She has been reading a lot of web comics lately, and came across this one where a note was left at the bottom of one of the pages. Link: http://comic.xyliatales.com/1130200
Under the cut for those who don't want to click:
Hi everyone, I hope all of you who celebrate Thanksgiving had a great day last Thursday!
Okay everyone. Today’s newspost is a plea. One of those annoying, whining, beggy diatribes that we all hate. But at least I warned you!
If you have been following Xylia for any time, I’ve made no secret of the fact that I am a struggling artist/mom and that Xylia is my pet project that I do because I love it so much. Earlier in the year, I tried to maintain an eight update a month schedule, but it just wasn’t feasible. I’ve now reached a point where working on this webcomic at all is becoming difficult. So I thought I would appeal to you, the readers. I know that I have a wonderful group of very loyal readers who support the ups and downs of my life and creating this story. You have all bee so supportive and understanding through all of my challenges in the past. Now I am asking that anyone out there who enjoys Xylia consider helping with a donation. I have several wallpapers and chapters of Nigel’s Opus to offer as incentives. If only a portion of you would donate, it would be more than enough that I could keep the story going.
What brought all this on is that I have had a sudden mess of financial challenges smack me in the last week (furnace problems, car problems, a dead washer, medical bills etc.) Coupled with this, I have seen a drastic decline in freelance projects and interest in XYlia which has decreased ad revenue. The reality is that I’m having to consider looking for outside work again. Realistically, unless Xylia makes some money, I just can’t keep doing it right now. I will need to take time off and get money coming in again.
I know- “webcomics are SUPPOSED to be free!!” The web is supposed to be free. I know. I wish I COULD do this for free. But this is my personal reality as a webcomic creator: I’m a single mom, a team of one, feeding and clothing two kids and myself. If there is no income, I will have to put Xylia on hiatus in search for work. I have to get money coming in to support my children and myself. End of story. It doesn’t matter how much fun I find Xylia, if I can’t afford the time to work on it, I just can’t.
It’s come down to the end of the year. The project did not meet my expectations, so I’m appealing to you all, the audience, to come to it’s rescue. If we can raise $800.00 or more this month in donations and income from merchandise profit, I can keep the boat in the water next month. If not, I have to shut it down. This will be a hiatus, hopefully only temporary until I get money coming in somehow and someway again.
So if you enjoy the story, please donate. Like I said, if everyone just contributed a small amount- it would be more than enough. Thank you so much for your help, and for helping me do what I love to do.
So, basically... Boo hoo, I'm a single mom, and I don't want to work, so give me money so I can stay home with my kids and draw!!
And before anyone gets uppity about how artists should be paid for their work, I am an artist as well (though I don't have a huge webcomic, like she does) so I understand in a way. I've taken commissions before and they pay diddly to what I can make working considering how much time I spend on them. But this is not commission work. This is something that she's doing and posting for free. If she wants to set up a store where people can buy merchandise, fine. But to beg for money to clothe her kids?
I guess it just bothers me when people don't want to work. I've been working my ass off for years, and I don't LIKE to work... but it's something adults do. Why should some people get a free ride while others have to bite the bullet and get a job?
Comments
I guess the reason I posted this one was because her reason for wanting money was to support her children.
I bet a lot of other webcomic artists have actual jobs, too.
And we did, and he did.
That's a lot different, though, than I want to stay home with my kiiiiiids don't make me get a joooob!
That we do.
I work 9 hour days with 2 hours of commuting.
Where's your webcomic? I'd like to see :)
I've not updated in a looong time (And promise my art's gotten better since!). Mainly because my 11X14 scanner is Windows only, and I upgraded to a Mac (Not that a new OS is an upgrade, but my old laptop had 4G of hard drive space!) And I just recently got a new windows computer, so I've started work on it again (Like, within the past two days!)
Anyway, it's at www.sacredgroundscomic.com and seriously needs some work, it's been neglected since the OS thing!
That said, yes, a lot of them ask for donations, but they don't threaten to discontinue the comic for those.
Also, eight times a month update schedule? LAME. I've been to many "How to start your own webcomic" panels at several conventions, and the first thing they tell you is to make your comic interesting enough that people want to read and update frequently enough that people don't forget your comic.
Then again, I still read Megatokyo...every six months I go and read the three new comics he's posted. But I hate Fred Gallagher as a person sooo...
But most of them have jobs and write the comic in their spare time.
A webcomic is not a job, it is a hobby.
You don't get paid for hobbies.
