)]. Luke had ample opportunity to
talk to Paul personally about the teachings of Jesus. I’m sure Luke even heard Paul speak
publicly about Jesus’ teachings on many occasions. BOTH Luke - (in the letter of Luke) -
and Paul - (in his 1st letter to the Corinthians) - agree that Jesus did not allow for
remarriage from a believers divorce. They were “on the same page” regarding this issue.
Brethren, what God has joined together let no man separate.
And PS, brothers and sisters: do we really need to know about the customs of old Israel as
well as the interpretation of ancient languages to understand Jesus’ teaching on these
matter? (i.e. mercy & restoration).
Many
Christians should be ashamed of themselves for their behavior.
Mattthew 5:31,32