Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you
brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than
kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to
eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right
after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on
gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist
when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear
lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot
of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss.
Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and
gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of
you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your
partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your
eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until
you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips
over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As
your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move
your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your
partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give
your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep
them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as
far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time
kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most
popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's
and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a
great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly
more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your
tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your
partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you
wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun
with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your
tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this
slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
The decision to
kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the
relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender;
because this kiss already has within it that surrender. |