It takes a lot to be able to quit your job to write a comic full time, let alone a webcomic.
I see absolutely no problem with her asking for donations, especially if she offers special perks for those donations. Webcomic artists often ask for donations. But, it would have been better if she left it at a simple 'If you enjoy my comic and would like to keep it going, donate!' instead of going into lengthy personal details.
No one ever said "I don't want to go to fun today." That's why it's called work. It's what people do to survive without leeching off others. Anyone with good good fortune not to have to either work or be a leech on someone who does would do well to remember that is a privilege, not an entitlement.
And those of us who support ourselves rather than living off others don't part with it for a webcomic unless we're buying merchandise with that webcomic on it. Nothing wrong with a small donate button but she better not count on it as her primary source of income.
I don't think it's a privilege or an entitlement. It's a choice and a perfectly valid one. I've had to make sacrifices and difficult choices in order to live the way I want to. I've also had to be very creative in finding ways to make a little money here and there. It works well for me and is they way I choose to live. I admire people who work their asses off day after day, but for those who can find ways not to work traditional jobs I say more power to them, especially those who manage to turn their passion into their lively-hood.
It is unfortunate that I work but at least I work for the state where the only people benefiting are the taxpayers. I don't mind working hard for them. (No - I don't swill coffee and eat doughnuts all day. LOL).
A girlfriend of mine works for the state of CA, and really likes it. It's not my thing, but it's been cool to see her really succeed in a workplace that's a good "fit" for her.
the last job i had literally made me want to kill myself each and every day as i made the trip there. luckily i got fired. my mental health has been much better. if i could find a job that didn't negatively affect my mental well being, i'm sure i'd change my mind. i'm currently going to school to try to find a field where that might happen, although i am not having much luck.
fortunately, my boyfriend is perfectly fine with supporting me, with his income from his tutoring job, scholarships/grants, and other. just as i supported him while i worked. that's called being in a relationship, not being a leech, you know, supporting eachother. he's also said that i can just not do anything and he'd still support me, but i don't think i'd want to do absolutely nothing productive all day. i also get paid by the va (gi bill, chapter 35) to go to school, so it's not really a big deal. my finances aren't much of a burden, since the only bill either of us has is the cable/internet/phone bill. oh and food, but since both of us use both of these things, it makes sense that we should both want to put money into them at times.
i think it would be mooching if i were to have joined this relationship solely for the purpose of him supporting me financially.
and lastly, i've always wanted to set up a donation site to get something that would change my life but i don't think it'd work. i don't have online followers. and i wouldn't be offering anything in return.
Thus, I must admit it bugs me when people who sit at home all day long, fiddling with their various useless hobbies, are like "Please donate so I don't have to get a real job!" I mean, come on. Lazy and antisocial much?
Actually that seems quite fair to me. She's pretty much saying that she will get a job, but that you won't get any comics then.
If the "market" (re: readers) really want the comics, they can donate to help pay for it. Otherwise...
I wonder why she didn't have a donate button up all along? (Or maybe I missed it...)
She doesn't seem unwilling to get a job like an adult, but there is something that kind of reeks of extortion in the manner in which she informs her readers that it would interfere with the comic. There's a big difference in saying "out of necessity I am scaling back production as I have to spend more time on income-generating work" and saying "gimme money or no comic for yoooooou!" - she seems somewhere in the middle but falls closer to the latter than the former.
I'm not trying to be rude, just curious, but what about people who can't work? As someone who has lost jobs due to severe panic attacks I just said fuck it and gave up trying to keep one. I don't see myself as a moocher or a leech, just a person who can't fit into normal society enough to function like everyone else.
And let's not forget "don't like to" and "not ABLE to" are two entirely distinct things. I'm talking about the former, since it apparently needs spelling out.
It's shameful that our own system reserves assistance for people who have bred instead of providing it to anyone who genuinely cannot work, regardless of their reproductive status.
Edited at 2008-12-21 10:16 pm (UTC)
I happen to be one of those people. I can't get SSDI because I'm apparently still able to just go out and get a job with no problem. Never mind the anxiety disorder, depression, and agoraphobia. If I can't get a job, then I should have no problem getting married. At least, that's what the clown at Social Security told me last year. :|
I'm stuck living with my parents because of these disabilities. Do I like it? Absolutely not. It sucks having to be so old and most likely living with them until they die. I can't guarantee that I would find a job under the best of circumstances, let alone in this economy. Many disabled people (not all)have an unstable work history, or none at all. So finding the means to support yourself is difficult, if not outright impossible.
And no, not everyone can get assistance. I know lots of folks, myself included, who don't qualify for anything.
Working is over-rated. I don't understand why people crab at those who stay at home. If it works for them and their marriage then it's nobody else's business.
I know I'm not the only person here that's childfree in part because taking care of kids on top of working for money would leave very little time for hobbies. So it doesn't surprise me that this woman can't do it without help.
The whole "I'm a single mom, BAAAAAW!" does irk me, but I can't fault her. I don't think it's a matter of not wanting to work, because if she gets the money she'd continue the comic (presumably) and if enough people who can miss a few dollars a month enjoy her comic and think it's worth it, more power to her.
But I'd never quit my real job to bank on it.
I'd also never quit my job for a child though, so I don't want to compare myself to this woman.
I have little respect for that type.
Get a real fuckin' job, or find a way to make the webcomic work for you.
Or, even better, find some dumbass douchebag to take care of you. Especially when that dumbass douchebag has someone who's really dedicated to them and loyal and works REALLY hard with a two hour daily commute, and gets to come home to the lazy cumguzzling gutterslut talking way too fucking loud, and is ignored by the person they are totally dedicated to, and watches as the skeezy bitch makes the dumbass douchebag pay for fucking everything, food, board, fronts money for her dog's bills...
Gods I LOATHE when dumb bitches who can TOTALLY work with no problem decide not to and take advantage of others.
Edited at 2008-12-21 09:35 pm (UTC)
No, dumb bitches can be male too. But in this case they just happen to be female.
Ah, the English language an it's gender spesific insults.
Dumbfuck.
What part of the world are you in, and the real important question, is it "soda" "pop" or "Coke"?
O U SHOW'D ME!
Cumguzzling gutterslut- Slut shaming, female oriented. It is a disgusting image with the maturity of a 15 year old boy. It shows a disregard and disrespect for expressions of sexuality. If used against a male, it is insulting due to an assault on his masculinity.
What's the gender of Douchebag?
Douchebag is actually a good insult. Douches are bad for the awesomeness of vag.
Explain a little better?
So...is douchebag an appropriate insult? Why is Cumguzzling Gutterslut not when it applies just as well to men? Not like "Bitch" as that's a female dog, or Cunt, which is in reference to the female genitals. Men can be whores just as well as women can be, and they can be all about sucking as much cock as they can get?
Kind of like using 'breeder' for a BNP, when it's a part of the gay lexicon, isnt it? Words evolve, especially in a locality sense.
Slut, at least here, has evolved past being 'female' only.
Douchebag.
(It's generally an insult toward males, by the way. Like prick and asshole.)
That is what she's trying to do.
find some dumbass douchebag to take care of you.
Because women taking care of themselves and their children is a horrible, horrible curse on humanity?
lazy cumguzzling gutterslut/dumb bitches
How is it English's fault that there are no other non-sexist terms for these? Jerk and asshole just don't do it for you?
Gods I LOATHE when dumb bitches who can TOTALLY work with no problem decide not to and take advantage of others.
Seriously, shut the fuck up, and sit the fuck down. It's not that fucking easy to get a job in this economy, especially when you have children to take care of. There's the fact of who is going to look after your kids while you're job hunting, along with who will look after them if you actually get a job.
If you don't have free family members who can do this, that usually only leaves daycare. Which costs money, which is something she obviously doesn't have much of if she's asking for donations. Something that is not 'taking advantage'. Taking advantage is when you tell someone that they owe you more money than they actually do if they forget the cost or something, not asking for donations on a website that costs money and time to run.
Person B (F) is his adopted
childlover.Person C (F) is me.
Person A and C both have jobs, and are barely keeping our heads afloat in one of the most expensive areas in the US.
B wails about how hard she has it at home, and A decides that she should come live with us, but she'll be 'working' from home.
B does not work, B stays at home all day, online, and does absolutely nothing.
Therefore, B is taking advantage of C via A.
So, apparent 'sexist' remarks were directed towards B, who is, in fact, female, and doing the aforementioned things.
Do I think this about all people? No. Pretty much just her.
Sorry for hyjacking and confusing people. It's been a bad day.
That would make this resulting conversation as equally pointless.
Because I don't like ONE woman, I don't like all women?
hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women.
In other words, if people didn't believe it was insulting to say a woman enjoys swallowing semen, or that it was insulting to say a woman has had many sexual partners, these terms wouldn't exist. If it was widely considered acceptable and dignified for women to enjoy fellatio, and for a woman to have sex with whomever she wants to, neither "cumguzzling" nor "slutbucket" would be considered sensible insults.
You don't live or speak in a vacuum. So, you may believe you have magically divorced terminology from the context it has in the majority of people's minds, but you would be wrong. To properly commnunicate, you have to create meaning that makes sense for your recipients, and not just for yourself. If you fail to do that, it's not the fault of your listeners if they don't catch your drift.
Sit down and shut up like an adult. I was harassed and bullied by males all while growing up and got pinched and touched on the butt several times by said douches, but instead of whining about it I went to an all-girls school.
Um. Good for you?
By definition, I would have to hate ALL women.
Which I don't.
Going by that logic doesn't that make all of us mycologists in one way or another, as I've heard a lot of hate roll through here for one woman or another.
She has children, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to raise them herself instead of dumping them in subpar care centers / leaving them to a sitter for nine or so hours a day. Maybe unrealistic [since nobody in the household has a job], but if she wants to raise her own children, fine, let her raise them.
Your hate is completely unjustified.
I could care less about her, to be honest, there's another woman who's doing that bullshit to me and my SO in my life. I projected, and just started to rant because the wounds were fresh.
I didn't do a very good job of explaining myself.
Best to the lady webcomicker, especially if she's selling merch to keep up with it, she's not doing any wrong.
And that is a super adorable cephalopod.
I'm actually working on knitting a nudibranch...as I've already knitted a Squid. Out of awesome pink mereno yarn.
http://blog.designedlykristi.com/?p=2
Imagine him in a soft pink (With kind of wonky tentacles!)
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?li
Not sure what colors I'm going to do mine in...but those are lovely
And OMG look at this guy!
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?li
I totally recommend this person's patterns. They're cheap (The nudibranch was $4.00) and are super easy to read.
Ahaha, you know, you're pretty cool.
And thanks. ::laughs:: Really, I'm not the misognistic hatemonger I kinda came off as. Not really an excuse, it's just been a hard day and I was kind of RAWR! Yanno?
Wanna see what I'm workin' on now?
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3258/312
I have mixed feelings on this. I have no problem with telling your audience that your project is going to have to take a break while you go out and find a job. However, the not-so-subtle "donate money so I can feed my kids!" thing really rubs me the wrong way.
I definitely agree that artists should be paid for their work (being one myself), but begging people to do so is in bad taste.
X)
I don't have mine in an icon though, so I can't show you. :(
I don't have much of an issue. (Just wonder why she didn't have a donations link/button up for a while. If you're providing something that people like, I think it's peachy to have a little "Donations Appreciated" notice to let the audience know that while you are doing this for free, it ain't that easy.)
She freelances and she has (re: "looking for outside work again") probably worked a day job. This is simply a note asking people who enjoy her work to donate to make it a little easier for her to continue the Web coming otherwise she's going to have to go back to the job market (a hellish pit in itself right now) and put the thing on hold.
As to the whole working and free ride conversation in this thread:
I tend to go by a simple axiom:
If you are able bodied, then be able to support yourself.
That's not to say you shouldn't or can't work a non-trad job, or that you shouldn't/can't be a stay at home wife (or husband, or mother, father), etc; if it works in your life and relationships then bully for you. I simply think it's wise to be sure you've got some kind of back up plan if something happens to your source of support/income.
I don't like the daily grind. But, I enjoy my job for the most part. (I'm lucky in that respect.) If I could work from home in my pajamas? (Nearly) Everyday? I'd be all flippin' for it.
No one. THEY'RE FREE. Which is why in lieu of merchandise, some webcomic creators ask for donations to at least offset the amount of time invested.
Grow up, and stop being angry because an artist is seeking to follow her dreams and make it work, not as a cubicle zombie, BUT AS A PROFESSIONAL ARTIST. On the web. Deal.
And FURTHERMORE, she IS selling merchandise! Side-stories and art and wallpapers! She has ALWAYS asked for donations in return for these extras! Ugh, at least research something before you come and complain about it.
As for the discussion about 'real jobs', well, I'll be honest, I'm lucky. I work part time as a substitute teacher along with a sideline of freelance writing and crafting. (This means I have a great deal of control over my schedule, but not a lot of security. It works for me, though. Like I said, I'm lucky.) Immature is the least of the things I have been called, but I've done the traditional job, 9-5 thing and it blows great hairy balls. If someone has the skills, talent and ingenuity to find a non-trad job situation, I say more power to them.